Please pray for my mother's magfirat

[Savak]

My mother, my biggest emotional support and backer in my toughest circumstances, who always pushed me to work hard and be a good human being, who always devoted her entire life to caring for the poor and under privileged all her life breathed her last today at the age of 65.

She had been badly battling the debilitating illness Multiple System Atrophy for the last 5 years. My family is obviously extremely sad for her to have left us but at the same time we are happy that her suffering is over and she does not have to suffer at the hands of this debilitating illness which took away everything from her and left her bedridden.

I would like to request everyone to please pray for her magfirat in the hereafter and for her to go to Jannat.

 

[pakistan cricket fan]

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

 

[SalimBhai]

Sorry for your loss. Deepest condolences

 

[Manunited18]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaehi raajioon

 

[Ahmad-GERMANFC]

May Allah give her jannah

 

[PakLFC]

Prayers for your mother's well being and peace after her exit from this world to the next. Kullu Nafsin Zaikatul Maut.

 

[Junaids]

Sorry for your loss.

 

[Varun]

Condolences Savak.

 

[sweep_shot]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun.

Sorry to hear that.

May she receive highest level of Jannah.

 

[IndoorCricket]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Life is so precious. I lost my grandma yesterday. She was a loving person and loved us all so much. Please take care everyone. You never know what happens tomorrow.

 

[daytrader]

Inna lilahi wa ina ilayhi raji'un

Sorry for your great loss. May Allah grant you and your family, patience to get through this HORR time.

 

[gazza619]

Inna lilahi wa ina ilayhi raji'un

I am so sad for your loss brother

May Allah give her highest place in Jannat

 

[in_cutter]

Innah Lillahi Wah Innah Illaihi Rajioon. Sorry for your loss.

I lost my mother in April. I still have not grieved. Biggest loss ever.

 

[IMMY69]

So sorry to hear this.
May she rest in peace now and you and your family find the strength and courage to get through these very difficult times.

 

[IAJ]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.

Bhot Afsous hua sun key, Allah paak unhe Jannat al Firdous mein ala muqaam ata farmaye aur tumhey aur tumhari family kou sabr-e-jameel dey, ameen.

 

[IAJ]

Innah Lillahi Wah Innah Illaihi Rajioon. Sorry for your loss.

I lost my mother in April. I still have not grieved. Biggest loss ever.

Oh didn't know that. May Allah give you plenty of patience, brother and your beloved mother a place in Jannatul Firdous, ameen.

 

[Hitman]

This is extremely sad. I lost my father in November last year. So I can understand what you are going through.

Be strong!

 

[dildilpak]

So sorry to hear this. Lost my father last month, so can understand your pain. Stay strong, bud.

 

[Finisher]

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

 

[SalimBhai]

That’s many people losing lives ones. COVID?

 

[smkk]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.

May the Almighty grant her Jannat ul Ferdous, at the same time may He give you and your family sabr.

 

[in_cutter]

That’s many people losing lives ones. COVID?

 

[Cover Drive Six]

[MENTION=2501]Savak[/MENTION] and [MENTION=133315]Hitman[/MENTION]

Sorry for your loss.
Om Shanti.

 

[KingKhanWC]

Sorry your loss. It must the most difficult loss for any human.

May she be granted a high place in Jannah.

 

[finalfantasy7]

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

 

[The_KING]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun

May she gets the highest place in Jannah.

 

[Technics 1210]

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

Condolences Savak

 

[Hitman]

[MENTION=2501]Savak[/MENTION] and [MENTION=133315]Hitman[/MENTION]

Sorry for your loss.
Om Shanti.

Thanks, brother!

 

[JaDed]

Condolences Savak and Hitman, the passing away of a parent hits even more as time passes and rituals are done.

 

[Tera Gawaandi]

Sorry for your loss, 65 is too young by western world life expectancy.

 

[BunnyRabbit]

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

May her soul rest in heavens.

 

[Suleiman]

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji’un

May Allah forgive her, and may she be at peace now.



