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I can see where he's coming from to be honest. I just watched the Womens Ashes series this last month or so and it was of poor to average quality.
Sorry if that offends anyone but it's how I feel.
I doubt it has to do with the quality of women cricket. It probably has more to do with his perception of womens' role in society.
I doubt it has to do with the quality of women cricket. It probably has more to do with his perception of womens' role in society.
I've seen that and it's a stupid and daft view to hold but he is entitled to it. Obviously, 75% of Pakistan's men would probably hold very similar views so it shouldn't be a shock to anyone. Probably equally disappointing to see a mod condoning this view especially considering this site is here to promote and present Pakistan cricket and it shouldn't matter whether it's the men's team or the women's.
That being said, one of my cousins actually plays for the women's team and she said Afridi was rude and obnoxious towards the women practicing at the NCA. She said that Afridi would tell the women that they should wear the hijab while Moyo was also disapproving and rude to them. The Akmal brothers, on the other hand, have been very nice and supportive. They even pass on cricketing equipment to the girls which is very nice of them.
The tableeghi jamaat is always going to hold us back in sports though unfortunately.
The percentage is very specific. How long did it take you to poll all of the men in Pakistan?!
The percentage is very specific. How long did it take you to poll all of the men in Pakistan?!
You know it's an estimate. You only have to look at the other posts in this thread to see what the general perception might be. Not sure why you're even offended. You're one of those that condoned the remarks. It's odd that you take offence to my accusation towards Pakistani men for being misogynist while being a misogynist yourself.
You know it's an estimate. You only have to look at the other posts in this thread to see what the general perception might be.
what did he say, youtube doesnt work in pak
Eh?
How many people do have access to Internet in pakistan?
Of those how many even know about cricket forums?
How many even know about pp?
And, How many of those with knowledge of forums/logged in will bother to reply?
Internet users eventually get a better understanding of other parts of the world and psyche of people and trends, and many tend to become more mature with their thinking. Even then you see some utter dumb comments from old/Sr members here.
The theories and ideas some people put forward here are pure comedy gold.
For those that can't see it: http://tune.pk/video/761111/shahid
I get the feeling he said that without thinking and after he realized what he said he just said to move on.![]()
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I honestly disagree with him. I want women to play sports and compete at the highest level. Yes we are the minnows of Womens cricket and the entire women cricket section barely gets any coverage and does not have good quality but i still want us to unearth some female talent and rise in this world. Its very tough for them to do it especially with all the controversies and lack of facilities.
I don't think this is Lol situation, this shows not only the ignorance of Afridi but all the other posters who think his sexist remarks are funny.
You know it's an estimate. You only have to look at the other posts in this thread to see what the general perception might be. Not sure why you're even offended. You're one of those that condoned the remarks. It's odd that you take offence to my accusation towards Pakistani men for being misogynist while being a misogynist yourself.
I don't know what you're getting at. Are you just playing 20 questions or do you have a point? The 75% is not based on the responses on this site so far, it's an estimate having lived in the country and knowing a fair bit about it (more than you I can safely say). It just so happens, that the majority of the responses seem to back my opinion. And to be brutally honest, I'd expect less misogynist responses on PP than I would on the streets of Pakistan. That again is my opinion.
I heard about this comment a few weeks ago, but didn't add a thread given that I had no video evidence.
I am huge fan of Shahid Afridi, and would probably rank him as my second most favourite cricketer from the country after Wasim Akram, but his habit of opening his mouth too often has always disappointed me.
The depth of the comment needs to be highlighted: he hasn't only expressed his opinion against the idea of women's cricket, but has confined them to the kitchen altogether. So the comment is not at all related to the quality of cricket on show in women's case. What are his thoughts on a Pakistani woman becoming a lawyer, doctor etc.? Well, not too positive if I have interpreted the comment rightly.
We are sadly left with only two possibilities:
1. His view is a reflection of our society or culture in general, that his backward mentality hasn't changed despite being an international cricketer who must have seen different progressed cultures and societies of the world. Before we act like warriors and defend our culture, people need to put the women's cricket debate aside for a while and ponder how many people in the country actually even favour women being educated or allowed to earn for themselves.
2. The other possibility is that this is not a reflection of our culture at all as our people welcome women's cricket with an open heart, but he himself however possesses a backward mind.
Whereas I don't rule out the possibility of a combination of the above two and some middle ground, I must say that many girls out there in our country who dream to play cricket must have felt extremely disappointed to see such a comment from a cricketer himself.
