Bangladeshi cricketer's wife accuses him of torture over dowry

[Abdullah719]

Bangladeshi cricketer Mosaddek Hossain Saikat's wife has accused him of driving her out of their home and torturing her over dowry, a media report said today. Mosaddek, 22, who married his cousin Sharmin Samira Usha six years ago, has been included in the Bangladesh squad for the upcoming 50-over cricket tournament Asia Cup to be held from September 13-28 in the UAE. Additional Chief Judicial Magistrate Rosina Khan admitted the charges brought by Usha against the middle-order batsman yesterday and ordered the Sadar Upazila executive officer to investigate the case, bdnews24.com reported.

Mosaddek has been torturing Usha for dowry for a long time, her lawyer Rezaul Karim Dulal alleged. "He (Mosaddek) tortured her and drove her out of home for 1 million taka (USD 12,003) in dowry on August 15," he claimed.

The report said that the cricketer did not immediately respond for comments on the case.

"They have been in disagreement since they married," the cricketer's brother Mosabber Hossain Moon said.

Mosaddek sent her a divorce letter on August 15 but she demanded more money than mentioned in the marriage documents, the brother claimed.

"She has started the case after spreading false and misleading information as she did not get the money," Mosabber alleged.

https://sports.ndtv.com/cricket/ban...ife-accuses-him-of-torture-over-dowry-1906775

 

[ExplicitAI]

May Allah protect from such situations in life, I really hope nobody experiences life events such as these; they're not worth it.

 

[moghul]

He is 22 and married six years ago, he was 16 ? and his wife, what 14 ? And married his cousin ??

 

[JaDed]

He is 22 and married six years ago, he was 16 ? and his wife, what 14 ? And married his cousin ??

Exactly what I thought as well.I guess it was a misprint and they meant 6 months or something.

 

[Pakistanian]

This is messed up. First of all 22 is too young get married un this day and age and what's worse is that he was married at the age of 16 (obviously not his choice). This marriage should be annulled. This is all kinds of messed up.

 

[Varun]

Pretty sure the Auntie Brigade had a strong say in him getting married at the age that he did - be it 16 or 22.

 

[Cpt. Rishwat]

This is messed up. First of all 22 is too young get married un this day and age and what's worse is that he was married at the age of 16 (obviously not his choice). This marriage should be annulled. This is all kinds of messed up.

22 is young by western standards, but that is because people date and have relations with the opposite sex basically when they hit their teens. In Bangladesh if you are waiting until you are 22 to have sexual relations that can cause unnatural frustration. Desi countries need to rethink this idea. If 22 is too young for marriage, then there should be more widespread acceptance of dating and conjugal relationships outside of marriage.

 

[troodon]

22 is young by western standards, but that is because people date and have relations with the opposite sex basically when they hit their teens. In Bangladesh if you are waiting until you are 22 to have sexual relations that can cause unnatural frustration. Desi countries need to rethink this idea. If 22 is too young for marriage, then there should be more widespread acceptance of dating and conjugal relationships outside of marriage.

100% Agreed.

 

[CricketCartoons]

100% Agreed.

Till 25 you should be concentrating on your studies or improving vocational skills. This is not the time to do such ghatiyapan.

 

[Pakistanian]

22 is young by western standards, but that is because people date and have relations with the opposite sex basically when they hit their teens. In Bangladesh if you are waiting until you are 22 to have sexual relations that can cause unnatural frustration. Desi countries need to rethink this idea. If 22 is too young for marriage, then there should be more widespread acceptance of dating and conjugal relationships outside of marriage.

I'm all for dating and hitting fourth base, celibacy today is very different from what it was 1400 years ago. It's like the circumstances have changed drastically yet people still think we have to follow rules from over a thousand years ago and that G-d will supposedly punish use for not abstaining.

 

[troodon]

Till 25 you should be concentrating on your studies or improving vocational skills. This is not the time to do such ghatiyapan.

Yes you should concentrate on education. But the hormones will not understand that. There should be release points.
Interaction between males and females need to be encouraged. Otherwise, most of these youngsters grow up becoming perverts and awkward adults.

 

[CricketCartoons]

Yes you should concentrate on education. But the hormones will not understand that. There should be release points.
Interaction between males and females need to be encouraged. Otherwise, most of these youngsters grow up becoming perverts and awkward adults.

Then say good bye to character. if the youth cannot learn some self control and only want to gratify themselves, well, good luck to such generation.

trolling should also be within limits. Please don't encourage such things.

