So my father who was a factory worker quit his job and he is earning some money.
He has two major bank savings accounts which he has shown me and his house mortgage has been paid off.
He will get pension money in the next 3 years and
I am helping out now and will in the future.
Before the lockdown he was on my case and was cruel, having a go at me every weekend.
My father is really being very negative.
Also he says we are finished quite a lot, he says he will have to go without food and other negative comments and many other negative comments.
He says watch when winter comes here in the UK. I have a good track record being in a job, so what happens now, I suddenly will never work ever in my life? Does he seriously think that?
He keeps saying we are finished and where get money from when we both are earning money.
I reassure him a lot.
I do not struggle for money and won't.
I wish to quit this job and do some work from home stuff however he is just not letting me quit and wakes up in the morning saying 'when go to work'. But to earn more I obviously can't do both at the same time. I need to quit that job. He keeps emphasising when I go to work.
Why doesn't he allow me to quit my job? I've told him 1000 times, but he doesn't listen and isn't willing to support me.
He is fine now and will be in the future. I understand he has a bit of depression, however he is worried about money when clearly he has no need to worry at that at all.
Then he says future how give money to bills when I pay for most things now. This is ridiculous.
This guy just complains morning, afternoon, evening n the last 8 weeks and he just is complaining and complaining about money when I give him money every week and he is not willing to allow me to quit this job and even earn more money so I can help him out. Even my sister gives some money.
I am giving him money every week for bills.
He is losing it for himself, all he does is complain about money when he has it, has a lot and I am giving him money every week and I am earning and can earn a lot.
He will never listen.
For some days I week I have broke down in my room. Its because I know I have, want to quit my job and he throws the toys about emotionally and say where get money from and we need money if I ever say I quit my job. Then he keeps saying we need money or we out of house in the next year, but the mortgage is already paid off and we have got money.
Once again I keep telling him I'm not struggling for money and will give 70 per cent to my sister's wedding.
Also this is unrelated, as you know the uncles etc are cruel, but he just doesn't say I am working to them and even when they ask he doesn't say anything, so they take the mick and say comments. I am seeing someone and he too doesn't say anything so they take the mick even more. They play him about too knowing his negative attitude.
I cannot move out because he does not want me to move out, he doesn't want me to quit my job, where I can earn even more.
I do not know what to do.
He has two major bank savings accounts which he has shown me and his house mortgage has been paid off.
He will get pension money in the next 3 years and
I am helping out now and will in the future.
Before the lockdown he was on my case and was cruel, having a go at me every weekend.
My father is really being very negative.
Also he says we are finished quite a lot, he says he will have to go without food and other negative comments and many other negative comments.
He says watch when winter comes here in the UK. I have a good track record being in a job, so what happens now, I suddenly will never work ever in my life? Does he seriously think that?
He keeps saying we are finished and where get money from when we both are earning money.
I reassure him a lot.
I do not struggle for money and won't.
I wish to quit this job and do some work from home stuff however he is just not letting me quit and wakes up in the morning saying 'when go to work'. But to earn more I obviously can't do both at the same time. I need to quit that job. He keeps emphasising when I go to work.
Why doesn't he allow me to quit my job? I've told him 1000 times, but he doesn't listen and isn't willing to support me.
He is fine now and will be in the future. I understand he has a bit of depression, however he is worried about money when clearly he has no need to worry at that at all.
Then he says future how give money to bills when I pay for most things now. This is ridiculous.
This guy just complains morning, afternoon, evening n the last 8 weeks and he just is complaining and complaining about money when I give him money every week and he is not willing to allow me to quit this job and even earn more money so I can help him out. Even my sister gives some money.
I am giving him money every week for bills.
He is losing it for himself, all he does is complain about money when he has it, has a lot and I am giving him money every week and I am earning and can earn a lot.
He will never listen.
For some days I week I have broke down in my room. Its because I know I have, want to quit my job and he throws the toys about emotionally and say where get money from and we need money if I ever say I quit my job. Then he keeps saying we need money or we out of house in the next year, but the mortgage is already paid off and we have got money.
Once again I keep telling him I'm not struggling for money and will give 70 per cent to my sister's wedding.
Also this is unrelated, as you know the uncles etc are cruel, but he just doesn't say I am working to them and even when they ask he doesn't say anything, so they take the mick and say comments. I am seeing someone and he too doesn't say anything so they take the mick even more. They play him about too knowing his negative attitude.
I cannot move out because he does not want me to move out, he doesn't want me to quit my job, where I can earn even more.
I do not know what to do.
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