Faryal Makhdoom's spat with Amir Khan's family [in-laws respond #69, Amir Khan #102]

[Gabbar Singh]

It seems poor King Khan is stuck between his wife and his family at the moment. His wife has been airing dirty family laundry on social media.

Amir Khan’s wife, Faryal Makhdoom, slams boxer’s ‘bullying’ family and calls his sister ‘evil’ in shocking Snapchat outburst
She calls the family's treatment of her husband "disgusting" and puts their alleged actions down to jealousy

THE wife of boxer Amir Khan has accused the star’s family of “bullying” her and claims her “evil, hating sister-in-law” even tried to HIT her.

Faryal Makhdoom, 25, made the shock allegations in series of Snapchat posts.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/23499...is-sister-evil-in-shocking-snapchat-outburst/

 

[KingKhanWC]

Wow, is this really legit?

She is very annoying tbh, hangs off Amir's fame and is all about looks, fashion etc..

I don't know if it's just me but I find this very common amongst Pakistani and Indian households, rarely the sister, mother get on with the wife. I wonder why?

 

[Syed1]

Never good to air dirty laundry in public. Sorry madam keep your domestic issues.....domestic.

 

[troodon]

Wow, is this really legit?

She is very annoying tbh, hangs off Amir's fame and is all about looks, fashion etc..

I don't know if it's just me but I find this very common amongst Pakistani and Indian households, rarely the sister, mother get on with the wife. I wonder why?

The problem of sharing and let go.

Indian Mothers and Sisters are extremely attached to their brothers. When an outsider (wife) comes all of a sudden, they feel threatened by the new person as he starts showing more interest in his wife.

Not to forget the concept of Dowry (Dahej). In-Laws expect the daughter-in-law to bring in all kinds of gifts/cash/Gold along with her. The Husband's sister also competes fiercely for the gifts. Wife will be disgusted from the get go.

 

[Suleiman]

typical desi household problems, not condoning them because they make mostly the wife's and sometimes the husband's lives a living hell as their extended family tries to leech them of their happiness, but it's better to not let this leak to the media esp if you're relatively famous.

shoulda confronted Amir face to face.

should take a leaf out of Sania/Malik's book.

 

[in_cutter]

typical desi household problems, not condoning them because they make mostly the wife's and sometimes the husband's lives a living hell as their extended family tries to leech them of their happiness, but it's better to not let this leak to the media esp if you're relatively famous.

shoulda confronted Amir face to face.

should take a leaf out of Sania/Malik's book.

Hence the couple should move out ASAP to avoid any conflict.

 

[KingKhanWC]

The problem of sharing and let go.

Indian Mothers and Sisters are extremely attached to their brothers. When an outsider (wife) comes all of a sudden, they feel threatened by the new person as he starts showing more interest in his wife.

Not to forget the concept of Dowry (Dahej). In-Laws expect the daughter-in-law to bring in all kinds of gifts/cash/Gold along with her. The Husband's sister also competes fiercely for the gifts. Wife will be disgusted from the get go.

I guess it's better to live in separate houses for a start.

I did see Amir post on IG he had just bought his parents a new house, maybe it was related to this beef with his wife.

 

[Suleiman]

also she's a model iirc, so naturally the backwards desiness in the mother and sister in law crept up as it's looked down upon unfortunately for a woman to work in a field like that in our culture. so now they are channelling the anger of their insecurities towards her.

best course of action is to move out.

 

[KingKhanWC]

also she's a model iirc, so naturally the backwards desiness in the mother and sister in law crept up as it's looked down upon unfortunately for a woman to work in a field like that in our culture. so now they are channelling the anger of their insecurities towards her.

best course of action is to move out.

No I don't think she is a model. She does the odd catwalk and fashion show but this is off the back of Amir's fame.

Also Amir's family are not backward at all imo, they wouldn't have let him marry a complete stranger if this was the case.

 

[PetroDollars]

i have known a few families where these problems exist. Typical desi mentality, they want there daughter-in-law to be typical slave to them like back home in Pakistan, massage the mothers and fathers feet and legs, do all the cooking for the whole extended family and wash all the dishes etc.

