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Pakistani Males and their preference for White females

Such an immature thread! I am a British Pakistani and never have I longed for a white British woman.

People need to realise what is practical and stop chasing only so called beauty. Generally, Pakistani women are smart, know how to bring up children, can cook, attractive so why go else where?

It is a different case when you naturally fall for someone and they are a different ethnicity but just going for skin colour is stupidity. Yet again, this forum is full of Asians who may just got abroad, some of these people lose their senses.

And are willing to live with inlaws, not to mention being part of your own culture and religion.

I think the majority of Pakistani guys would prefer a Pakistani women.
 
Tbf not many middle easterners or South East Asians are that much into black women either. I’ve seen them with Indians/ Pakistanis or white or some other race but not much with black women. So it’s not just Pakistanis.

Bro even black men aren't that into black women.
 
i know the word. However she is old enough to be a dadi or nani.

And that word only applies to a very small pecent of women above 40 let alone 50.

Nani at 54? lol, perhaps in Pakistan where women marry very young but over here that's middle aged, all my friends in their early-mid 20s have mothers around 50 and none of us have kids. Also that word is rarely used for women in their 30s lol, it's usually 40-somethings and 50-somethings like Eva Longoria and Jennifer Aniston so I don't know what you're talking about.
 
I'm born and bread brit with Asian background and yes I'm married to a red head English girl and couldn't be happier.
 
And are willing to live with inlaws, not to mention being part of your own culture and religion.

I think the majority of Pakistani guys would prefer a Pakistani women.

Yes alhamdullilah, my Mrs prays 5 times a day, I know that my children will get a good fundamental Islamic education at home.

I just think that some Pakistani men have lost their marbles, trying to fit in causes irrationality and complex.
 
My perspective is that, all races have good looking girls, but some have more than others. For example, I may find on average 1 out of 3 white girls attractive, 1 of 5 brown (desi) girls attractive, and 1 of 50 black girls attractive. It's not so much to do with skin colour though.
 
Yes alhamdullilah, my Mrs prays 5 times a day, I know that my children will get a good fundamental Islamic education at home.

I just think that some Pakistani men have lost their marbles, trying to fit in causes irrationality and complex.

Dude i have been with my partner who is from spain and i have two kids. If two people click nothing else matters. She could be from mars. "trying to fit in causes irrationality and complex" :(
 
Well British women are not what you call eye candy. I think most people who are talking here are not just talking about skin tone. But diff culture and values also.

There are a lot of good looking British women too and it's unwise to generalise.
 
My perspective is that, all races have good looking girls, but some have more than others. For example, I may find on average 1 out of 3 white girls attractive, 1 of 5 brown (desi) girls attractive, and 1 of 50 black girls attractive. It's not so much to do with skin colour though.

Just say you like white facial features and go; colorism doesn't just mean prefering light skin but caucasian facial features.
 
Nani at 54? lol, perhaps in Pakistan where women marry very young but over here that's middle aged, all my friends in their early-mid 20s have mothers around 50 and none of us have kids. Also that word is rarely used for women in their 30s lol, it's usually 40-somethings and 50-somethings like Eva Longoria and Jennifer Aniston so I don't know what you're talking about.

maryam nawaz is a nani. She is 47, and i think she has been a nani for a while.

Yes Eva Longoria certainly qualifies. However less than 5% of women in their 40's would qualify. That was my point. 50 plus women be someone like Elizabeth Hurley, probably less than 1% of women would look like her in the 40's.

Unfortunately for Jennifer Aniston, she does not qualify. She has hit the wall.
 
Dude i have been with my partner who is from spain and i have two kids. If two people click nothing else matters. She could be from mars. "trying to fit in causes irrationality and complex" :(

If they click then its fine. Besides, we all have a different outlook in life. What may be important to me may not be important to you and vice versa.

My messege is that getting with someone just because they are white is a rather immature move.
 
Yes alhamdullilah, my Mrs prays 5 times a day, I know that my children will get a good fundamental Islamic education at home.

I just think that some Pakistani men have lost their marbles, trying to fit in causes irrationality and complex.

That's quite rare I'd say, especially for Pakistani girls born and/or raised in the west. Most are just as promiscuous as white girls.
 
