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Faryal Makhdoom's spat with Amir Khan's family [in-laws respond #69, Amir Khan #102]

When these Brit-Paks go to school do they not "integrate" ? You will barely find an Indian or any desi family continue to to remain like this even after immigrating 40+ years ago :facepalm:. Any particular reason ?

From my observation more Pakistani's in the UK have mixed marriages than Indians, nothing more can be more integrating. Besides there is nothing wrong with keep your old culture alive. I don't know about the Sri Lankan culture but the Pakistani culture is pretty amazing imo, the food, the dress, the music, the language, the principles should continue to live long anywhere in the world.
 
Not at all. If this was their mentality Amir would never have been a boxer but either working in a factory at 16 or studying to be doctor etc.

His parents backed him from a young age, it does take a lot of support to become what he has.

For a long time though, they wanted Amir to get married to a girl from Pakistan but in the end they allowed him to go for his own choice. I guess the rivarly between faryal and khans parents stems from that to, they just didn't want a westernised daughter in law and them having issues with her dress code kinda is in line with their old fashioned views to an extent because Amir's parents are not so close minded.

They're a bit hypocritical with the dress code rubbish, if they want to by Islam etc then perhaps they'd not have allowed Amir to box, am not sure if it's acceptable in our faith if they want to go by the book all the way
 
They're a bit hypocritical with the dress code rubbish, if they want to by Islam etc then perhaps they'd not have allowed Amir to box, am not sure if it's acceptable in our faith if they want to go by the book all the way

Islam and book have nothing to do, this is typical Indian sub-continent rubbish. Things have changed for good on this side of border.
 
From my observation more Pakistani's in the UK have mixed marriages than Indians, nothing more can be more integrating. Besides there is nothing wrong with keep your old culture alive. I don't know about the Sri Lankan culture but the Pakistani culture is pretty amazing imo, the food, the dress, the music, the language, the principles should continue to live long anywhere in the world.

Mixed marriage as inter-religious marriage or just inter-race/ethnicity marriage ? More than Indians ? I doubt so. There is nothing wrong with keeping the old culture, but you must be able to understand that kids that grew up abroad will be more "progressive" and liberal. Its the fault of the parents to expect their daughter-in-law to behave like a paindo themselves. How is being closed minded considered "keeping the culture". Culture is always evolving, what was your culture 300 years ago wasn't what it was 2000 years ago. Does Pakistan really have its own culture ? Isn't everything influenced by India-Arabic countries ? Language, food, literature, script and so on ? What does her doing modeling and wearing modern clothing affecting the "culture" ? I don't know how a family that moved 40 years ago to England still behaves so backward. She is not even posting pictures in bikini.
 
Why is their son naked while boxing ? Does their culture promote violence ? Will his physique not give impure thoughts to the female and maybe even to some of the male audience ? How is his career not unacceptable ?
 
Mixed marriage as inter-religious marriage or just inter-race/ethnicity marriage ? More than Indians ? I doubt so. There is nothing wrong with keeping the old culture, but you must be able to understand that kids that grew up abroad will be more "progressive" and liberal. Its the fault of the parents to expect their daughter-in-law to behave like a paindo themselves. How is being closed minded considered "keeping the culture". Culture is always evolving, what was your culture 300 years ago wasn't what it was 2000 years ago. Does Pakistan really have its own culture ? Isn't everything influenced by India-Arabic countries ? Language, food, literature, script and so on ? What does her doing modeling and wearing modern clothing affecting the "culture" ? I don't know how a family that moved 40 years ago to England still behaves so backward. She is not even posting pictures in bikini.
Yeah there's a Pakistani culture, lol @ everything being Indian/Arabic. You're doing a good job at ticking off Pakistanis, keep it up bud.
 
poor stuff from you .

you shouldn't be lolling at some mother like that. Wearing a dupatta isn't wrong, and Amir's mother didn't say anything wrong for which you should LOL at her.......

Yes its Faryal's life and its here decision to what to do.

