I work in a place where there are not many asian people, of about 80 staff we have about 9 asian staff so we all get to know each other over the last few years and seemingly get on well with each other.
One of the asian female members of staff whom i get along with gave me some really nice sweets for when ramadhan started which was lovely. As the easter holidays are coming up we are all going to be off and today is effectively the last day before we all split up over the holiday period and wont see each other till after EID.
Now i share a room with another asian male colleague who is a good friend of mine and he is quite new so he doesnt know the staff as well as i do particularly the asian female colleague i mentioned earlier.
Now earlier today she sent someone else along to give my colleague next to me sweets for EID and also an EID mubarak card but i never got anything at all, i thought this is a it weird considering i got on well with her and she doesnt even know my colleague, i asked him how come you got something he shrugged his shoulders and said i dont know, he was a it surprised as well as he has never spoken to her other than hi and bye.
Now i am not the jealous type she can give sweets to whomever she wants but to give sweets to someone who she never speaks to and to not to give any to me almost feels she is making a statement by giving him sweets considering she doesnt even know him and she knows we share a room, so its like her saying "i can give it to him, not you".
What do you guys think? How do i handle this.
One of the asian female members of staff whom i get along with gave me some really nice sweets for when ramadhan started which was lovely. As the easter holidays are coming up we are all going to be off and today is effectively the last day before we all split up over the holiday period and wont see each other till after EID.
Now i share a room with another asian male colleague who is a good friend of mine and he is quite new so he doesnt know the staff as well as i do particularly the asian female colleague i mentioned earlier.
Now earlier today she sent someone else along to give my colleague next to me sweets for EID and also an EID mubarak card but i never got anything at all, i thought this is a it weird considering i got on well with her and she doesnt even know my colleague, i asked him how come you got something he shrugged his shoulders and said i dont know, he was a it surprised as well as he has never spoken to her other than hi and bye.
Now i am not the jealous type she can give sweets to whomever she wants but to give sweets to someone who she never speaks to and to not to give any to me almost feels she is making a statement by giving him sweets considering she doesnt even know him and she knows we share a room, so its like her saying "i can give it to him, not you".
What do you guys think? How do i handle this.