If they click then its fine. Besides, we all have a different outlook in life. What may be important to me may not be important to you and vice versa.

My messege is that getting with someone just because they are white is a rather immature move.

Yes agreed. But i dont see anyone saying that here
 
maryam nawaz is a nani. She is 47, and i think she has been a nani for a while.

Yes Eva Longoria certainly qualifies. However less than 5% of women in their 40's would qualify. That was my point. 50 plus women be someone like Elizabeth Hurley, probably less than 1% of women would look like her in the 40's.

Unfortunately for Jennifer Aniston, she does not qualify. She has hit the wall.

Maryam Nawaz is Pakistani, women over there marry very young and her daughters married very young too, most women in their 40s and early 50s aren't grandmas yet at least not in the west to assume so is the most paindoo thing I think of lol. Also I don't think you understand what the m word means, it's literally exclusively used for women in their 40s, who else would it be used for, it's never used for women under 35, you can say you're not into mil*s/cougars cause that's literally the definition.
 
Yes alhamdullilah, my Mrs prays 5 times a day, I know that my children will get a good fundamental Islamic education at home.

I just think that some Pakistani men have lost their marbles, trying to fit in causes irrationality and complex.

Alot of Pakistani guys like to fool around for a bit before they settle down, and then they want a shareef Pakistani ladki. With good religious values, and no past. And as long as they have a decent job, they usually are able to find someone through the arranged marriage route.
 
well ****, I guess not finding black girls attractive makes me racist? :))

Colorist would be the right word. Also it doesn't matter cause you're not black but yes if you said you don't find Desi girls attractive who have the same facial traits as you then that does make you a self-hater.
 
Maryam Nawaz is Pakistani, women over there marry very young and her daughters married very young too, most women in their 40s and early 50s aren't grandmas yet at least not in the west to assume so is the most paindoo thing I think of lol. Also I don't think you understand what the m word means, it's literally exclusively used for women in their 40s, who else would it be used for, it's never used for women under 35, you can say you're not into mil*s/cougars cause that's literally the definition.

I know what it means. do you know what the word stands for? The first letter stands for mom. It does not specify an age.

Of moms above the age of 40, only 5% or so would qualify for the "ilf" portion of the word. Like Eva Longoria.
 
I know what it means. do you know what the word stands for? The first letter stands for mom. It does not specify an age.

Of moms above the age of 40, only 5% or so would qualify for the "ilf" portion of the word. Like Eva Longoria.

You're taking the word literally, there's always been an age cutoff and women in their 20s and early 30s don't qualify; basically the origin of the word is when you were in high school that term would be used to describe a friends mom or a teacher so obviously it's the late 30s/40s age range it's not just used for some random 20 something girl :))

You can look up the definition on quora or urbandictionary, btw there's a whole wikipedia page about it which I'm not going to link but to summarize it's generally the 35 - 55 y/o range
 
Colorist would be the right word. Also it doesn't matter cause you're not black but yes if you said you don't find Desi girls attractive who have the same facial traits as you then that does make you a self-hater.

I googled colourist and it told me it's the same as racist. So I'm confused.
 
Bro even black men aren't that into black women.

Nah they are either into black women or into white women (usually). At least in the US, Canada might be different.

Black roommate in college, exclusively dated black women. Seen so many other black guys like that.
 
Then I guess we're all racist or some sort of bigots because we don't find every person attractive. I guess I'm a misandrist because I don't like men :danish

Problem and case for it being a little racist
You don't like ANY black women
Not getting off by thier features but just getting off cause they're simply black
 
That's quite rare I'd say, especially for Pakistani girls born and/or raised in the west. Most are just as promiscuous as white girls.

My Mrs is not from the West but there are also suitable Pakistani girls in the West too. What I realised in life is that its best to find a compatible partner in university/ college (in the UK) and get a nikkah done fairly young. But that's another topic.
 
Problem and case for it being a little racist
You don't like ANY black women
Not getting off by thier features but just getting off cause they're simply black

By thier meant individual black females feature not generalised perception of you think thier features are supposed to look like...
 
