Dos and don’ts on your first date

[DeadlyVenom]

Be on time ( or get there earlier than her). Listen, don't talk about yourself too much.
Pay the bill.

Thats it.

 

[DeadlyVenom]

Oh actually. If its a girl you text a lot but havent met yet, cut down the texting a couple of days before the date. Dont make it noticeable but maybe hold back on a couple of things you would usually share. This will give you a few topics to get through the inevitable awkward silences.

 

[Nadeemp]

Buy her a perfume

 

[King-Misbah]

And where did I say that fear of rejection is only in case of dumpee?

Dumpee and dumper both can have fear of rejection. Many times, you dump someone because you have a fear that he/she might leave you in future. That doesn't makes the dumper free from fear of rejection.

Not really, I never have such fear.

Anyways, this is Pakpassion, I would say majority of the users are Muslims. I would like to say to them that stick to the guidelines of our religion. There is a reason of why Allah SWT has set rules, they may seem very rigid but they are for our benefit. Allah SWT is our creator and knows exactly how our minds and emotions work. Just save yourself from potential heart aches.

 

[Nadeemp]

Not really, I never have such fear.

Anyways, this is Pakpassion, I would say majority of the users are Muslims. I would like to say to them that stick to the guidelines of our religion. There is a reason of why Allah SWT has set rules, they may seem very rigid but they are for our benefit. Allah SWT is our creator and knows exactly how our minds and emotions work. Just save yourself from potential heart aches.

Misbah what happened to you man. Looks like it cut deep

 

[Bigboii]

Not really, I never have such fear.

Anyways, this is Pakpassion, I would say majority of the users are Muslims. I would like to say to them that stick to the guidelines of our religion. There is a reason of why Allah SWT has set rules, they may seem very rigid but they are for our benefit. Allah SWT is our creator and knows exactly how our minds and emotions work. Just save yourself from potential heart aches.

I think the issue is are you not dating because of religious reasons (if that's the case its perfectly reasonable and people can respect that)

but if you are not dating because you are afraid of getting rejected than that's a bad thing and that's what they are trying to say (and the same ting I would tell anyone who is not Celibacie and is into dating)

 

[King-Misbah]

I think the issue is are you not dating because of religious reasons (if that's the case its perfectly reasonable and people can respect that)

but if you are not dating because you are afraid of getting rejected than that's a bad thing and that's what they are trying to say (and the same ting I would tell anyone who is not Celibacie and is into dating)

I am not dating now because am on the verge of being married. I can only speak from my experiences, this is nothing to do with rejection but more to do with investing your time, money and emotions on the right place. As we get older, we realise that Allah SWT is 200% correct. Alhamdulillah, my marriage will be arranged now but I wish I did this in my early 20s as oppose to dating different women who mean nothing to me now.

 

[Poseidon]

Did you complete your date? How did it go?

I wonder how the date went.

Yo OP, how it went?

it never happend, becoz i didnt get the good vibe from her on phone. i will try again if i find some suitable girl for me.

 

[chacha kashmiri]

Add a bow and tie to your attire
Make sure you pick her/him up in a rented car
Eat vegeterian
Half the bill
Walk her home