The heyday of Bharat was the most unified when Hindus and Muslims ruled together in Mughal India. A Muslim HOS and what was essentially a Brahmin civil service created one of the greatest empires in human history.
You mention the Middle east and other relationships between Hindu and Muslim. What is common here is the Hindus humble themselves. In the subcontinent, they have a weird historical chip on their shoulder, and rather than consider themselves as equals, they take the high ground and look down at Muslims. Its only in the subcontinent they mention love jihad, or cows. In the middle east a prominent dubai based blogger married a hindu actress. But there was not a peep about love jihad from the Hindus. They instead threw bouquets. Had it been a subcontinent Muslim
@uppercut would have wanted to burn down the house of hundreds of innocent muslims in return.
India is doing ok now, but it is doing it on the back of population and cheap labour. Pakistan is floundering because, despite its "Muslim" leadership, that beautiful Hindu civil service that helped to drive the subcontinent to its unseen heights is now missing.
We need to re-connect.