I watched a portion of the Raazi movie recently where a Kashmiri girl married a Pakistan person but she was an Indian spy. She is putting her country over her family in that movie. Similarly, I also see people in many countries sending there sons to join army and put nation over family. Is there is something like a country over family or is it that the big, larger purpose gives people more fulfillment? I am grappling with this - is it that the country is big purpose and family is small purpose? If a person dies serving the country, the country loses one person but their families maybe devastated.