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As a Pakistani, who do you feel close to?

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As a Pakistani which countries/ cultures you feel closes to?

For me I think North Indians are culturally closes, but after that it has to be west Asians like Afghans, Iranians, Arabs, Turks. Then comes places like South India/Sri Lanka.
 
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It’s hard trying to determine whether what lies west of us is closer culturally than what lies east, or vice versa. What lies across either border has at one time or another exerted influence that encroached well past what is now Pakistan. Add in the influence of Islam (taken separately from the Turkic/Afghan/Persian cultural contribution, if that were at all possible), and the more recent British colonial element, and it gets complicated even further.

I’ve given up attempting to reconcile the various cultural affinities and antagonisms and influences into some sort of coherent theory. Some things just are, and should simply be celebrated and marveled at. They should be understood, but with the realization that doing so isn’t a simple endervour and the end result would not necessarily be a successful compartmentalization of the aforementioned influences into discrete entities. Just as the present is the sum total of everything that has occurred up to that point, who we are culturally is also a sum total, one whose constituents are fuzzy enough to blur into each other.

Of course if I had to choose, I would say that the western (immediately west of Pakistan) influence is the one I value more, and the one I’m most fascinated by.
 
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Here in America, mostly Asians, moreso Indians and most of all Arabs (a lot of it cuz of the religion).
 
I only really feel close to other Pakistanis... Indians I generally stay away from.
 
I only really feel close to other Pakistanis... Indians I generally stay away from.

But you said that during university time you used to chill with indian punjabi guy, you used to take jhoote in his car while listening carrry on...carry on..carry on jatta......
 
But you said that during university time you used to chill with indian punjabi guy, you used to take jhoote in his car while listening carrry on...carry on..carry on jatta......

That was during an internship for a 6 month period. I said I generally stay away from Indians meaning I do not have a lot of Indian friends, but I can chill with them if required. :uakmal
 
Indians. Culture/food/language etc is similar. When I meet indian international students at my uni, I speak to them and we tend to get on.
 
As an Indian, I feel closest to Bangladeshis. Next comes Urdu speaking Pakistanis. Among South Indians, only feel close to Telugu Speakers whom I find very cool.
 
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Most of the Indians I grew up with were British North Indians so very similar backgrounds. There were no Arabs or blacks in my region at that time, although there are plenty now. Culturally, any British born desi would be closest, the immigrants less so, but still can be very interesting characters.
 
As someone who lives about only one hour drive from the border, I feel More closer to Sindhis. That might also be due to the fact that I have some cousins over there.
In India it's Haryanvis.
 
I feel closest to Indians and Afghans and to lesser extent Turks.
 
As someone who lives about only one hour drive from the border, I feel More closer to Sindhis. That might also be due to the fact that I have some cousins over there.
In India it's Haryanvis.

Haryana kyu ?
 
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