But tell me one thing, in Islam, isn't it the parents job to tell their kids what is the right thing to do and what is wrong. No one is forcing her, they are just telling her.

by lolling at her, you are basically disrespecting a mother who thinks what is best for her daughter in law.
In our religion, there is a reason for wearing a dupatta, and as Amir's family is muslim, they are not wrong in asking her to do that.

Whats wrong is Faryal taking this public, because now the idiots who do not even understand our culture will take cheap shots at Islam, and this family aswell.

This women might have won support for herself in the real life, but at the day of judgement these people won't matter

Mentality like this is precisely the reason she went public, society needs to have this conservation. Pakistani pockets of culture all over the world has these issues, 70% of Pakistanis dramas are on Saas Bahu, why not have some live examples? 😎

It's not only we are still batting like 1980s and some people think there is nothing wrong with that, here families are using tactics of 1960 to suppress women and keep joint family system going and many people see nothing wrong with that. You want to put Snowden behind bar, because he should not have exposed the NSA(that's what conservatives have been saying all along, no surprise there either), should had worked with govt and changed the system from Within 👺

One thing is clear mixing blue and red does not give you green 😜

Liberals and Conservatives is bigger divide in modern era, they have different methods and approach to well everything. In Pakistan many people think Army is solution, Conservatives think Danda is the only way to stop liberal culture.

This also remind me one of my friends strong joint family secret, you got to suppress women specially the newer ones, those are the ones who come up with new ideas that distory family values. Like China 🇨🇳 ran tanks over kids to keep lid on revolution. Where as many in progressive culture think the opposite, let the young ones have more space and freedom, they may discover something new. 😇
 
I am sorry but the double standard is quite apparant here:

They are not happy with his wife's dress code but there they have a son boxing half-naked, both his knees and navel are exposed and according to sharia a man has to cover his knees and navel as this is cosidered as his sattar.
 
Hope she stays safe, everybody shouldn't forget what happened recently to Qandeel Baloch. Our people have a
short fuse and can get violent just for "ghairat".
 
Hope she stays safe, everybody shouldn't forget what happened recently to Qandeel Baloch. Our people have a
short fuse and can get violent just for "ghairat".

She lives in UK ,she is among last of the problems for people in Pakistan.Pakistan can't be blamed for attack on her incase it occurs as well.
 
just bunch of attentions seekers all of them.
solve the family problem within family , talk to each other
ur husband can move out, talk to him and live ur life happily with him
 
I am sorry but the double standard is quite apparant here:

They are not happy with his wife's dress code but there they have a son boxing half-naked, both his knees and navel are exposed and according to sharia a man has to cover his knees and navel as this is cosidered as his sattar.

Agreed.

Just odd.
 
I am sorry but the double standard is quite apparant here:

They are not happy with his wife's dress code but there they have a son boxing half-naked, both his knees and navel are exposed and according to sharia a man has to cover his knees and navel as this is cosidered as his sattar.

Dont act naive

dont you know a Pakistani family's izzat is linked to the length of the kameez of the women in the family?
 
Pakistani-origin British boxer Amir Khan's parents have claimed that their daughter-in-law's dress code was unacceptable according to Islam, but have rejected accusations of bullying and domestic abuse by the catwalk model.

Earlier this month, Faryal Makhdoom, 25, alleged that her in-laws cropped her out of family photos, hurled a remote control at her and even slapped her. She claimed that her Pakistani in-laws had problems with her baring skin.

But, in their first interview since the domestic dispute made headlines in the international media, Khan's parents rubbished her allegations, claiming they never so much as laid a hand on her and treated Faryal like their own daughter.

"Faryal was adopting a dress code which in the Islamic faith was not acceptable. I am a father to two daughters whom I have treated exactly the same way as I have treated Faryal," said Sajjad Khan, speaking exclusively with Geo News at his home in Bolton.

He said he never said anything to Faryal, but did express his concerns to his son over her pictures in such dressing which she shared on social media.

