Bruv, you can’t shoehorn human behaviour into how you think the world should be, unless you shoehorn LGBTQ+ human behaviour into how the West believes the world should be.
Arguing against hypocrisy is a futile exercise.
I don't think it's shoehorning - it's more about general nature and general biological structure of the two genders.
In the entire human history, have you ever seen or heard where a country had an army of
all females went out on a war with an
army of men of another country? No? Why not?
Just because Hollywood and Bollywood makes these women empowering movies where a female tosses double the size of males like a pieces of toys, does not actually depict the reality. Matter of that's EXACTLY what we can call "Shoehorning human behavior".
Give a crying baby to a father to look after, and he will be pulling his hair in about an hour.
Give the same crying baby to a mother - and she will be cool n calm to take care of the crying baby for the entire night.
Nature has designed it all in such a way that both genders have give n takes - in some cases females have the upper hand, and in some cases, men have the upper hand - but the rights of both genders are equal.
What we often fail to understand is that, "men and women are equal BUT they are not identical."
If there a test of 10 questions with each question having 10 points, and lets say, the man gives a wrong answer to question # 2, and the woman provides a wrong answer of question # 9, at the end both score 90 on the test - and hence both are
equal but their performance is
not identical. Understand?