What Afridi needs to realise is that it is a matter of perception: some, a minority it may just be, do think that cricket is spoiling the youth in general and is preventing them from serving their religion. Does he know that he misses the daily prayers when he plays cricket? What if tomorrow someone says that even men look good only when they engage in an activity that doesn't prevent them from performing their religious duties on regular basis?
Excellent and elaborative post, I would go with your 2nd option, as we have seen, majority of the people even Moulvi group has no problem women playing cricket except his personal views are still limited to zamana-e-jahaliat as he himself did not finish the middle school.
I support Lala on this one, women cricket makes no sense. This is just not a girly game, i am sorry no matter how hard they try, they'd always look silly and second grade.
Excellent and elaborative post, I would go with your 2nd option, as we have seen, majority of the people even Moulvi group has no problem women playing cricket except his personal views are still limited to zamana-e-jahaliat as he himself did not finish the middle school.
I support Lala on this one, women cricket makes no sense. This is just not a girly game, i am sorry no matter how hard they try, they'd always look silly and second grade.
And the quality of women's cricket is atrocious.
Calling me a "misogynistic" for not like Women's cricket is pretty laughable
I guess if you don't like it you're a misogynist. Grow up for goodness sake and learn what that actually means.
I swear some people are some far up their own backsides.
Your 75% was specific, no where did you state is was an estimate. Back-peddling fast isn't helping either.
I support Lala on this one, women cricket makes no sense. This is just not a girly game, i am sorry no matter how hard they try, they'd always look silly and second grade.
And the quality of women's cricket is atrocious.
It's just not within his culture and he has a right to express his views.
Yes but in the right way.
Not in a sarcastic way.
A true cricket fan wouldat his response.
He could have done a lot worse and trashed women's cricket.
The status of women in Asia is very very low compared to the west. Afridi's comments merely reflect the society he is from. No point blaming him. If you want the problem to be fixed education and equal chances are whats required.
You're a misogynist when you condone remarks like the ones Afridi made. You said it yourself, you understand where he is coming from. Then you make silly excuses for him by talking about the quality of cricket when you know that is not at all what he was talking about.
Alright, I'll say majority of men instead of 75%. Does that make a difference in your life?
It's silly that you are hung up on a number because you aren't brave enough to accept the backwardness of your society.
Look mate, I don't know what exactly has crawled up your trouser leg today but I didn't condone Afridi's comments, I said I know where he was coming from. There's a difference.
I don't make excuses for Afridi, and never have, nor am I his fan-boy, so maybe you should do your research.
It doesn't make a difference in my life but it sure as hell shows what kinda poster you are. Some users above have pulled you up on that comment so you backtrack. No skin off my nose.
Now it's become my society, has it. Now whose generalising? What a pathetic comment.
I respect women, but that doesn't mean I have to like a specific sport just because people like you name-tag anyone that say's otherwise.
I've seen that and it's a stupid and daft view to hold but he is entitled to it. Obviously, 75% of Pakistan's men would probably hold very similar views so it shouldn't be a shock to anyone. Probably equally disappointing to see a mod condoning this view especially considering this site is here to promote and present Pakistan cricket and it shouldn't matter whether it's the men's team or the women's.
That being said, one of my cousins actually plays for the women's team and she said Afridi was rude and obnoxious towards the women practicing at the NCA. She said that Afridi would tell the women that they should wear the hijab while Moyo was also disapproving and rude to them. The Akmal brothers, on the other hand, have been very nice and supportive. They even pass on cricketing equipment to the girls which is very nice of them.
The tableeghi jamaat is always going to hold us back in sports though unfortunately.
1. Sure sounded like you were making an excuse for him unless you can honestly say that you genuinely believed the remark was in regards to the quality of women's cricket and not his views that women should be locked up in a burqa.
2. I haven't backtracked because it's irrelevant whether it's most men or 75% of the men. The point of the matter is that in Pakistani culture, you'll often hear someone say this percent or that percent and it's not based on anything but it's generally assumed that it is an estimate. It's just people talk but you're a little too hung up the 75.
3. I've been generalizing the whole time. When I said most men or 75% it was a generalization. It doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong because it is an opinion. In my opinion, the Pakistani society is intolerant and extremist than ever at any point in it's history. Again in my opinion, Taliban and other extreme elements roam free enforcing their backward (what I consider backward could be progressive for Afridi) beliefs on people without no real backlash. Whether it's a generalization is irrelevant because it's my opinion but you can call me Anti-Pakistan if you'd like and that would be your opinion.