"All this started with the issue of dressing. We kept asking Amir to tell her not to adopt such a dress code. And even if she had to wear such dresses, please don’t post it on social media," he said.

Sajjad Khan said that Faryal should have respected her in-laws. He said that he has no explanation to give regarding the "false accusations by Faryal".

Every family sees ups and downs, said Sajjad Khan. "We always strived for reconciliation between Amir and Faryal," he said.

He denied the allegations by Faryal of violence and called them unfounded. He said that if there was any physical abuse as she alleged then there must be some hospital record to back the claim.

Amir Khan and his wife share a house in Bolton with his father, mother Falak, brother Haroon, 25, and sister Mariyah, 19.

'I told her to take dupatta but she never listened'

Speaking exclusively to Geo News, Amir's mother Falak said she once asked Faryal not to wear such clothes but she did not listen.

"I asked her not to wear such dresses and to take the dupatta (scarf), but she never listened. After that, we asked Amir but he told us to convey this to Faryal's mother because she does not listen to him either," she said.

Falak Khan said that Faryal did not mix up much with the Khan family. "One day she will also complain that Amir Khan abuses her," said the boxer’s mother.

https://www.geo.tv/latest/123479-Fa...cceptable-Boxer-Amir-Khans-father-mother-wife

Absolutely ridiculous, it is NONE of their business what she wears or what she doesn't. The only person who should have an issue is her husband, noone else.
 
Above all i feel sorry for Amir himself, worst situation to be in when your wife and parents both decide to expose their personal affairs to whole world.

I prsonally don't think there was any physical abuse, i think she got annoyed with all the restrictions which she most probably didn't face before marriage.

I am sorry, the biggest spineless person here IS Amir. He doesn't have the guts to tell his parents to stop meddling with what HIS wife wears. We can easily see he isn't doing anything, all he's doing is standing back. His parents pretty much said that when they said ''we asked Amir but he told us he can't do anything, he has asked her as well bla bla''.

Ridiculous stuff.
 
just bunch of attentions seekers all of them.
solve the family problem within family , talk to each other
ur husband can move out, talk to him and live ur life happily with him

Completely agree with this

Washing dirty laundry in public is never a good option
 
Wow at those comments from his parents. It's entertaining for the rest of us but they are all idiots for taking this public like they have. They are all adults, they should sort it out in private.
 
I am sorry, the biggest spineless person here IS Amir. He doesn't have the guts to tell his parents to stop meddling with what HIS wife wears. We can easily see he isn't doing anything, all he's doing is standing back. His parents pretty much said that when they said ''we asked Amir but he told us he can't do anything, he has asked her as well bla bla''.

Ridiculous stuff.

He has a glass chin inside the ring and now it seems it's the same outside of the ring too!

Rather than man up and deal with the situation with your partner and find some common ground and try to make things work, he has washed his hands of it and hoped either his parents can fix it or her parents.

Really poor show from him.

I don't follow any of them on social media but I'm sure his wife was like this before he got married?? So why the issue now?
 
poor stuff from you .

you shouldn't be lolling at some mother like that. Wearing a dupatta isn't wrong, and Amir's mother didn't say anything wrong for which you should LOL at her.......

Yes its Faryal's life and its here decision to what to do.

But tell me one thing, in Islam, isn't it the parents job to tell their kids what is the right thing to do and what is wrong. No one is forcing her, they are just telling her.

by lolling at her, you are basically disrespecting a mother who thinks what is best for her daughter in law.
In our religion, there is a reason for wearing a dupatta, and as Amir's family is muslim, they are not wrong in asking her to do that.

Whats wrong is Faryal taking this public, because now the idiots who do not even understand our culture will take cheap shots at Islam, and this family aswell.