My Mrs is not from the West but there are also suitable Pakistani girls in the West too. What I realised in life is that its best to find a compatible partner in university/ college (in the UK) and get a nikkah done fairly young. But that's another topic.

I agree with you. Finding a even decently Islamic girl in the west seems like a mission though.
 
I was reading the other day the high divorce rate among desi people in the USA. One sociologist said one indicator of high divorce among desis was getting married too young. She herself seemed like a white muslim convert, by looking at her pic. I just read this one article by chance. So dont know much further about the topic.
 
I agree with you. Finding a even decently Islamic girl in the west seems like a mission though.

I think it's easier here than in the east tbh, I've been to Pakistan and there are just as many promiscuous girls the only difference is that here we can verify as everything is out in the open but over there there's nothing you can do.
 
Problem and case for it being a little racist
You don't like ANY black women
Not getting off by thier features but just getting off cause they're simply black

I never said that I find 0 black women pretty. I said 1 of 50. And I literally said that it doesn't have much to do with skin colour. To me it's mostly about hair. Black women don't have nice long, wavy hair, like girls of other ethnicities do.
 
I think it's easier here than in the east tbh, I've been to Pakistan and there are just as many promiscuous girls the only difference is that here we can verify as everything is out in the open but over there there's nothing you can do.

You may be right. I don't know much detail about how young Pakistani people act since I've never actually lived there.
 
That's quite rare I'd say, especially for Pakistani girls born and/or raised in the west. Most are just as promiscuous as white girls.

No, the majority are not like that. However the number of those type of girls is indeed growing.

I agree with you. Finding a even decently Islamic girl in the west seems like a mission though.

You can use an app like Muzzmatch, or a website like Half your deen. Plenty of religious Muslims girls use these.

Or go through the traditional method. Times have changed and its not like the old days. Girls are willing to talk to you, to see if their is mutual compatibility. Its basically instead of you finding someone and then introducing her to your parents, this is the opposite, your parents (usually mom) introduce you to someone and then you talk.

Especially not a bad option, if you have a decent job. Can punch above weight.
 
I think it's easier here than in the east tbh, I've been to Pakistan and there are just as many promiscuous girls the only difference is that here we can verify as everything is out in the open but over there there's nothing you can do.

No way. Even if they wanted to be promiscuous, the conservative culture would not allow them to be. Its usually the burger type girls who are like that, and too a minority of them.
 
No, the majority are not like that. However the number of those type of girls is indeed growing.



You can use an app like Muzzmatch, or a website like Half your deen. Plenty of religious Muslims girls use these.

Or go through the traditional method. Times have changed and its not like the old days. Girls are willing to talk to you, to see if their is mutual compatibility. Its basically instead of you finding someone and then introducing her to your parents, this is the opposite, your parents (usually mom) introduce you to someone and then you talk.

Especially not a bad option, if you have a decent job. Can punch above weight.

I was just telling my experience, being an 18 year old living in Canada, in an area with a decently high Pakistani (Muslim in general) population.
 
No, the majority are not like that. However the number of those type of girls is indeed growing.



You can use an app like Muzzmatch, or a website like Half your deen. Plenty of religious Muslims girls use these.

Or go through the traditional method. Times have changed and its not like the old days. Girls are willing to talk to you, to see if their is mutual compatibility. Its basically instead of you finding someone and then introducing her to your parents, this is the opposite, your parents (usually mom) introduce you to someone and then you talk.

Especially not a bad option, if you have a decent job. Can punch above weight.

Can also Go to MSA instead of looking for nights stands
There some smart and amazing Muslim females (in terms of personality of deen/world)
 
Can also Go to MSA instead of looking for nights stands
There some smart and amazing Muslim females (in terms of personality of deen/world)

True, and that might be a good time to get them in college.

Those girls, who have the looks, brains, and deen, have a very high "market value". Everyone wants them. Those type of girls receive rishta after rishta, so they can afford to be picky. So its best to get them early.
 
I think it's easier here than in the east tbh, I've been to Pakistan and there are just as many promiscuous girls the only difference is that here we can verify as everything is out in the open but over there there's nothing you can do.

