Right, I was on my PS3 reading this last night. I couldn't be bothered to use the pad to type out what I wanted! So here goes.
My family is half from Punjab and half from Kashmir. Father's side-Punjab, mother's side- Kashmiri.
I have found that I sit on the fence regarding the regionalistic bias between the two communities but I can say the following occurs:-
- Kashmiris tend to think that the Lahoris/Faisalabadis (and some other Punjabis)are toffee-nose snobs who look down upon everyone else and are ultra-modern
- Lahoris/Faisalabadis think that those from south Kashmir especially are backward inbred criminals who build mansions back home in AJK using money from drug-dealing, fraud and benefit scams
- The truth is that generally the Kashmiris are very humble, have large hearts and are very accommodating people who have largely stuck to the traditional culture going back a few decades and are very proud of their heritage
- The truth is also that many Kashmiris especially in the UK are not highly-educated and are the worst performing in schools and it's individuals (well not surprisingly if you consider 70% Pakistanis are from Kashmir) are much more likely to be antisocial, drug-dealing yobs with their illegally bought cars and army haircuts causing chaos on the streets
- The truth is that many Lahori/Faisalabadi/some other Punjabis look down upon those from South Kashmir as being unequal: for some ridiculous reason they think of themselves as superior
- The truth is that many from Pakistani Punjab are very hard-working, skilled and motivated people with wonderful talent who harness it and often tend to make more of their potential
Of course there are exceptions to the rule in both sets before I get slated!
I love both sides. I love Pakistan.
As far as Namak Halaal goes- to caucasians I say my mother is from Kashmir in order to spread the word about the injustices in the valley.
I think it's great that people carry AJK flags to cricket games- if it is to promote the cause of Kashmir in the world.
I must admit I find it strange that people switch between Kashmiri and Pakistani depending on whether things are positive and negative in Pakistan: these people are bloodsuckers, but then again... a lot of people from Kashmir were promised free electricity from Pakistan and got absolutely nothing. So there are some reasons for grievances although on a whole, Pakistan has been Kashmir's saving grace.