 

[Cpt. Rishwat]

I'm all for dating and hitting fourth base, celibacy today is very different from what it was 1400 years ago. It's like the circumstances have changed drastically yet people still think we have to follow rules from over a thousand years ago and that G-d will supposedly punish use for not abstaining.

God doesn't ask you to abstain, you can get married at 16 and do everything that you would do if you were otherwise in relations with a girl or boy. That is the halal method I believe, and I don't know what the Baghavat Gita method is, but probably similar as Hindus had child marriages traditionally.

 

[troodon]

Then say good bye to character. if the youth cannot learn some self control and only want to gratify themselves, well, good luck to such generation.

trolling should also be within limits. Please don't encourage such things.

Character also says good bye when the youngsters grow up and become super tharkis.

The best thing to do is, let girls and boys inter mingle. That way these boys will also stop seeing women as meat.

 

[CricketCartoons]

Character also says good bye when the youngsters grow up and become super tharkis.

The best thing to do is, let girls and boys inter mingle. That way these boys will also stop seeing women as meat.

I studied in boys school..never had friendship with girls even in college. Now I am married. Everyone who knows me praises me for the respect I show to women. Everyone knows I don't like to boast, but this character was built from an early stage when I knew there is time and place for everything, and patience is the key.

 

[CricketCartoons]

Also how cleverly Cpt Rishwat has turned the topic of dowry and domestic abuse into that of having jismani rishta outside wedlock.

 

[Cpt. Rishwat]

Also how cleverly Cpt Rishwat has turned the topic of dowry and domestic abuse into that of having jismani rishta outside wedlock.

On the contrary, I am the one who is making the case for early marriage in eastern countries, everyone else was tsk-tsking at betrothal at 22 as if they are all living in California. If Bangladesh and the other desi countries decide that marriage isn't a good idea after all, then dating and such will happen anyway.

 

[CricketCartoons]

On the contrary, I am the one who is making the case for early marriage in eastern countries, everyone else was tsk-tsking at betrothal at 22 as if they are all living in California. If Bangladesh and the other desi countries decide that marriage isn't a good idea after all, then dating and such will happen anyway.

It may happen, but no need to give it legitimacy just because it happens.

 

[MoJoJoJo]

I studied in boys school..never had friendship with girls even in college. Now I am married. Everyone who knows me praises me for the respect I show to women. Everyone knows I don't like to boast, but this character was built from an early stage when I knew there is time and place for everything, and patience is the key.

100% agree with you.

 

[MenInG]

BD cricketers seem to be in a lot of crisis nowadays at a personal level. Could be the money which is causing this.

 

[sjahmed23]

BD cricketers seem to be in a lot of crisis nowadays at a personal level. Could be the money which is causing this.

When they do snake dance after some small win, it is such a classless act, so I'm not surprised they are embroiled in all these controversies. Certainly lacking maturity.

 

[MenInG]

When they do snake dance after some small win, it is such a classless act, so I'm not surprised they are embroiled in all these controversies. Certainly lacking maturity.

Well we had Butt Amir and Asif also indulging in classless acts.

 

[Realromeo]

This guy has an insane FC average. Is $12,000 a big deal to these guys ?

 

[hiyuo]

This is messed up. First of all 22 is too young get married un this day and age and what's worse is that he was married at the age of 16 (obviously not his choice). This marriage should be annulled. This is all kinds of messed up.

I seriously don't understand opinions like this. Why is marrying at 22 considered messed up, when majority of the European/British/Western population are knocked up by then. In England, in the high school I attended, about 80% of the girls had a child before 21 and that is seen acceptable by most of the people, yet marriage at that age is seen as "messed up"? You need to rethink your logic. Being a parent at that age is far worse than being married, so why does one get applauded at 21, while the latter gets looked down?

 

[Pakistanian]

Well we had Butt Amir and Asif also indulging in classless acts.

Didn't know it was still 2010.

 

[Nikhil_cric]

God doesn't ask you to abstain, you can get married at 16 and do everything that you would do if you were otherwise in relations with a girl or boy. That is the halal method I believe, and I don't know what the Baghavat Gita method is, but probably similar as Hindus had child marriages traditionally.

Not everywhere. We are actually not supposed to marry till the guys are 25 and the girls -18.

 

[Cpt. Rishwat]

Not everywhere. We are actually not supposed to marry till the guys are 25 and the girls -18.

So is the idea that you should stay celibate until then?