This women might have won support for herself in the real life, but at the day of judgement these people won't matter

If they were so religious, Amir wouldn't be a boxer. This is classic case of double standards that is so prevalent in the Asian culture. Different rules for both men and women. Talk about sexism. Do you know that boxing isn't allowed in Islam? And not only that but men have to cover the area between their naval and the knees? Do you know that? Amir boxes semi naked but that's alright because he is a man so he can do anything but Faryaal being a woman has to cover herself from head to toe. Like I said that's a classic case of sexism that is so prevalent in the Asian culture. Faryaal is in the right here and Amir needs to support her.
 
Amir Khan has responded on Twitter... looks like he's had enough.

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[MENTION=46929]shaz619[/MENTION] Look around Twitter and it shouldn't be too hard to find. I thought it was a pretty low blow from his wife..

I saw it astagfirullah wala hola wala quwata :))) what is the back story? what does she have against haroon khan?
 
The problem could/should have been avoided by Amir not living with /forcing his new wife to live with his parents and sisters in the same house.

He has sufficient means to have either moved out himself or buy his parents a new place to live.

Living separately, even as close as in the next road, would have allowed his new wife to have her own space away from his parents and enjoy life as a couple, and yet close enough for Amir not be seen as trying to get away from his parents.
 
I saw it astagfirullah wala hola wala quwata :))) what is the back story? what does she have against haroon khan?

Amir's siblings have been making sly remarks about Faryal on twitter for a while. There is only so much a person can take.
 
Amir's siblings have been making sly remarks about Faryal on twitter for a while. There is only so much a person can take.


Yes. Why are they so worried about her curves and bare skin being published online ?

Is she their property ? Or will they enter her grave ?


Just let the girl live her life. She is mature enough muslim Posts sayings of Sahaba RA, believes in God and his Last Prophet so what else ?


Let her be a soft image of Islam and a modest muslim women.


Why Interfere and be so concerned ?
 
Yes. Why are they so worried about her curves and bare skin being published online ?

Is she their property ? Or will they enter her grave ?


Just let the girl live her life. She is mature enough muslim Posts sayings of Sahaba RA, believes in God and his Last Prophet so what else ?


Let her be a soft image of Islam and a modest muslim women.


Why Interfere and be so concerned ?

Exactly. As if they are very Islamic themselves. Hypocrites I tell ya.
 
The problem could/should have been avoided by Amir not living with /forcing his new wife to live with his parents and sisters in the same house.

He has sufficient means to have either moved out himself or buy his parents a new place to live.

Living separately, even as close as in the next road, would have allowed his new wife to have her own space away from his parents and enjoy life as a couple, and yet close enough for Amir not be seen as trying to get away from his parents.


Yeah why he didn't move out after marriage ?


Why live with Old School, Paindoo, Backward Pakistanis who want to poke their nose in people's personal lives considering themselves as their " Saviours "
 
Tbf, that was a sixer from Faryal. Interesting how ''Harry'' is going to respond.
 
:)) Why did she have that picture on her computer? :giggs

Tbf, that was a sixer from Faryal. Interesting how ''Harry'' is going to respond.

lmao am guessing it was on Amirs phone who played a prank? or maybe there's more to it then that :afridi

If Harry's response is of equal measure bah gawd :ksi Loving this feud, I was eating a paratha while reading all the posts in this thread
 
TBF that "Jacko lives with us" comment was hilarious and I laughed my head off when I first read it..
 
lmao am guessing it was on Amirs phone who played a prank? or maybe there's more to it then that :afridi

If Harry's response is of equal measure bah gawd :ksi Loving this feud, I was eating a paratha while reading all the posts in this thread

Well she said that he was drunk at another girls' so maybe the girl sent Faryal the pic in a sting operation ala trio?

AK's younger sister can probably give Faryal a run for her money. Looks like Sanam Jung. I wouldn't mind her getting involved in the feud.

What's next on keeping up with the Khans?
 
I was on the side with Faryal and now even their son is against the ill treatment of her. Can't believe people were taking the sides of his parents bringing "culture" and "traditions" to defend them. #KeepingUpWithKhans
 
Faryal just took it to far, she needs to be careful cause Pakistanis can and have proven in the past they will resort to deadly force if they're honor is attacked. She shouldn't have done that to haroon, the repercussions might be serious. She seems to forget that she doesn't live in America anymore, England is just a mini Pakistani.
 