I doubt that is true tbh. There are promiscuous people but I highly doubt that it is comparable to the west.
 
That's a broad generalization son

He is right. Having worked with African American men, I can attest to the fact. They prefer either biracial black women or straight up non black women. The obsession is glaring to see.
 
Did you have many options of Indian women when you were in Ukraine?

Well considering most desis, especially in subcontinent, live with their family, then of course there will be interference. Its still not a bad deal for guys, as we are living with our own parents.

I did have options. There were lots of seniors and juniors and my exs were from both. But it was exhaustive with so many hypocritical rules.

In India also, the same case as I've experienced. Desi girls do tend to be dramatic. Probably because while growing up in India, they get more attention than the Ukrainian girls residing in Ukraine.

They were simple, and outgoing. Either extremely extrovert or extremely introvert. But you can easily continue a relationship.

I don't mind families (father, mother) but when her grand parents, uncle, aunt all maddle in the relationship giving their inputs whilst not knowing any dynamics of the relationship, it becomes irritating.
 
I did have options. There were lots of seniors and juniors and my exs were from both. But it was exhaustive with so many hypocritical rules.

In India also, the same case as I've experienced. Desi girls do tend to be dramatic. Probably because while growing up in India, they get more attention than the Ukrainian girls residing in Ukraine.

They were simple, and outgoing. Either extremely extrovert or extremely introvert. But you can easily continue a relationship.

I don't mind families (father, mother) but when her grand parents, uncle, aunt all maddle in the relationship giving their inputs whilst not knowing any dynamics of the relationship, it becomes irritating.

Yea that's the worse. For most people in the subcontinent marriage is not 2 people, but 2 families getting married. And that can be frustrating, People dont mind their business.

I know some Pakistanis guys here in the US, who want to marry a girl from Pakistan for this reason. Her relatives will be thousands of miles away.


So in that case had you tied the knot with the Ukrainian then, her relatives would have been fa far away assuming you went back to India. And i think alot of them want to leave the country too, so that would not been a problem in convincing her to leave the country.

There is actually a half Ukranian/half Pakistani model, in Pakistan, Neha Rajpoot. So apparently some desis and Ukrainians have married.
 
I would like to add Most desis will be surprised to know that nowadays white men are the ones fetishizing women of our race.

When studying in europe, I saw many tall and well groomed white dudes with below average east Asians and indian girls.

As I said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder
 
I think it's more of psychological thing for brown males, they want to get with white women because its forbidden fruit.
 
Me personally I find all races attractive. I used to have the biggest crush on bipashu basu her skin complexion is perfect.
 
I would like to add Most desis will be surprised to know that nowadays white men are the ones fetishizing women of our race.

When studying in europe, I saw many tall and well groomed white dudes with below average east Asians and indian girls.

As I said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Right, so maybe by Pakistani beauty standards those women were below average. But clearly those guys did not feel the same way.
 
I think it's more of psychological thing for brown males, they want to get with white women because its forbidden fruit.

Personally white women aren't a forbidden fruit for me, I think Indian Hindu/Sikh, Jewish/Israeli, Armenian and to lesser extent Afghan women are like the forbidden fruit.
 
Everyone has their preference, though for me personally I was never attracted to white women. Desi or Mediterranean women have always who I tend to find really attractive.
 
Personally white women aren't a forbidden fruit for me, I think Indian Hindu/Sikh, Jewish/Israeli, Armenian and to lesser extent Afghan women are like the forbidden fruit.

yah that makes sense but newcomers that come to the west proablly seen all those hollywood movies and have fantasies about goris lol.
 
Right, so maybe by Pakistani beauty standards those women were below average. But clearly those guys did not feel the same way.

Most men anywhere would not find them attractive, those females in particular are shorter, fatter and average facial features.

Nowadays, many European and American men dudes are developing an asian/brown women fetish.
 
Most men anywhere would not find them attractive, those females in particular are shorter, fatter and average facial features.

Nowadays, many European and American men dudes are developing an asian/brown women fetish.

Sounds like a lot of self hate, I'm not sure if you're talking about the girls you knew in Europe or brown girls in general? Cause the ones we have here in the US are actually quite attractive, there are many attractive western desi girls on instagram as well I guess you've been around certain types..
 