 

[The_KING]

That's why after marriage sons shouldn't live with their parents and family anymore. Unfortunately in our backwards culture, sons stay with their parents forever even after marriage. Feel sorry for Faryal and I hope Amir does the right thing unlike most Pakistani men and stand up for his wife.

 

[Cpt. Rishwat]

Never good to air dirty laundry in public. Sorry madam keep your domestic issues.....domestic.

On the whole I agree with this, but if anyone was going to sort this out it should have been Amir. Seems like he's been unable to deal with it and his wife has resorted to taking it public. Doesn't reflect well on him.

 

[Bewal Express]

The problem of sharing and let go.

Indian Mothers and Sisters are extremely attached to their brothers. When an outsider (wife) comes all of a sudden, they feel threatened by the new person as he starts showing more interest in his wife.

Not to forget the concept of Dowry (Dahej). In-Laws expect the daughter-in-law to bring in all kinds of gifts/cash/Gold along with her. The Husband's sister also competes fiercely for the gifts. Wife will be disgusted from the get go.

Totally agree with the 1st paragraph and my experience from my family is similar but cant relate to the dowry part, which is not as big in our families.
As far as the Amir thing goes, this is a fight over money. Knowing the way the PK brains work, Amirs money has probably been divided by the dad in a such a way that the wife cant get her hands on it and hence the tensions.

 

[Major]

Totally agree with the 1st paragraph and my experience from my family is similar but cant relate to the dowry part, which is not as big in our families.
As far as the Amir thing goes, this is a fight over money. Knowing the way the PK brains work, Amirs money has probably been divided by the dad in a such a way that the wife cant get her hands on it and hence the tensions.

was there a prenup here?

also before judging amirs parents shouldn't we know both sides of the story even though the wife is wrong for posting her personal matters in public

 

[Bewal Express]

was there a prenup here?

also before judging amirs parents shouldn't we know both sides of the story even though the wife is wrong for posting her personal matters in public

I doubt there was any prenuptial. I am not saying she isn't given money but its about who controls the purse strings and hence the tensions. The wife has probably realised that Amir, despite his success, has very little in his name.

 

[Gabbar Singh]

Are pre nups even valid in the UK? I believe it's a grey area.

But you'd think Khan and his family have something in place - he's worth almost £10m a fight these days.

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/www.mi...-how-much-amir-khan-7924799.amp?client=safari

 

[Major]

I doubt there was any prenuptial. I am not saying she isn't given money but its about who controls the purse strings and hence the tensions. The wife has probably realised that Amir, despite his success, has very little in his name.

so the thing is about Amir's dads inheritance?

Does Amir even need his dads money? Got lots forhimself from his career.

 

[Bewal Express]

so the thing is about Amir's dads inheritance?

Does Amir even need his dads money? Got lots forhimself from his career.

I think you miss understand me, the money Amir earnt would have been dealt with by dad, he will invest for the family and then the whole thing becomes very grey as to what belongs to who. I have seen whole families at each other's throat in similar situations with father and sons falling out, brothers fighting each other etc.

 

[in_cutter]

Is it not encouraged to expose all forms of bullying..be it domestic or not? If she really feels that she is being bullied then fair play to her. Too many desi ppl get away with treating daughter in laws like dirt.

 

[Major]

Is it not encouraged to expose all forms of bullying..be it domestic or not? If she really feels that she is being bullied then fair play to her. Too many desi ppl get away with treating daughter in laws like dirt.

the way she is going public makes Amir's parents look guilty.

1) its a personal domestic matter, which she is letting everyone know about
2) Amir's parents might not be guilty or could be guilty.
3) WE don't the other side of the story(Amir's parents side)

WHat if Faryal is wrong, and amir's parents are right, everyone will be excusing his parents, thats like public defamation

 

[Gabbar Singh]

That's why after marriage sons shouldn't live with their parents and family anymore. Unfortunately in our backwards culture, sons stay with their parents forever even after marriage. Feel sorry for Faryal and I hope Amir does the right thing unlike most Pakistani men and stand up for his wife.

