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Dulwich College named in accusations of rape culture

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Displayed in the windows of the sports hall at James Allen's Girls' School in South London is a montage of posters.

Normally, forthcoming events and activities would be publicised here.

But not today.


Instead, covering the front of the building are the testimonies — handwritten in mainly big, pink letters — of young women at the leading private school who say they are victims of 'predatory' boys at neighbouring £44,340-a-year Dulwich College.

They make for uncomfortable reading.

'I SAID NO . . . HE DIDN'T LISTEN, wrote one pupil. 'WHY DOES ALCOHOL EXCUSE HIS ACTIONS BUT CONDEMNS HERS?,' asks another.

'I HAVE BEEN TOLD I WOULD PROBABLY LIKE TO BE RAPED,' says a third.

Among the claims, including accusations of 'groping, harassing, assaulting, drugging, coercing, filming, and upskirting,' is a message for the parents of the privileged elite who attend Dulwich: 'EDUCATE YOUR SONS.'

The poster campaign at the sports hall, which is open to the public, highlights, in a very powerful way, the allegations which have engulfed the public school establishment over the past week or so.

The seemingly unstoppable flood of claims, that many of the country's most gilded educational institutions have become a 'breeding ground for sexual predators', is reminiscent of the #MeToo Movement in 2018, which led to film producer Harvey Weinstein's downfall.

Westminster, St Paul's, Eton, Latymer, Highgate and King's College, Wimbledon, have already been 'named and shamed' in thousands of anonymous online accounts.

Hardly a day seems to pass without another famous school being added to the growing list of elite educational establishments accused of presiding over what has been widely described as a 'toxic rape culture'.

And now many boys and their parents are terrified the situation is about to escalate, with news that a small number of Dulwich College boys have been reported to the police by their headmaster after individuals came forward to identify them as 'abusers'.

Some have already been disciplined, but where there is evidence of potentially criminal behaviour, they have been reported to Scotland Yard by headmaster Dr Joseph Spence who has written to parents to apologise 'to anyone who has experienced abuse or harassment perpetrated by a pupil of Dulwich College'.

Many of the horror stories posted in open letters and on specially set-up websites are from former pupils.

However, the police investigation and the poster protest at James Allen Girls' School (Jags), the oldest independent girls' school in London, bring the allegations very much into the present.

'I won't be quiet,' is the defiant message in one of the windows. Similar slogans are pinned to the school gates. Yet, it is claimed that, until now, many girls have remained silent.

Today, a former Jags pupil has waived their right to anonymity to speak to the Mail about an allegation that they were raped by a 'DC' (Dulwich College) boy three years ago when they were 17.

Izzy Myatt, 21, was 'too ashamed' to report what happened at the time, saying: 'I still feel uneasy even driving past the school.'

Another pupil, Georgina Edwards, also 21, told us how she was 14 when she was first asked for naked pictures of herself by an older boy at Dulwich and that a polling app was used to rate girls at Jags, the sister school of Dulwich, under such headings as 'f***, marry, kill'.

It is this casual, everyday misogyny which seems to have become normalised that is the most shocking aspect of the tsunami of allegations that are now emerging.

Misogyny and the treatment of girls as little more than meat was certainly a recurrent theme during our investigation into the sex culture at British schools (not just private schools but all schools) this week.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...ate-school-rape-culture-wont-silent-more.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...ate-school-rape-culture-wont-silent-more.html


We are talking about a school where places cost £44,000 a year for the privilege. Do they think because they are from elite families normal rules don't apply to them? Or is this perhaps more widespread than we think?
 
I have heard similar things about elite private schools in US. However i dont think its very prevalent.
 
I have heard similar things about elite private schools in US. However i dont think its very prevalent.

Well this story is gaining ground today with reports that the problem extends to state schools as well with one of Britain's most senior police chiefs claiming that school heads are covering up allegations in order to protect their reputation.Nearly 100 private schools and 75 state schools have been named on the Everyone's Invited website which details testimonies of female victims.

It's being described as the MeToo movement for schools. I suppose the defence would be that boys will be boys from those who are a bit more old fashioned.
 
It reminds me of my HS we had a private colledge and private school in our town

So casual sex culture was pretty normal (even the absolute nerds in our HS had body counts) -I guess it was the culture of the place

So with that kind of culture what are you expecting to happen from boys in their teens

Sure the forced part is f'ed up and he'll get slapped by even thier friends for something like that

But you think the subtler parts of rape will be respected with that kind of culture and expectations of girls from boys themselves

I don't think so!

The kind of lifestyle that takes place in private girls colledges and private schools

Attracts wrong kind of crowd, the kind of crowd that is on every fringe dating site looking for casual sex or they are sex addicts

My close friend suffered from it he missed numerous boys hangout in the middle of our plans just cause he got a reply on some weird app and he has to travel to different counties just to meet her

And more often than not you know who brought him for casual sex - the private school/college crowd

Just like certain lifestyle attracts diseases for men and many other side affects due to sexual addiction

Lifestyle.of.private.school, solledge crowd attracts not the relationship type crowd but the use and abuse crowd.

They're likely to engage in rape like activity cause they were never there for relationship building but just for sex

So just like are taught about diseases, protection some kind of teaching should also take place for women on how to handle tham selves and protect themselves against this "crowd" of genuine freak, psychos

But honestly just discourage this use and abuse culture...
Society needs relationships this serves no purpose for the good of the society only a bad lifestyle that can cause potential trauma
 
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