Sounds like a lot of self hate, I'm not sure if you're talking about the girls you knew in Europe or brown girls in general? Cause the ones we have here in the US are actually quite attractive, there are many attractive western desi girls on instagram as well I guess you've been around certain types..

Oh no.
I was referring to specific women that I saw.

I think the women in Islamabad are more attractive than many Western European women that I saw.

I've never been to the US though
 
An average Pakistan likes a white girl - he is called a dirty fellow.
If Imran Khan has dated many white girls - Hail the womanizer.

Seems like the Pakistani nation has double standards and to be honest, it is your own life at the end of the day whatever makes you happy you should go for it.

I mean, I can not marry a Pakistani girl because for me that is akin to marrying a 10-year-old girl who is not mature enough even in their 50s - you would still be looking after her like she is just a 10 year old girl. To be honest, marryng a pakistani girl means carring a lot of extra emotional baggage.

Truth to be told - given a choice all of you guys would go for a white lady but it is not so easy .....in reality :inzi2
 
Some very judgmental comments in this thread. Wow. Maybe stay clear of relationships till you mature internally a bit more.
 
An average Pakistan likes a white girl - he is called a dirty fellow.
If Imran Khan has dated many white girls - Hail the womanizer.

Seems like the Pakistani nation has double standards and to be honest, it is your own life at the end of the day whatever makes you happy you should go for it.

I mean, I can not marry a Pakistani girl because for me that is akin to marrying a 10-year-old girl who is not mature enough even in their 50s - you would still be looking after her like she is just a 10 year old girl. To be honest, marryng a pakistani girl means carring a lot of extra emotional baggage.

Truth to be told - given a choice all of you guys would go for a white lady but it is not so easy .....in reality :inzi2

You sound very mature lol
 
An average Pakistan likes a white girl - he is called a dirty fellow.
If Imran Khan has dated many white girls - Hail the womanizer.

Seems like the Pakistani nation has double standards and to be honest, it is your own life at the end of the day whatever makes you happy you should go for it.

I mean, I can not marry a Pakistani girl because for me that is akin to marrying a 10-year-old girl who is not mature enough even in their 50s - you would still be looking after her like she is just a 10 year old girl. To be honest, marryng a pakistani girl means carring a lot of extra emotional baggage.

Truth to be told - given a choice all of you guys would go for a white lady but it is not so easy .....in reality :inzi2

lol what
 
I'm born and bread brit with Asian background and yes I'm married to a red head English girl and couldn't be happier.

Good for you mate. You do get weird threads like this on here from time to time, sometimes need a reminder that there's usually a lot more to people than their skin colour.
 
Good for you mate. You do get weird threads like this on here from time to time, sometimes need a reminder that there's usually a lot more to people than their skin colour.

In the OP

"For those y'all married and living a happy family life I have no problem y'all are good people and not doing this as part of trophy hunting obsession"...
 
What is this thread lol. The only other forum I've seen where people discuss their racial features and preferences so shamelessly has been on Stormfront.
 
In some case it’s a marriage of convenience, in the uk we see a lot of Indian Pakistani males and a lot of polish and Romanian or other Eastern European’s females coming together. Both parties need stability in a foreign country and in some case sit can help with documents etc. From the girls I’ve spoken to pakistani and Indian men from back home are seen as very affectionate and are actually seen as good catches in comparison to Eastern European men or even born and bred uk Pakistanis.

However I also think a lot of the needs in western countries are changing, the days of marrying someone from back home being the sole bread winner and supporting the women and her family back home have ll but gone unless your very wealthy. To live comfortably get a mortgage etc in the uk you need two incomes, unfortunately majority of pakistani women especially from back home want to sit t home and be supported by their husband. Therefore to fit the lifestyle and needs Caucasian women are seen as a more stable catch.
 
In some case it’s a marriage of convenience, in the uk we see a lot of Indian Pakistani males and a lot of polish and Romanian or other Eastern European’s females coming together. Both parties need stability in a foreign country and in some case sit can help with documents etc. From the girls I’ve spoken to pakistani and Indian men from back home are seen as very affectionate and are actually seen as good catches in comparison to Eastern European men or even born and bred uk Pakistanis.

