Lo jee, here we go again with defensive responses. This is exactly how many of us Pakistani Americans see British Pakistanis respond even when we reach out in a non-confrontational way to point out facts. Instead of acknowledging facts backed with sources the response is to run in circles because it hurts some non-existent pride. Your heart is in a good place bhai but let me please clarify. Also, this is not an argument but just a discussion.
I'm not making sweeping statements - I am not making any sweeping statements that usually have baseless opinions. If I offer a baseless opinion saying "all British Pakistanis are XYZ" then that is a sweeping statement. I am merely pointing out the data to you to show how the community is trending. Obvious big difference between the two? You called my point on earliest British Pakistanis being 4th gen as a "sweeping statement" did I not prove that wrong by also presenting facts that you guys have a 2 generation head start over us?
Fallacy in your point regarding Money & Success - Financial mobility is one of the many attributes of success and it is not the ONLY attribute. I agree as well. Is money and wealth the only metric I posted? See below, I have posted again. Why are you guys honing in only on financial outcome for college education? Do you not realize that college education also creates better general awareness for good practices in health/famil/social well being? College education not yielding financial outcomes in career is only a recent AI driven still unproven event. Before this, it is common sense that college education will yield better financial outcomes in the long run. There are many proven studies to back this, and NO some one off anecdotal BS like your "cousin's friend's neighbor without degree being a real estate millionaire" does not count (now THIS is a sweeping statement).
Forget Money as success metric and look at other metrics - Why is your infant mortality higher? Why are women among British Pakistanis have such low unemployment? Low women unemployment also means lower overall freedom for women. Why is your prison population so much higher? Do you guys not see that lack of education has a direct effect on your community falling behind on these key HDI metrics?
This is not a competition between Pakistanis - You are right, this is not a competition and we want all Pakistanis everywhere to succeed. This is exactly my point. We (Pakistani Americans) do wish+hope that British Pakistanis do not fall behind. The first step in fixing a problem is acknowledging the problem and not think of the messenger as your adversary? British Pakistanis almost always have this knee jerk defensive reaction to deny their bad reality even when shown facts and run things around in circles. Is this because your community is already insecure so even when someone shows facts in a helpful way your community's insecurity pushed you into a natural defensive reaction? This is a genuine question because many of us observe this when interacting with British Pakistani family even when on best terms otherwise.
British Pakistanis arrived mostly from rural and less educated backgrounds in the early 50's - This does make sense to an extent. 1950s was 70+ years ago and if we assume 25 years for each generation to take into adulthood working population then this is 3 generations. Are we seeing regressive outlooks passing along to 3 generations? That seems pretty intense and makes me wonder why that happens. Here among Pakistani Americans regressive outlooks usually go away or mitigated a lot at worst by the next generation. Is this also why we see higher levels of terrorism/crime radicalization situations among British Pakistanis? I also like your analogy of the Afghans. What is interesting is I have anecdotally seen quite a few motivated 2nd generation Afghan American kids (their parents being migrants without education to the US) be super talented in higher end roles like private equity. I gave private equity internships in my firm to 3 2nd gen Afghan kids and I kid you not, one of them was a girl - go figure! Now I wonder if there is something in the American ecosystem different from the UK ecosystem for all migrants.
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