Does an above average or good job in Pakistan fetch 5 lakhs?! I mean, normally an above average job is supposed to get you a somewhat comfortable life.
Most guys here start their careers with salaries less than 1 lakh/month and they do everything the OP mentioned and more.
To get to Rs 500,000 you will need atleast 10-15 years of solid performance and hard work behind your belt. The expenses are now such that is the minimum amount you need to get by.
For e.g. in Defence the cost of hiring a driver is a min of Rs 20-25 k a month, a cook is Rs 15 k, a maid is probably Rs 6-10 k, then you have a gardener, security guard, a cleaner i.e. another Rs 20 k in total. So just for servants you will be paying around Rs 70-80 k atleast per month. Then you have the utilities, electricity in Pakistan is insanely expensive and in a household of lets say 5-8 people you can be paying in the 100,000 for electricity.
God forbid if you are living in an area where there is an electricity shortage, you will get a powerful generator, the one which requires fuel as well. Lets put the cost of running that generator at Rs 20,000 a month
In DHA we have a water problem, even though we pay taxes the DHA authorities do not supply water to the residents, the residents have to purchase the services of water tankers and now these guys charge close to Rs 10,000 per visit and you will require atleast 4 tankers a month depending on the no of people living in the house and how often water is used in the house
My parents tell me that cost of groceries and other bills is around Rs 150k a month
If you have kids you will be paying for their private school fees, university fees, tuitions
You will have the cost of vehicles, fuel, this is extremely under estimated and can easily cost up to Rs 75,000-100,000 depending on the no of cars at home and how frequently they are used
If you want to be healthy, be fit you will pay for the cost of using a gym, hiring a personal trainer
If you want to enjoy life with your family, friends, kids you will pay to eat out, go out shopping, go to watch movies
Looks like my dad wasn't kidding when he told me that in order to live comfortably in Pakistan and get by, you will need a minimum monthly income of Rs 500,000 a month
The only complaints and problems I had back home when I came back for 3 months were adjusting to the heat, humidity, the dust, allergies, the poor internet speeds/insufficient connectivity, water problems but one gets used to these issues as well in the long run.