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Money or happiness, out of these two which one would be your pick for a perfect life?

Money or happiness, out of these two which would be your pick for a perfect life?


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They say money can buy you everything but can it bring happiness in your life. Another argument is that happiness is the end goal and money is just a secondary stuff.

So in your opinion which thing is more important for a great life, is it money or the emotion of happiness? Share your thoughts below.

Although it is debatable how to seek this emotion of joy and happiness in your life.
 

And its a universal fact unless you are religious too​

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Why Rich People Aren’t as Happy as They Could Be​


“I’ve been poor and I’ve been rich,” quipped the comedian Sophie Tucker. “Rich is better.”

There is merit to Tucker’s argument. All else being equal, more money is better. This is because, as professors Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton point out in their very useful book, Happy Money, money provides access to things—products, experiences, and services—that improve happiness levels.

And yet there’s also a stream of research that shows that wealthier people are not happier.

One reason is that wealth seems to make us less generous, both in dollar terms and in behavioral respects. Consider results from a series of studies conducted by Paul Piff and his colleagues from the University of Berkeley. In one study, participants were paired to play a game of Monopoly. The game was rigged so that one of the participants quickly became far wealthier than the other. The researchers then observed, through a one-way mirror, the participants’ behaviors. It turned out that the wealthier a participant grew, the meaner he/she progressively became. For example, the wealthier participants started assuming more dominant postures and began talking down to their “poorer”

 
Money. In spite of what people say, money does buy happiness, just not all kinds of it.

If you are happy, with no money, you probably are delusional. All modern comforts need money. Although after a certain amount of money, happiness tapers off. But money will allow you to attain base level of happiness. After that it is up to spirituality and how at peace you are with the world
 
Money. In spite of what people say, money does buy happiness, just not all kinds of it.

If you are happy, with no money, you probably are delusional. All modern comforts need money. Although after a certain amount of money, happiness tapers off. But money will allow you to attain base level of happiness. After that it is up to spirituality and how at peace you are with the world
yep agree, but for super rich guys its all about spirtuality as without it they would go mad, crazy and poor again soon.
 
I think there should be a 3rd option in the poll. 3rd option should be "both".

As of now, I can't vote for either. My position is both are needed.
 
I think there should be a 3rd option in the poll. 3rd option should be "both".

As of now, I can't vote for either. My position is both are needed.
Sure bro, can add but that would make the poll a lot lopsided then. Everyone would go for it.
 
If I've to pick one then I'd pick happiness.. if I'm happy that means everything goes perfect with my life..
 
Both are incomplete without each other. You cannot be happy if you have no money. After you reach certain financial goals, more money will not bring you happiness anymore.
 
Unfortunately it’s not black or white, depends upon individuals and what gives them motivation, I know many people of my parents generation motivated by money but many of mine motivated by the idea of creation.
 
Actually, after reaching a certain age in life, we realize that a peaceful, healthy, and calm life is better than money. Money is simply a requirement to pay for utilities.
 
The only issue with happiness is it doesn’t lead to any progress worth mentioning, all innovation or even art has come from pretty disturbed individuals or ideas.
 
I'd rather be rich and unhappy than broke and miserable
Cause the game don't give a ...... if you lyrical
And that's pitiful, so my position is pivotal
You can hate me all you like but you worship the principle
Immortal Technique

happiness is not a goal, my mum once said to me tomorrows happiness can only be found tomorrow, you have to make a choice to find happiness in the moment, whether that be in people around you, in art, in spirituality, in intellectual pursuits, the great misery is to attach the attainment of happiness to some pursuit, because the feeling of misery when that happiness failed to materialise after achieving the goal is shattering.

money up to a certain level, abt £60k or 70k in England i think, alleviates your daily subsistence stresses, which allows for you to have time to explore what makes you happy, after that money has very little baring on happiness, however a lack of money has nearly linear correlation with unhappiness.

waffly answer but im really tired, and just wanted to leave me two penneths worth.
 
Money up to a certain point. You need enough to sustain yourself and not worry about the little things. Once you reach that point, money is not as exciting nor will it make you happier minus a temporary dopamine hit from buying a better car or a slightly bigger house.

It is at that point when happiness comes from other things and you have to live in the moment. This includes the relationships in your life, your hobbies, and whatever else that brings peace to your mind.

A smart person learns to focus on both from day one but never makes money a central element of their life.
 
Actually, after reaching a certain age in life, we realize that a peaceful, healthy, and calm life is better than money. Money is simply a requirement to pay for utilities.
.... To reach that stage where you realise money isn't required to be happy, you will need money.
 
Those who say money cannot buy happiness are wrong in today's time. ALl people want money to buy themselves utilities and luxuries that will give them enough happiness. So yeah, Money is more important nowadays, Happiness will come eventually If you spend that money on right things.
 