If ones parents are fit and healthy then I think living seperately is actually better for everyone's mental wellbeing. You don't have to live at the other side of the planet to them however living in separate homes seems the ideal thing to do imo.

The irony is many parents who expect their sons and daughter in laws to live with them want the complete opposite when it's their own daughters turn to get married.

 

[KingKhanWC]

If ones parents are fit and healthy then I think living seperately is actually better for everyone's mental wellbeing. You don't have to live at the other side of the planet to them however living in separate homes seems the ideal thing to do imo.

The irony is many parents who expect their sons and daughter in laws to live with them want the complete opposite when it's their own daughters turn to get married.

What if the parents are very old and need someone to look after them? Sending parents into an old people home is shunned in the Asian community. Surely a child has a responsibility to take care of his/her parents?

 

[jaguarjack]

What if the parents are very old and need someone to look after them? Sending parents into an old people home is shunned in the Asian community. Surely a child has a responsibility to take care of his/her parents?

but what if those in laws were never on good terms with their daughter-in-law? You cannot expect someone to take care of someone else who has always treated them badly.. that is why I never understood why most of the desi mothers behave the way they do with their daughter-in-laws. Its a simple give and take policy.. treat them like your own daughter and, hopefully, they will reciprocate when you are bedridden senile being.

 

[s28]

lot of people on here seem to be choosing a side or just projecting based on their own experiences

why not say they are all adults, sort it out with some dignity nobody cares for your silly little squabbles, how will this affect the kids ? they will be prime targets for bullying now in future as bullies will now know exactly which buttons to press

 

[Donal Cozzie]

Not taking a side here because it may or may not be true but regardless of the truth the irony in that last snapchat is pretty damn funny.

*posts 5 angry accusative explicit messages*

"But anyway I'm not mad, cant be wasting energy on such little petty people! No hatred either!"

Lol

 

[HussainRx8]

I'm guess no one noticed the pun in her fourth snapchat.

 

[IAJ]

This is a typical example of why you can not put culture above religion. This is the culture in Subcontinent that the wife sorts of become a slave in here new household. She has to make food for husband's parents, siblings, and even relatives and in our community we have many relatives.

But the religion teaches us that it is not her duty to do that, if she does that out of pure love she will be rewarded but no one can force her, many scholars even say she can refuse to cook for her husband in certain sitations.

And she can also demand a seperate room/house for herself.

But this is the double standard of many desi families. They just pick and choose what suits them.

 

[supersix]

No one should jump the gun and blame the parents, they probably have cooks in their house so doubt they needed her to cook or even clean.

Maybe they didn't like the fact she was using her beauty and body to make money.

 

[IAJ]

No one should jump the gun and blame the parents, they probably have cooks in their house so doubt they needed her to cook or even clean.

Maybe they didn't like the fact she was using her beauty and body to make money.

Just to clarify one thing, if you hinted to my post I wrote that in general and after reading some of the posts, as you said we dont know the details here so we should be careful of blaming the parents.

 

[marlonbrowndo]

Not taking a side here because it may or may not be true but regardless of the truth the irony in that last snapchat is pretty damn funny.

*posts 5 angry accusative explicit messages*

"But anyway I'm not mad, cant be wasting energy on such little petty people! No hatred either!"

Lol

lol exactly what I was thinking

 

[Slog]

this reminds me of a legendary post in the desi joing family system thread )

 

[Salman]

I blame Amir for this to an extent, man can throw 50 punches in 10 seconds but can't manage the women in his life, he obviously could have help avoid his wife's public ranting to some extent.

 

[shaz619]

On the whole I agree with this, but if anyone was going to sort this out it should have been Amir. Seems like he's been unable to deal with it and his wife has resorted to taking it public. Doesn't reflect well on him.

You're right but he must have been in a tough position choosing between his own family and wife when he loves both, so basically he stood back and let them have a hell in a cell match to sort their differences but unfortunately faryal and the in laws did not hug it out after the battle. When it comes to Pakistani brawling there is no end game or closure it can be really frustrating, there is only so much he could do because in laws are stubborn and the wife can overly play the victim card

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

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[s28]

I blame Amir for this to an extent, man can throw 50 punches in 10 seconds but can't manage the women in his life, he obviously could have help avoid his wife's public ranting to some extent.

