At what point though we move on from "It's their country, it's their culture, it's very different but we probably shouldn't interfere" to taking steps when they indulge in gross human rights violations.
The implication of "gross human rights violations" being ubiquitous in Afghanistan is an incorrect one. But yes, that does apply to occupying powers like Israel and in places like China's Xinjiang province, etc.
Iran for example makes it mandatory for all females in their country to wear the hijab, and while this isn't an ideal law, it's still not a massive human rights violation.
I can see where you're coming from, but this has basis in Islamic Law. The application of the law might be done incorrectly, but the law itself has a basis. And no, if you understand the premise behind it, it's not a human rights violation at all. That is probably a discussion for another day.
However the right to education is one of the fundamental human rights and banning all girls the right to get educated amounts to a massive human rights violation and while I fully understand we should allow the Taliban the time to mend their ways, the Taliban has shown no indication that they have changed from their version of two decades ago, despite them insisting they have changed. Only the US soldiers were given the immunity but you keep reading news of dead bodies found on the streets of ex Afghan soldiers or those who worked with the allies despite the Taliban saying they have provided amnesty. And the Taliban have banned the education for all girls past the primary level when there's absolutely no need to do so unless one truly believes women are not equal to men as human beings and they don't deserve the right to education.
What are your sources?
This is a prime example of what I am talking about. Many around the world, like Tim Paine, have seemed to have formed arguments/opinions on Afghanistan on the basis of pretexts and half-truths. I don't like speaking on behalf of someone, but I don't like misrepresentation either. So I'll clarify this.
Currently, in Afghanistan, they are building and arranging segregated schools and spaces in University Campuses, that will exclusively be for girls and the others for boys. This is a norm in many countries (all schools are like this in KSA and in many other gulf countries). Until that arrangement is done, they have asked girls over a certain age to not travel to school until that safe space is established. They have been asked to homeschool to continue their education in the interim period.
For further context into this, just watch the Interview of Taliban Spokesperson (Abdul Qahar) on Al Jazeera (dated: 9th October 2021). Here's a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Eu-r2XdtVU&ab_channel=AlJazeeraEnglish
I think we all know, but for completeness' sake, going against girls' education (no matter what age) would be completely against Islamic principles.
Also, what are your sources on bolded bit?
Again, we certainly can't force our "values" on the Taliban (which is nothing but the universal values for human rights), but it's also certainly Australia's right to choose whether to play bilateral cricket with a country under such a regime or not. Because countries would be seen as "whitewashing" the Taliban if they continue to ignore the human rights part and while happily continue engaging with the Taliban.
First of all, I think we all know that is not what Tim Paine implied. Tim Paine was implying a global boycott and isolation of Afghanistan Cricket. When you are in the sort of position he is in, your words carry weight. That is why not being over-simplistic in your analysis is imperative.
Second, you need to remember, that the actions the rest of the world takes should be done so in manner so that they benefit the Afghanistan people. If it's known global isolation will only further instigate the plight of the Afghan people, then why go down that simplistic route?
Instead, should listen to what the Afghan people are saying.
For context, check out Tuba Sangar's (Former Head of Women's development in Afghanistan Cricket) interview with BBC Stumped (dated: 18 Spet 2021). She believes a boycott from major test-playing countries would have the opposite effect of what was intended and would be actually be counterproductive for the Afghan women. Here's a link: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/w3ct1lbz
I understand your point of giving the Taliban more time to mend, but at the same time, what's the time frame after which we take action. What's the guarantee that the Taliban will mend if we give leeway to them, you are only forced to change your actions when you are put under pressure and face the repercussions of your actions. If people are like "yeah we know you're doing wrong but we'll ignore that part and give you leeway and hope you change afterwards", chances are that you'll never mend your ways and continue with the status quo.
Yes, these are the exact questions that need to be discussed.
The Taliban will find it difficult to govern Afghanistan unilaterally, because of the major ethnic differences. At some point, they will be forming a coalition government that will look to unite the different ethnicities in the region, and that's when Afghanistan will be stable enough to make sane decisions.
At the moment, the hasty retrieval of US and the brain drain of top politicians/bureaucrats fleeing the country has led to an impending economic and humanitarian crisis in Afghanistan. That crisis needs to be dealt with on a priority before the Taliban will look to a coalition government.
I think in about 6 months - 12 months, the Taliban will have had sufficient time to figure out the logistics, and any decisions they make after those months and time period has passed are the ones, the rest of the World needs to observe to accurately assess the direction they are going in.