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The company I work for, relies far too much on me, and I'm desperately trying to find a new job in a different city. Do not want to leave my co-workers high and dry..
 
Syed1 said:
The company I work for, relies far too much on me, and I'm desperately trying to find a new job in a different city. Do not want to leave my co-workers high and dry..
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Must be a top company...
 
My department has to enroll me in a certain 400-level course.

The problem is, I'll find out which course they enrolled me exactly the time when I log in to enroll in my other courses.

We're supposed to plan ahead and ensure that none of our courses clash with each other. And given the fact that I've NO IDEA what the dept will do, bothers me greatly. What if they enroll me in a course that clashes with some other core course? I HAVE to graduate next year. What the hell is this?! :mad:
 
blinding light said:
My department has to enroll me in a certain 400-level course.

The problem is, I'll find out which course they enrolled me exactly the time when I log in to enroll in my other courses.

We're supposed to plan ahead and ensure that none of our courses clash with each other. And given the fact that I've NO IDEA what the dept will do, bothers me greatly. What if they enroll me in a course that clashes with some other core course? I HAVE to graduate next year. What the hell is this?! :mad:
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Put a recorder in one of the classes if a clash occurs?
 
blinding light said:
My department has to enroll me in a certain 400-level course.

The problem is, I'll find out which course they enrolled me exactly the time when I log in to enroll in my other courses.

We're supposed to plan ahead and ensure that none of our courses clash with each other. And given the fact that I've NO IDEA what the dept will do, bothers me greatly. What if they enroll me in a course that clashes with some other core course? I HAVE to graduate next year. What the hell is this?! :mad:
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Hermione Granger standard-issue Time Turner:

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Yours for only $12.99 at Etsy.
 
RWAC said:
Put a recorder in one of the classes if a clash occurs?
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... Don't think I can manage that - esp if the class is on the other edge of campus :facepalm:

Oh God. The more I think about it, the more I feel like punching someone.

Nostalgic said:
Hermione Granger standard-issue Time Turner:

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Yours for only $12.99 at Etsy.
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:)))

I might just end up needing that bit of magic! :)
 
Deadly car crash in front of my building. A car that was speeding hit a public bus from the back corner, the buses here are made like tanks so the passengers in the bus were alright. The car flipped many times, doors flew nearly 100 metres away and the car driver or the passenger with him mostly died. A life gone to waste because the driver thought he was cool. Driver is mostly an Iraqi or an Afghani 20 something year olds. Young guys from these communities try so hard to be cool.
 
Its 3am in the morning and my kids are not sleeping...
Summer Holidays + Ramadan

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Was told not to consume caffeine by the dentist while the four wisdom teeth extraction sites heal.

Just broke down and bought iced coffee. The caffeine headache is dissipating, but the big question is, will I pay for it later? Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
 
A lot of things...and then nothing..

I just want to be content in whatever I do..and presently, am not.
 
Can't seem to get into anything.

Whether it's trying to read a book or playing a video-game or trying out different software's or playing sports, It always gets boring after a while when it never used to.
 
The girl I love seems to have a boyfriend.I am heartbroken right now and upon that UAE lost to Kenya
 
WC-Passion said:
Can't seem to get into anything.

Whether it's trying to read a book or playing a video-game or trying out different software's or playing sports, It always gets boring after a while when it never used to.
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Internet addiction. You probably had spent too much time on the internet. It is not the internet, it is the infinity amount of good contents that internet constantly provides you that has hurt you. You got too much good things so now normal things seem very boring. Your dopamine receptors have gotten used to watching exciting videos, information, news and so on that now normal things seem very boring.
 
Thivagar said:
Deadly car crash in front of my building. A car that was speeding hit a public bus from the back corner, the buses here are made like tanks so the passengers in the bus were alright. The car flipped many times, doors flew nearly 100 metres away and the car driver or the passenger with him mostly died. A life gone to waste because the driver thought he was cool. Driver is mostly an Iraqi or an Afghani 20 something year olds. Young guys from these communities try so hard to be cool.
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This is mostly tragic.
 
Younis Khan's insatiable thirst to be the captain of Pakistan. Give it a rest, dude!
 
WC-Passion said:
Can't seem to get into anything.

Whether it's trying to read a book or playing a video-game or trying out different software's or playing sports, It always gets boring after a while when it never used to.
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Same here man. Going through a hard time.
 