Do you know any women bro ?

 

[MenInG]

Reports indicate that Amir Khan's parents have denied bullying his wife Faryal

 

[Slog]

Reports indicate that Amir Khan's parents have denied bullying his wife Faryal

Lol what do you expect?

Them to accept their wrongdoing and publically apologise after she humiliated them in front of the whole world

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

Reports indicate that Amir Khan's parents have denied bullying his wife Faryal

Lol what do you expect?

Them to accept their wrongdoing and publically apologise after she humiliated them in front of the whole world

Sajjad Khan Amir Khan's father speaks up :


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[TalentSpotterPk]

Marriage in Islam is not between two individuals but between two families.


One should marry in a family which has similar sort of values. Liberal families marrying in conservative families is more likely to cause issues in future.

Similarly sect differences also causes issues.


Here I see two things :


1. Sect difference (not the major bone of contention)

2. Liberal vs Semi conservative issue.

 

[in_cutter]

With Amir being a rich boy..why not move out??

 

[from_da_lost_dim3nsion]

Sajjad Khan Amir Khan's father speaks up :


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Typical desi in laws drama . Trying to be halal patrol , telling her what to wear. If he husband got no problems with her attire then why are they butting in . SMH

 

[MenInG]

Guys - no need to call names and talking in any demeaning way about his parents.

 

[AlphaFighter]

Marriage in Islam is not between two individuals but between two families.


One should marry in a family which has similar sort of values. Liberal families marrying in conservative families is more likely to cause issues in future.

Similarly sect differences also causes issues.


Here I see two things :


1. Sect difference (not the major bone of contention)

2. Liberal vs Semi conservative issue.

This is not entirely true. The answer is somewhere in the middle. You can have two perfectly compatible families but loveless incompatible individuals. Marriage is ultimately about love between 2 individuals. Too many lives have been compromised because of this family compatibility thing. And trust me when i say this, no family is perfect, every family has its quirks, gossip mongering, interfering, politics, being nosy, making a mountain out of a mole hill is a problem in every family.

Maybe it is just me. I can only talk for myself. I am a risk taker in life. My mindset is that if something is a challenge, then the more fun the task involves. If i am attracted to a girl who comes from a very tough challenging family, i will not run away from the challenge of being accepted and surviving in that family.

I have seen so many love marriages where the guy comes from an ultra conservative family, girl comes from an ultra liberal family or the other way around but they manage to make it work and are now happily living together.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

This is not entirely true. The answer is somewhere in the middle. You can have two perfectly compatible families but loveless incompatible individuals. Marriage is ultimately about love between 2 individuals. Too many lives have been compromised because of this family compatibility thing. And trust me when i say this, no family is perfect, every family has its quirks, gossip mongering, interfering, politics, being nosy, making a mountain out of a mole hill is a problem in every family.

Maybe it is just me. I can only talk for myself. I am a risk taker in life. My mindset is that if something is a challenge, then the more fun the task involves. If i am attracted to a girl who comes from a very tough challenging family, i will not run away from the challenge of being accepted and surviving in that family.

I have seen so many love marriages where the guy comes from an ultra conservative family, girl comes from an ultra liberal family or the other way around but they manage to make it work and are now happily living together.

I respect your opinion.


When I quote Islam by saying " Marriage between two families " than I do not mean interference of families in personal matters of husband and wife. There is a fine line.


Also I hold an opinion about modest dress code prescribed by Islam. While other people will interpret in their own way wrt their own opinion and belief.


Marriages work in many different ways. For instance a marriage working with all the relatives of both families respecting each other, having talking terms and good relations and being there in each others sorrow and happy moments of Life. Or a marriage working with one party leaving his family or both leaving their families with total cut off.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

Maybe it is just me. I can only talk for myself. I am a risk taker in life. My mindset is that if something is a challenge, then the more fun the task involves. If i am attracted to a girl who comes from a very tough challenging family, i will not run away from the challenge of being accepted and surviving in that family.