4. The real question is would you respect a cricket playing woman as much as a hijab-wearing roti-making woman? Because, it's plain to see that is what Afridi's argument is. That women should wear hijabs and stay in the kitchen rather than play sports is sexist. I don't know whether you hold similar views but you shouldn't make excuses for Afridi's own beliefs.
1. Sure sounded like you were making an excuse for him unless you can honestly say that you genuinely believed the remark was in regards to the quality of women's cricket and not his views that women should be locked up in a burqa.
2. I haven't backtracked because it's irrelevant whether it's most men or 75% of the men. The point of the matter is that in Pakistani culture, you'll often hear someone say this percent or that percent and it's not based on anything but it's generally assumed that it is an estimate. It's just people talk but you're a little too hung up the 75.
3. I've been generalizing the whole time. When I said most men or 75% it was a generalization. It doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong because it is an opinion. In my opinion, the Pakistani society is intolerant and extremist than ever at any point in it's history. Again in my opinion, Taliban and other extreme elements roam free enforcing their backward (what I consider backward could be progressive for Afridi) beliefs on people without no real backlash. Whether it's a generalization is irrelevant because it's my opinion but you can call me Anti-Pakistan if you'd like and that would be your opinion.
4. The real question is would you respect a cricket playing woman as much as a hijab-wearing roti-making woman? Because, it's plain to see that is what Afridi's argument is. That women should wear hijabs and stay in the kitchen rather than play sports is sexist. I don't know whether you hold similar views but you shouldn't make excuses for Afridi's own beliefs.
Let's forget shahid afridi for a minute
Name me one pakistani female cricket player
Name me the leading wicket taker all time for pakistani women?
Can you answer them questions
r are you only a selective feminist when it suits you
Sana Mir. Shazia Khan. Kiran Baluch. That's 3.
I don't know the stats for women's cricket but I am not asking them to stop playing cricket.
Was this a serious argument? If you didn't know the astronaut with the most number of moonwalks would that imply that you believe NASA should shut down all it's space related missions.
Sana Mir. Shazia Khan. Kiran Baluch. That's 3.
I don't know the stats for women's cricket but I am not asking them to stop playing cricket.
Was this a serious argument? If you didn't know the astronaut with the most number of moonwalks would that imply that you believe NASA should shut down all it's space related missions.
1. My reply was regarding cricket, as the title suggested, not Women per say. I don't know how I became a misogynist related to what I said.
2. You stated the number as being 75%, not me or anyone else. There was no background or any scientific ruling to suggest that. That is my issue. It could've been 7% and I would point the same thing out. Of course there's issue in Pakistan regarding women, but so is there in India and the whole of Asia and the world but you cannot put a figure on it.
3. Now in your opinion "Pakistani society is intolerant and extremist", but it's okay to say that because it's your opinion, It doesn't matter if you're Generalising and it shouldn't really matter because.....It's your opinion......yet I state something as simple as I don't like women's cricket......in your humble opinion I'm a misogynistGood argument.
4. I wouldn't stop a woman doing what she loves, and if that means playing cricket, the so be it. Doesn't make me want to stop what I'm doing and watch it on TV.
You should also realise Afridi and the "75%" of Pakistani men are not the only ones that are sexist. Just look at America and it's recent legislation limiting women’s rights, or see what's happening in the UK and the capital with women's rights.
Yes it's ignorant and stupid of him but let's not act as if this is a one-off situation to only Asian culture because that's how it sounds like to everyone reading your posts.
The point is you pounced on one comment by shahid afridi to come to the conclusion that both shahid afridi and tj are anti women and they are the reason women are not allowed to progress in pakistan
Forgetting that this argument was put to the test in afg and once the taliban went
, the women had even less rights and marriage rape was legalised for a period by karzai
That's if we agree with the argument that the statement was misogynist
We have people on the forum who like to offer interpretations on various ayah of the quran
but this statement is much more ambigiuous
is afridi
a) saying women should only stay in the kitchen
b) that u19 women should know how to cook because that might help prepare them for life
c) that he finds the whole topic montonous and has watched more women cook than play cricket
d) that his stomach is rumbling and he can only think of food
If this comment was said by someone without a beard, would you be so quick to pounce on the words and subject a whole demograph to the label of being sexist or is it easy because it 's afridi to label him and be completely islamophobic based on one vague statement