Firebreaker said:
She was my cousins friend we interacted on FB but my cousin told me some secrets about her
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Facebook love isn't good man. You have to meet them, they have to feel comfortable. You make them first feel comfortable through chat, create a habit of online chatting, then you meet and don't choke. What do you think about her BF ?
 
Enrollment went very smoothly. Got an email by the dept 2 days before enrollment about the course they put me in. My first preference. Conflict resolution and peace building :)

What's bothering me though? I've to up my game in Japanese. :sigh:
 
Need to lose weight, gained 4 kgs during ramadan, stopped going to the gym as I get tired after taraweeh. Can't control my eating disorder :inzi

Only one or two days of fasting then Eid :amla
 
Thivagar said:
Internet addiction. You probably had spent too much time on the internet. It is not the internet, it is the infinity amount of good contents that internet constantly provides you that has hurt you. You got too much good things so now normal things seem very boring. Your dopamine receptors have gotten used to watching exciting videos, information, news and so on that now normal things seem very boring.
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This is so me man, it all intensified when I fell into depression, it became a go to source of comfort away from the real life that I now want to have none of and subconsciously urge to keep away from, a way of hiding away from it, everything beginning to feel so meaningless, the obvious realization about my desperately needing help dawning upon me only for the sheer absence of will to do something at all about it. I don't even know what the **** I'm doing with myself or why I'm letting it out here. :sanga
 
Firebreaker said:
She was my cousins friend we interacted on FB but my cousin told me some secrets about her
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Even Though she is your cousin, don't take word by word what your cousin said it to heart. Get to know her, chat with her more and see where that leads, also don't judge her brother on what other people are saying. :amla
 
Ashraful_Rox said:
Even Though she is your cousin, don't take word by word what your cousin said it to heart. Get to know her, chat with her more and see where that leads, also don't judge her brother on what other people are saying. :amla
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Can we start a new thread titled 'Dating Advice from Ashraful' please?
 
Ashraful_Rox said:
Need to lose weight, gained 4 kgs during ramadan, stopped going to the gym as I get tired after taraweeh. Can't control my eating disorder :inzi

Only one or two days of fasting then Eid :amla
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Isn't ramazan meant to rid of you of all the excesses in life? And you went on to gluttony for Iftar?
 
uberkoen said:
So, basically what's bothering you right now is life.
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Yes you can say. Studies are actually really tough and exams create surplus burden, However putting that aside comes family issues and career opportunities, Very low scope of jobs in our country as with higher supply of people qualified as well as unqualified compared to low amount of job opportunities available and with ever so rising prices snd taxes, I want my life to settle down as early as possible because it would just make me feel good and have peeace if not anything else whilist i too have my own desires alongside being eldest of siblings, Future marriage life because Im a really tough person to live with and adjust, I want opposite sex to be less demanding and down to earth. Headache is due to depression, Its very difficult for a young one to live without depression in this country, Considering elders and seniors are always considered to be right and there are minimal opportunities available for us.
 
The fact I'll have to fast an extra day as I am travelling to Pak for eid. Lol. Didn't plan this too well.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
Yes ive done that.
But everything seems to go inverse to what i think like, Our society and economy probably dont make things helpful either.
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You need to strengthen your faith, don't get me wrong, but the fact is that if you're a true Muslim then you realize that nothing, literally nothing can happen without the will of Allah (swt) and once you grasp that fact, you will realise that everything that you want in this world and in the hereafter can only be given to you by Allah.
 
Saqs said:
The fact I'll have to fast an extra day as I am travelling to Pak for eid. Lol. Didn't plan this too well.
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You don't know that for sure. It could be 30 back where you're from. Don't tell me you're going to keep the 31st as well?
 
Thivagar said:
Internet addiction. You probably had spent too much time on the internet. It is not the internet, it is the infinity amount of good contents that internet constantly provides you that has hurt you. You got too much good things so now normal things seem very boring. Your dopamine receptors have gotten used to watching exciting videos, information, news and so on that now normal things seem very boring.
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True, but it's also the fact that I'm in waiting for a-lot things in the future that makes all this stuff seem boring. (and by future I mean about 1-2 months)

Also that's some deep stuff :srt
 
uberkoen said:
You don't know that for sure. It could be 30 back where you're from. Don't tell me you're going to keep the 31st as well?
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Nah confirmed as 29 where I'm flying from.
 
Haroon786 said:
You need to strengthen your faith, don't get me wrong, but the fact is that if you're a true Muslim then you realize that nothing, literally nothing can happen without the will of Allah (swt) and once you grasp that fact, you will realise that everything that you want in this world and in the hereafter can only be given to you by Allah.
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Thats why im still waiting for tables to turn around in such a way that i obtain stability alongside peace in head.
 