I know you like that girl and you want to marry her. I see nothing unislamic in you having this wish.

On the other hand if I am in your parents shoes and I have never been unfaithful to my husband or wife, have never earned my living through illegal or corrupt means, do not drink than I would wish and pray that my son also marries in a family with such values.

This is true that the children are not at fault for the bad or corrupt practices of their parents but it is a fact that a nawala of haraam will not have positive effects on your physical or spiritual health.


Now if I am in your shoes and I get to marry that girl than I would give her parents and relatives respect whenever I meet them as they will be my wife's blood or loved ones but on name of adjustment I would not be part of their unethical parties or habbits even if they hate it. So I won't be ready to make such adjustments ever.


Similarly if a fresh CSS marries daughter of a Corrupt Billionaire Bureaucrat (serving or retired) than they also expect their son in law to provide same lifestyle to their daughter by hook or crook. If I am that CSS person than I won't be willing to compromise and adjust as per demands of my inlaws and misuse my seat and do corruption.


This is why it is better than one marries in a family which shares same core values with you and your family.


As far as success or failures of marriages arw concerned their is no guarantee. Misunderstandings, compatability issues, failure to respect and regard, failure to fulfil each others due rights or unfaithfulness etc etc than torment any marriage whether it is arranged or love marriage.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

Amir Khan's mother speaks up :

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[Belawal2014]

Sad state of affairs...feel both for Faryal and Amir's parents. Have to admire Amir Khan and the way he's handled all of this.

 

[Slog]

Amir Khan's mother speaks up :

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Lmao the wife called them straight up paindoo

This is savage!!

Pretty hilarious. [MENTION=396]mani1[/MENTION] well my guess was correct

What's your opinion on this now?

 

[Slog]

Anyways sad state of affairs

Never nice to see this playing publicly

 

[mani1]

Lmao the wife called them straight up paindoo

This is savage!!

Pretty hilarious. [MENTION=396]mani1[/MENTION] well my guess was correct

What's your opinion on this now?

Don't speak or understand Urdu/Hindi what was said?

Will there be a reality tv show

 

[Slog]

Don't speak or understand Urdu/Hindi what was said?

Will there be a reality tv show

No that was denied long time ago. That was just Sun Rumor

Basically parents say we didn't like the clothes his wife was wearing and all we did was just ask her many times to not do that and then asked Amir too. They said we even came down to saying 'OK wear them bury don't post them on social media.'

Mother also said "we wanted her to sit and spend time with our daughters and to be like our daughters but she thinks we are paindoo.' Then rambled on about how even if we are paindoo we were the one who raised Aamir Khan and if she isn't loyal and respectful to us today who knows if she will be loyal to Amir Khan in future

Also father denies physical violence

 

[Donal Cozzie]

Anyways sad state of affairs

Never nice to see this playing publicly

On the contrary it is nice to see.

Exposes people for what they are

 

[Thivagar]

No that was denied long time ago. That was just Sun Rumor

Basically parents say we didn't like the clothes his wife was wearing and all we did was just ask her many times to not do that and then asked Amir too. They said we even came down to saying 'OK wear them bury don't post them on social media.'

Mother also said "we wanted her to sit and spend time with our daughters and to be like our daughters but she thinks we are paindoo.' Then rambled on about how even if we are paindoo we were the one who raised Aamir Khan and if she isn't loyal and respectful to us today who knows if she will be loyal to Amir Khan in future

Also father denies physical violence

The family can't get anymore paindo than that LOL. They knew he married a model, they knew he married a Pakistani-American and not a Pakistani-Brit. She is going to be more American than Pakistani. Why the heck do these people want her to dress the way that they want her to dress up ? How is she going to give you respect if they are telling her what to wear and what to do.

 

[Slog]

On the contrary it is nice to see.