The problem could/should have been avoided by Amir not living with /forcing his new wife to live with his parents and sisters in the same house.

He has sufficient means to have either moved out himself or buy his parents a new place to live.

Living separately, even as close as in the next road, would have allowed his new wife to have her own space away from his parents and enjoy life as a couple, and yet close enough for Amir not be seen as trying to get away from his parents.
I saw an interview where amir said his parents and her live in two separate houses close to each other.
 
Faryal just took it to far, she needs to be careful cause Pakistanis can and have proven in the past they will resort to deadly force if they're honor is attacked. She shouldn't have done that to haroon, the repercussions might be serious. She seems to forget that she doesn't live in America anymore, England is just a mini Pakistani.

Nobody here has come this conclusion, you're the first person I have seen and you're American.
 
Nobody here has come this conclusion, you're the first person I have seen and you're American.

She is safer in America because of tighter gun control laws, donald duck, a tolerant attitude towards all races, creeds and religions, good relations between the public and police, little violence, free education, free health care, halal versions of pakistanis who will not advocate honour killing , lack of obesity and sexism , school's are safer, there is more unity then individualism , equal rights for all and finally Roman Reigns.
 
:))) :)))

Absolutely brilliant.

And apparently the west is the one with the broken family system lol

Amir and Faryal are a western couple :yk2

Besides, am not sure how you managed to deduce from all of this that family systems in the west are perfect unless you're one of those folk born with a silver spoon in your mouth completely alien to real social problems in our society because when mommy tells us that we're grounded for a month and have to go to our room that's the biggest tragedy one can ever experience :yk #Irignamus
 
This is how you know they are still Pakistanis at heart despite being brought up and living in England.

Providing entertainment for the world. Our cricket was like that too for a while from 90s to 2010 off the field.
 
Amir and Faryal are a western couple :yk2

Besides, am not sure how you managed to deduce from all of this that family systems in the west are perfect unless you're one of those folk born with a silver spoon in your mouth completely alien to real social problems in our society because when mommy tells us that we're grounded for a month and have to go to our room that's the biggest tragedy one can ever experience :yk #Irignamus

Oh definitely, neither is perfect. Some people on here act as if the east is a utopia of family goodness however just because families over there tend to live together or stay in more contact. Cases like this can prove that that may not always be a better thing.
 
Oh definitely, neither is perfect. Some people on here act as if the east is a utopia of family goodness however just because families over there tend to live together or stay in more contact. Cases like this can prove that that may not always be a better thing.

Not at all, in fact the general consensus is that things there are a lot worse then here. There are broken family's on both sides and each have their own distinct struggles, finger pointing is just pointless tbh 5-10 years from now I'd be surprised if the same issues plague non-English/Irish family's here in the west. Amir and Faryal relationship is actually pretty good it's just the in laws getting involved with old fashioned views. Harry the unclothed teen called Faryal Michael Jackson he didn't insult her dress code, so there's no hypocrisy from his end because he didn't say to her she can't wear x,y,z, I mean why would he when his own Brother didn't make a fuss about it he is cool with the wife doing as she pleases
 
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Sad ,Dramas are central for Desi family ,being righteous is more important than being rational.
Situations with time change,what was good 10 years ago might not be now,everyone cannot expect only technology to evolve ,families relationships will evolve as well.

Its entertaining for 3rd person but i really hope I'm not part of any such situation.
 
Wow at those comments from his parents. It's entertaining for the rest of us but they are all idiots for taking this public like they have. They are all adults, they should sort it out in private.

I am siding with Faryal from this point. I find it hypocritical for Amir's family to try to impose a dress code on her when Amir clearly married her for being what she is: a model who probably attracted his attention due to exactly the type of dress that his family are now taking a hard line against.
 