I have urges that I want to fulfil but can't since it's only possible through marriage but I can't afford marriage just yet and if I fulfil certain urges then God will be very unhappy with me, what a bummer :sanga it's not fair.
 
shaz619 said:
I have urges that I want to fulfil but can't since it's only possible through marriage but I can't afford marriage just yet and if I fulfil certain urges then God will be very unhappy with me, what a bummer :sanga it's not fair.
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You are allowed to marry four times, so you have options.
 
shaz619 said:
I have urges that I want to fulfil but can't since it's only possible through marriage but I can't afford marriage just yet and if I fulfil certain urges then God will be very unhappy with me, what a bummer :sanga it's not fair.
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:)) You can always talk to the hand lmao.
 
Haroon786 said:
You need to strengthen your faith, don't get me wrong, but the fact is that if you're a true Muslim then you realize that nothing, literally nothing can happen without the will of Allah (swt) and once you grasp that fact, you will realise that everything that you want in this world and in the hereafter can only be given to you by Allah.
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How is that supposed to help him? does he have to believe that all that is happening to him now has been orchestrated by a higher power which is going to ultimately help his difficulties

*providing he never miss 5 daily prayers and protects his private parts*
 
What about all the other people who are suffering in the world [MENTION=134473]Haroon786[/MENTION] do they have to accept their fate in this life for reward in the after is that their test? even though [MENTION=113742]Hamzakhalid[/MENTION] still has options for now in that there is a "table" which may turn
 
shaz619 said:
I have urges that I want to fulfil but can't since it's only possible through marriage but I can't afford marriage just yet and if I fulfil certain urges then God will be very unhappy with me, what a bummer :sanga it's not fair.
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Dilema of plenty i think, Maybe 96% of young guys. And to be fair even i cant think of a solution. Fasting has been adviced for such case but you can't fast for obvious reasons, And regarding marriage thing you've already mentioned it. However i would suggest to:
Take light food and do not eat heavy or very healthy foods, Indulge yourself in going out with friends late till night and driving or sports, Stay out of home as much as possible in friends and fun, Try to fight against your desire yes its impossible because it is one of need for a human body. However i cant suggest you a permenant solution for this for time being.
 
shah_1 said:
You are allowed to marry four times, so you have options.
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11ShadyBrothers said:
:)) You can always talk to the hand lmao.
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Can't marry at the moment, am so broke to and homeless with my own fam to support have to look after them before I can think of finding an angelina jolie look alike.

We talk to each other every day [MENTION=139202]11ShadyBrothers[/MENTION] although it hasn't been so frequent in Ramadan, occasionaly after Ifthar. But at the end of the day you want some real pie

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Obviously though an intimate relation with our opposite however risk burning in hell
 
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Dilema of plenty i think, Maybe 96% of young guys. And to be fair even i cant think of a solution. Fasting has been adviced for such case but you can't fast for obvious reasons, And regarding marriage thing you've already mentioned it. However i would suggest to:
Take light food and do not eat heavy or very healthy foods, Indulge yourself in going out with friends late till night and driving or sports, Stay out of home as much as possible in friends and fun, Try to fight against your desire yes its impossible because it is one of need for a human body. However i cant suggest you a permenant solution for this for time being.
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I was reading about these things few days ago in a book called "Lust and Greed" it advised on the same things eat less and healthy, fast all the time, preferably every other day or twice a week. Am not exactly going to fornicate that I can control but talking to the hand is apparently just as bad according to various scholars and I can't seem to stop that.
 
shaz619 said:
Can't marry at the moment, am so broke to and homeless with my own fam to support have to look after them before I can think of finding an angelina jolie look alike.

We talk to each other every day [MENTION=139202]11ShadyBrothers[/MENTION] although it hasn't been so frequent in Ramadan, occasionaly after Ifthar. But at the end of the day you want some real pie

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After ifthar talking sessions. :))

On a serious note, I think you live in the UK, right? I am surprised to be honest. Like its more easier there than here. I dont understand how talking to the hand is any different than having some real pie.