The only issue with happiness is it doesn’t lead to any progress worth mentioning, all innovation or even art has come from pretty disturbed individuals or ideas.
But all those things are done in pursuit of happiness.
 
money up to a certain level, abt £60k or 70k in England i think, alleviates your daily subsistence stresses, which allows for you to have time to explore what makes you happy, after that money has very little baring on happiness, however a lack of money has nearly linear correlation with unhappiness.
I think a wise observation. In other words, money to a certain level is a pre-condition but is not on its own a sufficient condition for happiness.

Consider this on a macro level. J. Bradford DeLong in his book, Slouching towards Utopia, points out that before roughly 1870 the lot of humanity, outside a minuscule minority, was basically one of poverty and precarity. But since 1870 there has been a period of extraordinary growth and incredible increase in material wealth. To those who lived before 1870, this would have seemed like achieving utopia. But we feel far from paradise.

This is the paradox of progress: material wants have become in some ways part of the problem.

The famous economist, John Maynard Keynes, writing in 1930 believed that humans were well on their way to solving the “economic problem” that had historically afflicted human society: namely “the struggle for subsistence.” He thought that in 100 years [i.e. by 2030], in the developed world, people would only need to work a 15 hour week. As a result:

“for the first time since his creation man will be faced with his real, his permanent problem-how to use his freedom from pressing economic cares, how to occupy the leisure, which science and compound interest will have won for him, to live wisely and agreeably and well.”

Although we have not yet reached 2030, it is safe to say this vision will not come to pass by then. But nevertheless his essay is interesting in prompting us to think about the nature of a good life. “We shall once more value ends above means and prefer the good to the useful.” He envisaged a world where money is no longer an end but only a means to a good life.

As Richard Easterlin writes in his book, Growth Triumphant, the reality has turned out to be rather different:

“The future…to which the epoch of modern economic growth is leading is one of never ending economic growth, a world in which ever growing abundance is matched by ever rising aspirations…It is a world founded on belief in science and the power of rational inquiry and in the ultimate capacity of humanity to shape its own destiny. The irony is that in this last respect the lesson of history appears to be otherwise: that there is no choice. In the end, the triumph of economic growth is not a triumph of humanity over material wants; rather, it is the triumph of material wants over humanity.”
 
@KB if your bored research an experiment a norweigian psychologist carried out on some rats in the 60s, he made them utopias where they wanted for nothing and observed how entire societies of rats fell in societal psychosis. whilst not totally applicable to humans its still interesting to see, that in rats at least, the brain is not wired at all for utopian living.
 
Did he die because of happiness or excessive money?
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Panic at Marina Bay Sands casino as gambler suffers heart attack after winning £3.2 million

A man suffered a heart attack. After the gambler dropped to the floor, there was an instant panic among the staff members, as per reports. A video of the dramatic scene was shared on social media and has since been doing rounds.

The man collapsed on the floor after winning the lottery.

The video shows people gathered around the man who collapsed to the floor. Upon watching his unresponsive condition, a woman who accompanied him grew anxious and could be seen pleading for help.

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He was later transported to the hospital and is still recovering before heading back to the casino to cash in his chips. As a frequent casino visitor, the man realised the win had the potential to transform his life forever, reported The Sun.

Earlier, A 61-year-old woman won $1 million lottery jackpot after purchasing a scratch-off ticket in March. Though it is said to be a "bittersweet" victory for her because she lost her husband only a few days after her huge win. Her spouse of 31 years was "nearing the end of his battle with a brain tumour" when she won the reward.

Pennsylvania Lottery manager Allen Zieglar presented the commemorative cheque to Coffman and said, "It is now my pleasure to present you with a ceremonial check for $1 million in Pennsylvania."

Coffman received the money while she was accompanied by her daughter and grandchildren. She was given it at the same location where she purchased the lottery. With this big win, Coffman plans to spend more time with her grandchildren and wishes to go deep-sea fishing and visit Disneyworld.

"(Fishing) was me and the husband's thing. Then, I got my grandson started on it, and he fishes and I said, 'let's go deep-sea fishing,'" Coffman told WTAE News

Source: WTAE News
 
Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections.
 
True happiness is hearing the roar of a silky smooth straight 6 engine :akhtar
 
If your goal is to get richer and richer you will struggle to be happy, instead of sleeping you will be worried about how your next investment goes.

My goal is to have ‘sukoon’ in my heart, be able to pay all the bills, give my children a good childhood and help other needy as much as I can. If I keep doing this I will be more than happy. And most important of all be greatful to Allah SWT for giving me good health so I can work full time and provide for my family.
 
I just learned something interesting. A new study says that having more money can make you happier. The person who did the study, Matt Killingsworth, looked at data from a lot of people and found that rich people are generally happier than those who aren't as rich.

It's not just a little bit happier, either. There's a big difference in happiness between rich and middle-class people. And even people who are already very rich can get even happier with more money.

So why does money make people happy? The study says it's because money gives you control and freedom. When you have enough money, you can live the life you want and make choices that make you happy.
 
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