This is how my cousin behaved:
1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night". He also insulted my mother before.
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm doing a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad" on cric match birthday 2015 almost pushing me, being aggressive.
3.0) I was in the car and he said something to a cricket mate angrily while looking at me
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others" in 2013.
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session same time 2013.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking" in 2014 cricket match.
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely in August 2014 cricket match final.
7.2) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October 2016.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9.3) he was taking a dig putting me down in a subtle way when it was diwali in 2015, 2016.
10) At a party he acted big towards me in 2014.
11) He called me and my cousin prats in october 2017.
6.0) He said at his own uncle's birthday party 2018 “get off” disrespectfully
12) He shouted and argued with my dad in xmas 2015.
13) Also when P uncle said get a women he something disrepectful to me in late 2014
14) When went baby shower came back the house in 2019 he goes “it's quite in the room” and more words which he may/not be trying to antagonize me.
15) He also goes at xmas 2016 party “look at what I looks like”.
21) Also he looked angry at me when I was blocking his view.
He has been ostracising me for years and speak to everyone else but me. I could be sitting on the table with others and he'll talk to everyone else expect me.
Obviously he is condensing and arrogant. There is a lot, lot more I could say and add on here.
I have been seeking help and they told me to cut my family members out and just keep the power by acting with kindness, being relaxed and moving on with my life. They will never really acknowledge anything.
However why does this guy do this? Is it he has a huge ego so he wishes to be better than me? He could be insecure. His parents have said things about me and my father too.
He thinks I'm lying about my education too and thinks I cannot do computer programming.
Now this person knows I could do very well and he is keeping a bit quiet now, he doesn't seem affected however I think he's trying not to be affected. I'd love to put him in his place, I really do.
1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night". He also insulted my mother before.
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm doing a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad" on cric match birthday 2015 almost pushing me, being aggressive.
3.0) I was in the car and he said something to a cricket mate angrily while looking at me
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others" in 2013.
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session same time 2013.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking" in 2014 cricket match.
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely in August 2014 cricket match final.
7.2) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October 2016.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9.3) he was taking a dig putting me down in a subtle way when it was diwali in 2015, 2016.
10) At a party he acted big towards me in 2014.
11) He called me and my cousin prats in october 2017.
6.0) He said at his own uncle's birthday party 2018 “get off” disrespectfully
12) He shouted and argued with my dad in xmas 2015.
13) Also when P uncle said get a women he something disrepectful to me in late 2014
14) When went baby shower came back the house in 2019 he goes “it's quite in the room” and more words which he may/not be trying to antagonize me.
15) He also goes at xmas 2016 party “look at what I looks like”.
21) Also he looked angry at me when I was blocking his view.
He has been ostracising me for years and speak to everyone else but me. I could be sitting on the table with others and he'll talk to everyone else expect me.
Obviously he is condensing and arrogant. There is a lot, lot more I could say and add on here.
I have been seeking help and they told me to cut my family members out and just keep the power by acting with kindness, being relaxed and moving on with my life. They will never really acknowledge anything.
However why does this guy do this? Is it he has a huge ego so he wishes to be better than me? He could be insecure. His parents have said things about me and my father too.
He thinks I'm lying about my education too and thinks I cannot do computer programming.
Now this person knows I could do very well and he is keeping a bit quiet now, he doesn't seem affected however I think he's trying not to be affected. I'd love to put him in his place, I really do.