My Condolences to you as well [MENTION=133315]Hitman[/MENTION]. Hope you are doing better now.

 

[Suleiman]

Innah Lillahi Wah Innah Illaihi Rajioon. Sorry for your loss.

I lost my mother in April. I still have not grieved. Biggest loss ever.

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji’un.

May Allah give you and your family strength, and may He forgive her. Aameen.

 

[Cover Drive Six]

Innah Lillahi Wah Innah Illaihi Rajioon. Sorry for your loss.

I lost my mother in April. I still have not grieved. Biggest loss ever.

Sorry for your loss.
Take care bro.

 

[Hitman]

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji’un

May Allah forgive her, and may she be at peace now.



My Condolences to you as well [MENTION=133315]Hitman[/MENTION]. Hope you are doing better now.

Thanks, bro! Yes, I'm doing much better than before.

 

[Bewal Express]

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji’un
May Allah give you and the family sabar.

 

[Savak]

Thanking everyone for their wishes.

My father is the one who has taken it very very hard. His mood varies from one day to the next. Being a doctor he knew the prognosis of the illness she had and he agreed with her decision to prioritize quality of life vs getting put on ventilators, dialysis machines, morphine pills, injections. He had been preparing himself mentally for her eventual passing for the last 3 years but alas its one thing to mentally know about it and know its coming and its another thing to actually go through and experience it when she's gone.

He had a very emotional severe emotional reaction within a few hours of her passing ie he wants to get rid off the whole house, cars as he can't live in this house anymore. After being counselled by his siblings and children to relax and let the initial shock of her demise surpass, he has now calmed down a bit but he is still instructing us to get rid off all her things which remind him off her.

There is no magic pill or solution to his state of mind, we as his kids will always be there for him but he will also need his time, space to deal with it. He is burying himself in his work to cope and he also wants to travel alone and go on a brief vacation himself to clear his mind and to plan his life.

I promised my mother that me and my wife will never leave him even if he tries to push us away and I will stick to it as I know full well how vulnerable elder parents are and how out of no where they can become completely dependent on others and that there is no substitute for one's own kids in the end.

I don't break down very often but I did break down twice first she passed away in front of my eyes and second at the Janaza. I can't stop thinking about her and my mind is asking questions about "Could I have spent more time with her?", "Could I have taken her out to resteraunts as per her wishes even if doctors advised against it"

Cannot stress enough to people to do everything to please and cherish their parents and to speak to them at your hearts content because once they are gone, you will be filled with regrets and remorse.

My wife for the past one year really looked after my sick mother as her own and beyond. She took care of my moms needs and helped her with certain things that I was barred from. At the end she was the only person who could decipher what she was saying as dad and I struggled too. I can never thank her or repay her enough for this.

 

[James]

Rest in peace, Amen.

 

[Savak]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Life is so precious. I lost my grandma yesterday. She was a loving person and loved us all so much. Please take care everyone. You never know what happens tomorrow.

My condolences for the loss of your grandmother. Innilahe wa in al ilalahi Rajeoon. May Allah give you and your family the strength to cope with this loss.

 

[Savak]

This is extremely sad. I lost my father in November last year. So I can understand what you are going through.

Be strong!

Sorry for your loss hitman. Innilahe wah in al I lahe rajeon. I pray Allah gives you and your family the strength to cope.

 

[Savak]

So sorry to hear this. Lost my father last month, so can understand your pain. Stay strong, bud.

My condolences to you. Innilahe wah in al ilalahi Rajeoon

 

[RexRex]

Sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace.

 

[Manunited18]

Almighty Allah grant your mother jannatul firdaus aameen

 

[Markhor]

Just seen this thread. Awful news, very sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you and your family.

 

[Saj]

Sorry to you and your family for your loss.

Stay strong at this difficult time.

 

[topspin]

Sorry for your loss Savak. May Allah (SWT) grant her a place in Jannah and bring peace to you and everyone in her family.

 

[Vatta]

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun

So sorry for your loss, mate.