Also, you are restricting to much yourself here. I am not going to suggest anything but yeah well i might not subscribe to such restrictions. Each to their own i guess.
 
shaz619 said:
What about all the other people who are suffering in the world [MENTION=134473]Haroon786[/MENTION] do they have to accept their fate in this life for reward in the after is that their test? even though [MENTION=113742]Hamzakhalid[/MENTION] still has options for now in that there is a "table" which may turn
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I lost my dad at a very early age and some other problems going on time to time, Im ambitious at times and passionate about my stuff, Im inclined towards going ahead to establish myself asap, I dont find society helpful, Too much discrimination between people, Young and Elders, Experienced and Inexperienced, Rich and Poor.
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
After ifthar talking sessions. :))

On a serious note, I think you live in the UK, right? I am surprised to be honest. Like its more easier there than here. I dont understand how talking to the hand is any different than having some real pie.

Also, you are restricting to much yourself here. I am not going to suggest anything but yeah well i might not subscribe to such restrictions. Each to their own i guess.
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It's true, many scholars have said apparently it's just as bad. Each to their own and I have made mistakes when times were rough but I don't want to sin I guess I understand the circumstances behind why certain folk will do x,y,z but since it's not allowed in our faith one can feel a great deal of guilt.
 
shaz619 said:
I was reading about these things few days ago in a book called "Lust and Greed" it advised on the same things eat less and healthy, fast all the time, preferably every other day or twice a week. Am not exactly going to fornicate that I can control but talking to the hand is apparently just as bad according to various scholars and I can't seem to stop that.
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Even if u fast every next day, You wont leave it might be that you would get a little better, I doubt it, Also people tend to realize that you are just a common human being and not any saint, Also its very tough to fast every next day considering you are young and have to focus on studies and stuff. I cant really suggest you a way out.
 
shaz619 said:
It's true, many scholars have said apparently it's just as bad. Each to their own and I have made mistakes when times were rough but I don't want to sin I guess I understand the circumstances behind why certain folk will do x,y,z but since it's not allowed in our faith one can feel a great deal of guilt.
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I dont know why sub continental families dont realize this issue. Ya tou Islaam ko maan lo puri tarah ya phir puri tarah open minded hojao. Par nahin ji humnai tou apne bachay ki tarbiyat aisi ki hai woh kabhi aisa kuch kar hi nahin sakta.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
I lost my dad at a very early age and some other problems going on time to time, Im ambitious at times and passionate about my stuff, Im inclined towards going ahead to establish myself asap, I dont find society helpful, Too much discrimination between people, Young and Elders, Experienced and Inexperienced, Rich and Poor.
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No matter what happens in your life just never give up, turn into a battering ram. I've been through some tough periods myself and currently going through the most challenging one, the best thing you can do is take charge of factors which are within your control and keep positive. Society is messed up and there is discrimination, you got no choice but to fight back. In such periods ones faith can weaken in their religion in that they don't pray so often etc and maybe am one of those people but there are many others who were down and out yet kept praying etc eventually found themselves in a good position one day, they attribute their success to having been inspired by their Religion. So it's up to you, I've had the belief that true inspiration comes from within but it has also been said that God helps those who help themselves. In the end maybe you need a bit of everything to pick yourself up, faith in God, faith in yourself and faith in overcoming the system. Am too bitter at the moment so don't really have a clue, but hope that helps a little bit.
 
shaz619 said:
It's true, many scholars have said apparently it's just as bad. Each to their own and I have made mistakes when times were rough but I don't want to sin I guess I understand the circumstances behind why certain folk will do x,y,z but since it's not allowed in our faith one can feel a great deal of guilt.
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Dude. I have had too many breakups that my trust over women has decreased greatly. There is a high chance that a woman you end up marrying has slept with couple of lads already. How does that make you feel?
 
