How to deal with a mean, bully family member?
I have a younger cousin who is 23 and I'm 27 and he is very indifferent towards me.
1) I remember I was playing cricket and I missed a shot, it was funny, however, this guy spoke loud about ridiculous I was to some of the spectators.
2) I acknowledged him on his birthday, what sapping him happy birthday, however, in return he hasn't said happy birthday to me at all in 2015 or 2016, he said it to my sister, but not me.
3) I go to functions, parties, events, family parties and he is blatantly ignoring me, he acknowledges and talks to everyone else but me. He's done that last Christmas party and other parties in succession, comes up to my cousin, talks to my sister all of them but me.
4) I went to his house 6 weeks ago and he did not acknowledge me and was talking to me sister, he said "at uni, women fancy me and some of these women me", he was also saying "I want to buy a car next year" and he his brother did not have back problems he would be the tallest in the family.
5) I went to his house ago 2 weeks ago and he also ignored me again and asked my sister how's work going, he knows very, very well I'm looking for programmer, software engineering jobs and he couldn't even say how's my job search going or anything. I went up to him and saying how's his masters going and he said it's good, however, he didn't even say how's my job search going.
I don't know why he does this? Perhaps he's scared I'll achieve more than him, earn more than him, so he doesn't ask how's my job search going and he doesn't want to feel inferior to someone he doesn't respect.
I have a younger cousin who is 23 and I'm 27 and he is very indifferent towards me.
1) I remember I was playing cricket and I missed a shot, it was funny, however, this guy spoke loud about ridiculous I was to some of the spectators.
2) I acknowledged him on his birthday, what sapping him happy birthday, however, in return he hasn't said happy birthday to me at all in 2015 or 2016, he said it to my sister, but not me.
3) I go to functions, parties, events, family parties and he is blatantly ignoring me, he acknowledges and talks to everyone else but me. He's done that last Christmas party and other parties in succession, comes up to my cousin, talks to my sister all of them but me.
4) I went to his house 6 weeks ago and he did not acknowledge me and was talking to me sister, he said "at uni, women fancy me and some of these women me", he was also saying "I want to buy a car next year" and he his brother did not have back problems he would be the tallest in the family.
5) I went to his house ago 2 weeks ago and he also ignored me again and asked my sister how's work going, he knows very, very well I'm looking for programmer, software engineering jobs and he couldn't even say how's my job search going or anything. I went up to him and saying how's his masters going and he said it's good, however, he didn't even say how's my job search going.
I don't know why he does this? Perhaps he's scared I'll achieve more than him, earn more than him, so he doesn't ask how's my job search going and he doesn't want to feel inferior to someone he doesn't respect.