Like most celebrity marriages, this heading for the divorce. It will get even more uglier, when she realises that Amir has "few assets" to claim on.
 
Like most celebrity marriages, this heading for the divorce. It will get even more uglier, when she realises that Amir has "few assets" to claim on.

It's not about divorce, it's about Amirs wife being mistreated and talking so much crap from their siblings but she kept quite about it. The evidence is clear but she finally responded and now suddenly the parents decided to go on Tv to talk about some nonsense not wearing a duppata ?

Like someone said she was a westernised girl before they got married so why force her to be something she wasn't before ? It's all hypocrisy that's all too common in many Pak-British families, sorry to say.

I'm glad Amir set the record straight because it took some balls to criticise the mistreatment of his wife against what his siblings had done. Well done to him.
 
This Faryal should take the attack right to the opposition here.

Make the mother-in-law don a T-shirt & Jeans. Hardly scandalous, but bet she'll take the bait and flat out refuse. That's when Faryal should Snapchat away and get fans from the other domain and win this for good.

Nobody cares about a duppata.
 
I think I know what it was lol why did she post that? took it too far

I regret supporting her after what he did to her brother-in law. Saw her snapchat rant, she sounds like a spoiled brat but that doesn't mean her in-laws are right.
 
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Oh definitely, neither is perfect. Some people on here act as if the east is a utopia of family goodness however just because families over there tend to live together or stay in more contact. Cases like this can prove that that may not always be a better thing.

At least we got family, culture and tradition.
 
Yeah why he didn't move out after marriage ?


Why live with Old School, Paindoo, Backward Pakistanis who want to poke their nose in people's personal lives considering themselves as their " Saviours "

Emotional blackmail is very prevalent among desi mothers abroad.You know how it goes, "I know you are going to leave me/move away/ put me in a senior home when you get married" and "Learn to cook now, the new girl isn't going to do all those".
 
Posting private pictures of someone openly on social media is not appropriate at all. Not only it is a cheap thing to do but also shows that you are as bitter towards the other party as they are.
 
By what is out in public, the family are hypocrites with their veneer of Islamic values with the young son drunk at parties and the daughter in law is completely nutty. Every family has difficulties but this family is totally Ferrell.
 
By what is out in public, the family are hypocrites with their veneer of Islamic values with the young son drunk at parties and the daughter in law is completely nutty. Every family has difficulties but this family is totally Ferrell.

You'd be surprised how many families are not that different, not just talking about Pakistanis or Muslims either. This is the problem with social media where everyone tries to put on a self-flattering media profile which usually results in those who don't like them trying to put them down, and vice versa.
 
I regret supporting her after what he did to her brother-in law. How did she even have that picture ? Saw her snapchat rant, she sounds like a spoiled brat but that doesn't mean her in-laws are right.

But what I don't get is why did she post that? even if it was based on some tweet he sent 4 years ago that was pretty ruthless, perhaps she also did to get back at Amirs parents. I do think kinda took that too far lol
 
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Faryal Makhdoom apologises for posting naked pictures of Amir Khan's brother Haroon Khan.

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Faryal Makhdoom apologises for posting naked pictures of Amir Khan's brother Haroon Khan.

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It is very hard not to judge her by the way she speaks. I'm trying not to judge her but she sounds like another Kim Kardashian just based on the way she speaks. Never judge a book by the cover. She may have well been abused mentally and or physically but should have never published that picture. Don't even care how she got it.
 
Not at all. If this was their mentality Amir would never have been a boxer but either working in a factory at 16 or studying to be doctor etc.

His parents backed him from a young age, it does take a lot of support to become what he has.

Amir's parents and siblings to blame.
Amir needs to 'man-up' and cool things down.
 
amir khan posted on social media to stop his family spreading pvt matters on social media.

Ehhhh ???
 
Will they listen? I hope not. :yk

I expect them to answer him on social media to inform him that they will not use social media for private problem and how his wife is root cause of all issues in family .
 
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