shaz619 said:
No matter what happens in your life just never give up, turn into a battering ram. I've been through some tough periods myself and currently going through the most challenging one, the best thing you can do is take charge of factors which are within your control and keep positive. Society is messed up and there is discrimination, you got no choice but to fight back. In such periods ones faith can weaken in their religion in that they don't pray so often etc and maybe am one of those people but there are many others who were down and out yet kept praying etc eventually found themselves in a good position one day, they attribute their success to having been inspired by their Religion. So it's up to you, I've had the belief that true inspiration comes from within but it has also been said that God helps those who help themselves. In the end maybe you need a bit of everything to pick yourself up, faith in God, faith in yourself and faith in overcoming the system. Am too bitter at the moment so don't really have a clue, but hope that helps a little bit.
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Yes i do have faith and that is why i still expect things to be better.
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Dude. I have had too many breakups that my trust over women has decreased greatly. There is a high chance that a woman you end up marrying has slept with couple of lads already. How does that make you feel?
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Young women in their age might also feel the same urge as he does.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
I dont know why sub continental families dont realize this issue. Ya tou Islaam ko maan lo puri tarah ya phir puri tarah open minded hojao. Par nahin ji humnai tou apne bachay ki tarbiyat aisi ki hai woh kabhi aisa kuch kar hi nahin sakta.
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Most of my issues and the difficulties of my family attribute to one particular person that is supposed to be my own blood. The possitive is that when am in a good position one day I'd be well equipped to deal with certain things better, also when you have to scratch and claw for everything yourself, your perspective of the world is so much better and you tend to be more human.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
Young women in their age might also feel the same urge as he does.
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Exactly. Actually they have more. My last two gfs made sexual advances before i even thought of them. And its biological that they are usually the one with more desire than men. The last sentence i wrote might just be bro science lmao.
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Dude. I have had too many breakups that my trust over women has decreased greatly. There is a high chance that a woman you end up marrying has slept with couple of lads already. How does that make you feel?
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Tbh when you marry someone you put all that crap behind you and in the UK especially it's a norm really you'd be lucky to find someone that hasn't slept with a couple of lads or at least one lad. There was a point where I wasn't compatible with the idea of getting married to a non-virgin, I guess things change. But men are hypocrites, they value chastity despite having slept around themselves I guess it's natural in a way various psychology studies have proven this whilst women are not so fussed. Plus it can be harder to hold on to someone that has a high milleage.
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Exactly. Actually they have more. My last two gfs made sexual advances before i even thought of them. And its biological that they are usually the one with more desire than men. The last sentence i wrote might just be bro science lmao.
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Yes sometimes you do wonder that these girls are future mothers of some and wives, Khair according to the families its unreal for them to even think like this.
 
shaz619 said:
Most of my issues and the difficulties of my family attribute to one particular person that is supposed to be my own blood. The possitive is that when am in a good position one day I'd be well equipped to deal with certain things better, also when you have to scratch and claw for everything yourself, your perspective of the world is so much better and you tend to be more human.
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I wish you best of luck because i dont think you will find your solution in good 3 to 4 years. Better is to stop feeling about guilt and move on with it.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
I wish you best of luck because i dont think you will find your solution in good 3 to 4 years. Better is to stop feeling about guilt and move on with it.
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It's not about feeling guilt or anything it's just dealing with the situation right now, only thing that hurts is the suffering my family has to go through but you are right just need to be patient and I'd be better equipped to deal with it in 3 to 4 years. Thanks bro
 
shaz619 said:
Tbh when you marry someone you put all that crap behind you and in the UK especially it's a norm really you'd be lucky to find someone that hasn't slept with a couple of lads or at least one lad. There was a point where I wasn't compatible with the idea of getting married to a non-virgin, I guess things change. But men are hypocrites, they value chastity despite having slept around themselves I guess it's natural in a way various psychology studies have proven this whilst women are not so fussed. Plus it can be harder to hold on to someone that has a high milleage.
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I guess possibly same case with women here around 95% in pretty near future. Its just that the things are like this.
 
shaz619 said:
It's not about feeling guilt or anything it's just dealing with the situation right now, only thing that hurts is the suffering my family has to go through but you are right just need to be patient and I'd be better equipped to deal with it in 3 to 4 years. Thanks bro
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As someone mentioned talking to the hand. And in years to come you will be better off.
 
People who moan over little things when they feel muslims and islam is being insulted. And want upmost respect for Islam and islamic practices. But then they mock other peoples beliefs and religious practices.
 