Exposes people for what they are

yes i agree on that aspect

just talking on a personal level. the parents must be having a tough time and while their behavior is disgusting, they have grown up with that all their lives and in this old age they suddenly wont see enlightenment. so public mockery and humiliation is sad to see

 

[Slog]

The family can't get anymore paindo than that LOL. They knew he married a model, they knew he married a Pakistani-American and not a Pakistani-Brit. She is going to be more American than Pakistani. Why the heck do these people want her to dress the way that they want her to dress up ? How is she going to give you respect if they are telling her what to wear and what to do.

Thats the problem

Im certain their preference would have been the girl to be from the ancestral village or some random britpaki girl from the ghetto who is stuck in a time warp in the 1960s as so many from that community seem to be

 

[mani1]

Thanks for the translation

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

Lmao the wife called them straight up paindoo

This is savage!!

Pretty hilarious. [MENTION=396]mani1[/MENTION] well my guess was correct

What's your opinion on this now?

Undoubtedly some people are unefucated, ill mannered, uncultured or Paindoo but

Now not showing your curves, skin and sex organs is also considered paindoo and backwardness for many people.

Ridiculous.

 

[mani1]

Since when is a village in a village in Rawalpindi Mirpur?

 

[Slog]

Undoubtedly some people are unefucated, ill mannered, uncultured or Paindoo but

Now not showing your curves, skin and sex organs is also considered paindoo and backwardness for many people.

Ridiculous.

the point is she should be able to do what she wants.

She isnt anyones property. It might not be according to your or my or someone else's beliefts but its not harming anyone in anyway.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

the point is she should be able to do what she wants.

She isnt anyones property. It might not be according to your or my or someone else's beliefts but its not harming anyone in anyway.

I agree.

 

[Pakistanian]

Undoubtedly some people are unefucated, ill mannered, uncultured or Paindoo but

Now not showing your curves, skin and sex organs is also considered paindoo and backwardness for many people.

Ridiculous.

She's dressed pretty conservatively compared to most of the girls here.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

She's dressed pretty conservatively compared to most of the girls here.

Everybody sees with his own eyes. That's the point.


I look at it from my personal and religious beliefs which do not allow such dressing and does not consider it conservative or modest islamic dressing but Yes compared to those who show more skin definitely she dresses quite conservative.

 

[Pakistanian]

Everybody sees with his own eyes. That's the point.


I look at it from my personal and religious beliefs which do not allow such dressing and does not consider it conservative or modest islamic dressing but Yes compared to those who show more skin definitely she dresses quite conservative.

Yeah Pakistan has very radical definitions of what modest is even compared to other muslim countries, I find it funny when Pakistanis online complain about the way actresses dress yet it is NOTHING compared to how conservative women dress over here I hope everybody in Pakistan gets to see the outside world at least once and see where we stand.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

Yeah Pakistan has very radical definitions of what modest is even compared to other muslim countries, I find it funny when Pakistanis online complain about the way actresses dress yet it is NOTHING compared to how conservative women dress over here I hope everybody in Pakistan gets to see the outside world at least once and see where we stand.

I respect your opinion but i do not agree than Muslims or Pakistani's need to redefine modest or conservative dressing while compairing it with West.


State or any segment of society should not have any power to direct people of what to wear and what not to wear. It should be an indivisual's choice.


Forcing a women to wear hijab, burqa or veil is wrong and so is stopping a women not to wear hijab, burqa or veil.


Today's news is that Malak Al Shahri has been arrested by Saudi authorities as she posted her pictures on social media without Burqa and veil. I Condemn this. The State doing it is unislamic and it is inhumane aswell.

 

[Pakistanian]

I respect your opinion but i do not agree than Muslims or Pakistani's need to redefine modest or conservative dressing while compairing it with West.


State or any segment of society should not have any power to direct people of what to wear and what not to wear. It should be an indivisual's choice.


Forcing a women to wear hijab, burqa or veil is wrong and so is stopping a women not to wear hijab, burqa or veil.


Today's news is that Malak Al Shahri has been arrested by Saudi authorities as she posted her pictures on social media without Burqa and veil. I Condemn this. The State doing it is unislamic and it is inhumane aswell.

