So there is a quantity s'yer who is 4 years younger than me who (THIS guy doesn't want me to do better/earn better than him):
1) I remember I was playing cricket and I missed a shot, it was funny, however, this guy spoke loud about ridiculous I was to some of the spectators.
2) At a cricket match he goes in front of others "he's finally started talking".
3) I go to functions, parties, events, family parties and he is blatantly ignoring me, he acknowledges and talks to everyone else but me. He's done that last Christmas party and other parties in succession, comes up to my cousin, talks to my sister all of them but me.
4) I went to his house and he did not acknowledge me and was talking to me sister, he said "at uni, women fancy me and some of these women me", he was also saying "I want to buy a car next year" and he his brother did not have back problems he would be the tallest in the family.
5) I went to his house and he also ignored me again and asked my sister how's work going, he knows very, very well I'm looking for programmer, software engineering jobs and he couldn't even say how's my job search going or anything. I went up to him and saying how's his masters going and he said it's good, however, he didn't even say how's my job search going.
6) He said dis-respectful things behind my back.
He is ostracising me.
YOU might think he is not interested in me, however he does look at my phone when I'm sitting near to him and spy on me.
The rest of my family members, well for the last year they've been ostracising me.
One of my aunties want her sons to be superior to me, her son is a right so and so too, once he insulted my mother knowing she passed away a long time ago. One other aunty don't like me because she's a shallow person and perhaps unhappy in life.
The third uncle has a big ego and wants to be right and is dogmatic.
There's also a cousin in law who follows the crowd and anything good that happens he becomes sarcastic. Maybe he's influenced by others.
They all gossip about me and have no affection for my family.
They don't think much of me, don't respect me and they are just sad people, they have no empathy, compassion for the hard life I've been through especially since I lost my mother when I was aged 12.
ALSO there's people in the community who follow the crowd, they are starting to disrespect me. Behind my back they tell lies about me and disrespect me.
These are people of similar age and fathers who are 50 years old.
They all follow the crowd.
I've done nothing wrong, I've been polite and my conduct has been good.
I don't understand why they are doing this?
My family don't want to get to know me or listen to me.
They don't want to listen about me earning well, I could be earning better than them but they make the assumption I'm earning not well.
1) I remember I was playing cricket and I missed a shot, it was funny, however, this guy spoke loud about ridiculous I was to some of the spectators.
2) At a cricket match he goes in front of others "he's finally started talking".
3) I go to functions, parties, events, family parties and he is blatantly ignoring me, he acknowledges and talks to everyone else but me. He's done that last Christmas party and other parties in succession, comes up to my cousin, talks to my sister all of them but me.
4) I went to his house and he did not acknowledge me and was talking to me sister, he said "at uni, women fancy me and some of these women me", he was also saying "I want to buy a car next year" and he his brother did not have back problems he would be the tallest in the family.
5) I went to his house and he also ignored me again and asked my sister how's work going, he knows very, very well I'm looking for programmer, software engineering jobs and he couldn't even say how's my job search going or anything. I went up to him and saying how's his masters going and he said it's good, however, he didn't even say how's my job search going.
6) He said dis-respectful things behind my back.
He is ostracising me.
YOU might think he is not interested in me, however he does look at my phone when I'm sitting near to him and spy on me.
The rest of my family members, well for the last year they've been ostracising me.
One of my aunties want her sons to be superior to me, her son is a right so and so too, once he insulted my mother knowing she passed away a long time ago. One other aunty don't like me because she's a shallow person and perhaps unhappy in life.
The third uncle has a big ego and wants to be right and is dogmatic.
There's also a cousin in law who follows the crowd and anything good that happens he becomes sarcastic. Maybe he's influenced by others.
They all gossip about me and have no affection for my family.
They don't think much of me, don't respect me and they are just sad people, they have no empathy, compassion for the hard life I've been through especially since I lost my mother when I was aged 12.
ALSO there's people in the community who follow the crowd, they are starting to disrespect me. Behind my back they tell lies about me and disrespect me.
These are people of similar age and fathers who are 50 years old.
They all follow the crowd.
I've done nothing wrong, I've been polite and my conduct has been good.
I don't understand why they are doing this?
My family don't want to get to know me or listen to me.
They don't want to listen about me earning well, I could be earning better than them but they make the assumption I'm earning not well.
