Hard to say, I dont find myself being patriotic anymore as it view it as being born in a country just because my parents lived there.
But than same theory gets applied when we used to the concept of family. Thus why should one have any relations with their family members. Recently, when i met my family members on eid, i kept on thinking, that if I was not born in this family, these very same people that were greeting me wouldn't be even talking to me.
Funny concept.
However, having a country gives you an identity and protection of somewhat. Recently, i studied about Rohingyan Muslims, the Rwanda incident, Kashmir, and other ethnical issues that exists in Africa and Middle East
I realized that many of us take patriotism for granted. We dont love our nation only because we are not in danger due to our ethnicity, but there are countries in the world where ethnic cleansing goes on and you end up finding them no country to protect them. We seriously over look the protection a country provides us. No matter how corrupt or lawless it is, but if you are not suffering from ethnic cleansing or under the rule of another country (India over Kashmir), you are blessed with the country's protection.
We just cant see it, it is not tangible, thus we develop such thoughts.
I am still trying to understand this concept. I think, we start to feel less patriotic or lose the love for our country when the country we used to love fails to live up to the ideals we set.
I always wished to see the Canadian society exists in Pakistan. I wished that we all were treated as citizens, the govt did its job, the garbage was picked up from the curb, there wasnt major difference in income levels etc etc.
But when the idealism fails, we maybe start to lose respect and love for our country..
I for one have accepted Pakistan is not gonna change no matter what. The subcontinent and the people of subcontinent are cursed sadly