Dude we're even more conservative than other Muslim countries. We have the unappealing cultural hybrid of Desi conservatism and Wahhabiism.

 

[TalentSpotterPk]

Dude we're even more conservative than other Muslim countries. We have the unappealing cultural hybrid of Desi conservatism and Wahhabiism.

This is a fashion on Social Media and Internet these days especially within us to label only Wahabi's as conservative or extremist or terrorists.

This exists in almost all the religious fraternities of the country.


If you show pictures of such dressing to practicing religious minded muslim of any Sect and ask him that is this modest and acceptable dressing ? The Ans would be No.

Now all or majority Pakistanis aren't Wahabi.


One thing more Wahabi's have many good traits aswell. They have the least Budd-Rasoomaat & Bidaats in them.

 

[The_KING]

Lol at Amir's mother wanting Faryaal to wear a dupata. It's Faryaal life and she can wear whatever she wants. You live in England not Pakistan. Let go of the old backward culture Mrs Khan. I feel so sorry for girls in our culture that they are expected to change themselves after marriage to please her husband's family. That's why men in our culture should man up and move out after marriage. Watching the mother interview made me so angry. Stay strong Faryaal.

 

[Abdullah719]

Faryal's dress code was unacceptable: boxer Amir Khan's parents

Pakistani-origin British boxer Amir Khan's parents have claimed that their daughter-in-law's dress code was unacceptable according to Islam, but have rejected accusations of bullying and domestic abuse by the catwalk model.

Earlier this month, Faryal Makhdoom, 25, alleged that her in-laws cropped her out of family photos, hurled a remote control at her and even slapped her. She claimed that her Pakistani in-laws had problems with her baring skin.

But, in their first interview since the domestic dispute made headlines in the international media, Khan's parents rubbished her allegations, claiming they never so much as laid a hand on her and treated Faryal like their own daughter.

"Faryal was adopting a dress code which in the Islamic faith was not acceptable. I am a father to two daughters whom I have treated exactly the same way as I have treated Faryal," said Sajjad Khan, speaking exclusively with Geo News at his home in Bolton.

He said he never said anything to Faryal, but did express his concerns to his son over her pictures in such dressing which she shared on social media.

"All this started with the issue of dressing. We kept asking Amir to tell her not to adopt such a dress code. And even if she had to wear such dresses, please don’t post it on social media," he said.

Sajjad Khan said that Faryal should have respected her in-laws. He said that he has no explanation to give regarding the "false accusations by Faryal".

Every family sees ups and downs, said Sajjad Khan. "We always strived for reconciliation between Amir and Faryal," he said.

He denied the allegations by Faryal of violence and called them unfounded. He said that if there was any physical abuse as she alleged then there must be some hospital record to back the claim.

Amir Khan and his wife share a house in Bolton with his father, mother Falak, brother Haroon, 25, and sister Mariyah, 19.

'I told her to take dupatta but she never listened'

Speaking exclusively to Geo News, Amir's mother Falak said she once asked Faryal not to wear such clothes but she did not listen.

"I asked her not to wear such dresses and to take the dupatta (scarf), but she never listened. After that, we asked Amir but he told us to convey this to Faryal's mother because she does not listen to him either," she said.

Falak Khan said that Faryal did not mix up much with the Khan family. "One day she will also complain that Amir Khan abuses her," said the boxer’s mother.

https://www.geo.tv/latest/123479-Fa...cceptable-Boxer-Amir-Khans-father-mother-wife

 

[Abdullah719]

Lol at Amir's mother wanting Faryaal to wear a dupata. It's Faryaal life and she can wear whatever she wants. You live in England not Pakistan. Let go of the old backward culture Mrs Khan. I feel so sorry for girls in our culture that they are expected to change themselves after marriage to please her husband's family. That's why men in our culture should man up and move out after marriage. Watching the mother interview made me so angry. Stay strong Faryaal.

What about the claims of violence? Who should we believe?

 

[Major]

I feel sorry for the family.

I know many will target the family, but let me point out one thing.

Faryal made this public, not the family. And her acts have forced the family to defend themselves in public.

Every household has its problem, but Faryal was wrong by taking this public.