However I also think a lot of the needs in western countries are changing, the days of marrying someone from back home being the sole bread winner and supporting the women and her family back home have ll but gone unless your very wealthy. To live comfortably get a mortgage etc in the uk you need two incomes, unfortunately majority of pakistani women especially from back home want to sit t home and be supported by their husband. Therefore to fit the lifestyle and needs Caucasian women are seen as a more stable catch.

UK also has a lot of Nigerians and other Africans. Why are there not a lot of Indian and Pakistani men marrying them? I mean the stability, affection reasoning you are using can also apply to them.
 
From what I have seen it’s most minority communities which prefer an inter racial relationship (not everyone but I wouldn’t say only a specific race likes white women, black men for example love white women to), while some may say it’s also possibly related to inferior complex on some level others just prefer a partner who has western characteristics entirely, attraction and also one who can give them mixed raced babies potentially.
 
UK also has a lot of Nigerians and other Africans. Why are there not a lot of Indian and Pakistani men marrying them? I mean the stability, affection reasoning you are using can also apply to them.

It’s a two way thing, Nigerians and other Africans are not as attracted to Pakistanis or Indians as say Eastern European’s are or British girls in the north of the country are.
 
In some case it’s a marriage of convenience, in the uk we see a lot of Indian Pakistani males and a lot of polish and Romanian or other Eastern European’s females coming together. Both parties need stability in a foreign country and in some case sit can help with documents etc. From the girls I’ve spoken to pakistani and Indian men from back home are seen as very affectionate and are actually seen as good catches in comparison to Eastern European men or even born and bred uk Pakistanis.

However I also think a lot of the needs in western countries are changing, the days of marrying someone from back home being the sole bread winner and supporting the women and her family back home have ll but gone unless your very wealthy. To live comfortably get a mortgage etc in the uk you need two incomes, unfortunately majority of pakistani women especially from back home want to sit t home and be supported by their husband. Therefore to fit the lifestyle and needs Caucasian women are seen as a more stable catch.
I don't think they want to sit at home and do nothing, it's usually the husbands and their familiies that place restrictions on them as some are quite backward and think women should only stay in the kitchen and raise children and in some cases be slaves of their in laws, also many Pakistani guys in the west deliberately marry a girl from the homeland as they think they would be better homemakers and won't want the freedoms that a western raised girl would want, so can't blame the women in this regard.
 
unfortunately majority of pakistani women especially from back home want to sit t home and be supported by their husband. Therefore to fit the lifestyle and needs Caucasian women are seen as a more stable catch.

Lol what the heck. This is some new logic I’ve seen.

Women (usually from small cities etc) are brought by British Pakistani households in the first place so that they are seen as less independent, less demanding and be good homemakers. You can’t marry those women for a specific reason and then say that that reason is the problem.
 
Lol what the heck. This is some new logic I’ve seen.

Women (usually from small cities etc) are brought by British Pakistani households in the first place so that they are seen as less independent, less demanding and be good homemakers. You can’t marry those women for a specific reason and then say that that reason is the problem.

Well said..
 
What is this thread lol. The only other forum I've seen where people discuss their racial features and preferences so shamelessly has been on Stormfront.

Nothing wrong with racial preference. Diversity is good. If you like yellow and I like red, nothing to be offended about.
 
Well said..

And that system worked. Now women want to take up a job because other women are doing so. More competition and less jobs for men, who the society expects to be the provider, while for women it is vanity with no mortgage or responsibility for parents, kids and elder citizens getting neglected because woman also needs to go outside to work and thinks work of homemaker is below her dignity. Then hire baby care and come home tired late at night and say hello to your kids. Root of the most evils we are seeing in the modern society.
 
From what I have seen it’s most minority communities which prefer an inter racial relationship (not everyone but I wouldn’t say only a specific race likes white women, black men for example love white women to), while some may say it’s also possibly related to inferior complex on some level others just prefer a partner who has western characteristics entirely, attraction and also one who can give them mixed raced babies potentially.

Then how does that explain white men going after east asian women, when they are the majority.
 
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