So I get what you say about delusion. I have lost a lot of faith in people in the last five years. So many will never admit they were misinformed and made a mistake.
This discussion is, in my opinion, irreconcilable.
Leavers “won’t admit they were misinformed and made a mistake” for a very simple reason: because they feel that they made an informed decision from their perspective, and that they didn’t make a mistake.
You think that they are wrong, and they think that you are equally wrong.
The UK now has genuine national sovereignty and the ultimate jurisdiction over its own laws. (Unlike Poland, which is currently locked in a bitter dispute with the EU over a particular legal decision.) Remainers don’t rate the concept nor the price of national and legal sovereignty, and on a daily basis they write off sovereignty as intangible and inconsequential — that is, naturally, why they are Remainers.
Remainers are content for the UK to be legally and rhetorically subordinate to a separate neoliberal supranational body, with the EU also getting unlimited and unmonitored border entry into the UK — Remainers do not care about these costs, or even consider them to be costs, and they don’t feel that these things affect them — in return, the UK gets favourable terms of continental trade from the EU, and it is easier for British people to study at college in a different country or to go on a European holiday.
Leavers, conversely, don’t know or care about a thing called Erasmus (which was, incidentally, being utilised by less than 0.5% of UK students aboard), and they don’t care about more easily going on holiday. Many Leavers didn’t get a university degree, can’t afford to go on a holiday, and have not even ventured outside of their local region of the country for years. We’ve all seen which areas voted to leave, and which voted to remain. There was a very clear and very obvious class divide in play.
The sense of national sovereignty, the communitarian/imagined idea of “nation”, and a Canada-Australia-New Zealand style of managed inward immigration, delivers a more important package for Leavers than the benefits of EU membership <I>as they see it.</I> Leavers, contrary to the controversial adage, actually *did* know what they were voting for.
Remainers and Leavers are two separate groups of people that have fundamentally different mindsets, beliefs, and systems of value. That’s ultimately all there is to it — and that’s why they will never agree.