shaz619 said:
Tbh when you marry someone you put all that crap behind you and in the UK especially it's a norm really you'd be lucky to find someone that hasn't slept with a couple of lads or at least one lad. There was a point where I wasn't compatible with the idea of getting married to a non-virgin, I guess things change. But men are hypocrites, they value chastity despite having slept around themselves I guess it's natural in a way various psychology studies have proven this whilst women are not so fussed. Plus it can be harder to hold on to someone that has a high milleage.
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Exactly. I am also one of those who get insecure with the whole virgin non-virgin thing when i thought about marriage. But my insecurity is a little bit different. If the guy before me was uglier than me then i am fine lmao. Its like it saves my ego from getting hurt somehow and yes i am also into putting it behind because i am myself not an angel. And that is the premise behind not restricting myself. Be like them if you cant stop them. I just would want someone who truly cares as much i do for them. I have been faced with disappointment.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
Yes sometimes you do wonder that these girls are future mothers of some and wives, Khair according to the families its unreal for them to even think like this.
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I think we all are morally flawed. We always want to take a higher ground but fail to do so at many points.
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Exactly. I am also one of those who get insecure with the whole virgin non-virgin thing when i thought about marriage. But my insecurity is a little bit different. If the guy before me was uglier than me then i am fine lmao. Its like it saves my ego from getting hurt somehow and yes i am also into putting it behind because i am myself not an angel. And that is the premise behind not restricting myself. Be like them if you cant stop them. I just would want someone who truly cares as much i do for them. I have been faced with disappointment.
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I dont even bother now if a girl leaves me, New age relationship are scrap and sincere people are tough find in general today
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Exactly. I am also one of those who get insecure with the whole virgin non-virgin thing when i thought about marriage. But my insecurity is a little bit different. If the guy before me was uglier than me then i am fine lmao. Its like it saves my ego from getting hurt somehow and yes i am also into putting it behind because i am myself not an angel. And that is the premise behind not restricting myself. Be like them if you cant stop them. I just would want someone who truly cares as much i do for them. I have been faced with disappointment.
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I see what you mean, you always want to be the alpha male :)) it's all in your mind really, I've seen the ugliest tutti pull some of the most beautiful women you'll ever see, it's easier said then done but it was their confidence in themselves which was proportional to their charisma, I guess that helped create an illusion over the ugly looks :))) but still I guess it comes down to be being compatible within your own skin and having an unbreakble trust with someone.

Thing is in their youth it's possible the people you knew were repelled by you because you were too good to them, it's the most illogical thing ever but it's very common. Women like an edgy guy who can be a bit of a douche up until a certain age, but as they mature women start to look for other qualities such as protectiveness, reliability and loyalty etc but for some it's too late.
 
Hamzakhalid said:
I dont even bother now if a girl leaves me, New age relationship are scrap and sincere people are tough find in general today
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Very tough. I am generally very sincere when it comes to relationships. Get too much involved emotionally. And i expect the same from the opposite. Too bad for me.
 
shaz619 said:
I see what you mean, you always want to be the alpha male :)) it's all in your mind really, I've seen the ugliest tutti pull some of the most beautiful women you'll ever see, it's easier said then done but it was their confidence in themselves which was proportional to their charisma, I guess that helped create an illusion over the ugly looks :))) but still I guess it comes down to be being compatible within your own skin and having an unbreakble trust with someone.

Thing is in their youth it's possible the people you knew were repelled by you because you were too good to them, it's the most illogical thing ever but it's very common. Women like an edgy guy who can be a bit of a douche up until a certain age, but as they mature women start to look for other qualities such as protectiveness, reliability and loyalty etc but for some it's too late.
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Yeah man. I think i have issues when i am not an alpha male in a group. And its something i have no control over. :)) Its like i dont want to assert myself at people but i demand respect and significance. Good conclusion, shaz. And yes absolutely spot on about the ugly guy - good looking girl part. I have a guy in my group who has one of my former crushes as her gf. And damn that guy is not good looking. Sounds real harsh but its true. That guy is charismatic though. Very carefree and it makes me feel uncomfortable that why i am not like that sometimes. But then i am just me.

Yeah man. I have noticed this thing. The more good you are to woman the more they are awful to you. But then i have tried to play douche gamez and i have had little success. But i can only do douche gamez to woman i have no interest in. Its like if i dont like you i would own your a$$ but if i do then i am your biatch. This is some observation i made about myself with experience and i cant help it.
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Very tough. I am generally very sincere when it comes to relationships. Get too much involved emotionally. And i expect the same from the opposite. Too bad for me.
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I used to be like this as well, Maybe i still am but i dont get disappointed because i dont really expect
 
11ShadyBrothers said:
Yeah man. I think i have issues when i am not an alpha male in a group. And its something i have no control over. :)) Its like i dont want to assert myself at people but i demand respect and significance. Good conclusion, shaz. And yes absolutely spot on about the ugly guy - good looking girl part. I have a guy in my group who has one of my former crushes as her gf. And damn that guy is not good looking. Sounds real harsh but its true. That guy is charismatic though. Very carefree and it makes me feel uncomfortable that why i am not like that sometimes. But then i am just me.

Yeah man. I have noticed this thing. The more good you are to woman the more they are awful to you. But then i have tried to play douche gamez and i have had little success. But i can only do douche gamez to woman i have no interest in. Its like if i dont like you i would own your a$$ but if i do then i am your biatch. This is some observation i made about myself with experience and i cant help it.
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Well summed up
 
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