Now people who donot even understand our culture will be bashing the family and some might even resort to assaulting them in public.

 

[kingusama92]

I feel sorry for the family.

I know many will target the family, but let me point out one thing.

Faryal made this public, not the family. And her acts have forced the family to defend themselves in public.

Every household has its problem, but Faryal was wrong by taking this public.

Now people who donot even understand our culture will be bashing the family and some might even resort to assaulting them in public.

To be fair, she's been getting roasted on social media by her brother-in-law and sister-in-law for months.

 

[kingusama92]

Lol at Amir's mother wanting Faryaal to wear a dupata. It's Faryaal life and she can wear whatever she wants. You live in England not Pakistan. Let go of the old backward culture Mrs Khan. I feel so sorry for girls in our culture that they are expected to change themselves after marriage to please her husband's family. That's why men in our culture should man up and move out after marriage. Watching the mother interview made me so angry. Stay strong Faryaal.

Agreed.

That's straight up unacceptable.

 

[Major]

Lol at Amir's mother wanting Faryaal to wear a dupata. It's Faryaal life and she can wear whatever she wants. You live in England not Pakistan. Let go of the old backward culture Mrs Khan. I feel so sorry for girls in our culture that they are expected to change themselves after marriage to please her husband's family. That's why men in our culture should man up and move out after marriage. Watching the mother interview made me so angry. Stay strong Faryaal.

poor stuff from you .

you shouldn't be lolling at some mother like that. Wearing a dupatta isn't wrong, and Amir's mother didn't say anything wrong for which you should LOL at her.......

Yes its Faryal's life and its here decision to what to do.

But tell me one thing, in Islam, isn't it the parents job to tell their kids what is the right thing to do and what is wrong. No one is forcing her, they are just telling her.

by lolling at her, you are basically disrespecting a mother who thinks what is best for her daughter in law.
In our religion, there is a reason for wearing a dupatta, and as Amir's family is muslim, they are not wrong in asking her to do that.

Whats wrong is Faryal taking this public, because now the idiots who do not even understand our culture will take cheap shots at Islam, and this family aswell.

This women might have won support for herself in the real life, but at the day of judgement these people won't matter

 

[Major]

To be fair, she's been getting roasted on social media by her brother-in-law and sister-in-law for months.

i don't know about the brother in law and sister in law to be honest.

But i feel sorry for Amir's parents being dragged into this and have to defend themselves publicly. Morally what they have said is not a bad thing. Point being every family has its differences.

 

[in_cutter]

Rather hypocritical of them asking Faryal to wear a dupatta when their own daughter never does (see her instagram pics). As the saying goes, fix your own first.

 

[Suleiman]

Is this the English Kardashians?

 

[Waseem]

Above all i feel sorry for Amir himself, worst situation to be in when your wife and parents both decide to expose their personal affairs to whole world.

I prsonally don't think there was any physical abuse, i think she got annoyed with all the restrictions which she most probably didn't face before marriage.

 

[Thivagar]

Thats the problem

Im certain their preference would have been the girl to be from the ancestral village or some random britpaki girl from the ghetto who is stuck in a time warp in the 1960s as so many from that community seem to be

When these Brit-Paks go to school do they not "integrate" ? You will barely find an Indian or any desi family continue to to remain like this even after immigrating 40+ years ago . Any particular reason ?

 

[Salman]

Just a funny observation, I was looking for the clip of the parents interview, geo news website have it under the entertainment category.

Anyway, very good move by the family, they did right by going on air. I know which corner of the ring i stand behind.

Faryals parents should come out now and give an interview in support of the tamasha they raised. If anything, it will give their daughter a little publicity boost for her amazing cat walk career.

 

[KingKhanWC]

Thats the problem

Im certain their preference would have been the girl to be from the ancestral village or some random britpaki girl from the ghetto who is stuck in a time warp in the 1960s as so many from that community seem to be

Not at all. If this was their mentality Amir would never have been a boxer but either working in a factory at 16 or studying to be doctor etc.

His parents backed him from a young age, it does take a lot of support to become what he has.