You both are trying very hard.
If an old man, sedated heavily on opiates, were to say anything like that then every sensible person would initially laugh at it then ignore it and probably joke about it later, happens all time.
If the person were to tell later how he felt while he was heavily on opiates then any sensible person would also understand it and move on with their life instead of making big fuss out of it. Remember the words were spoken in the context of the story.
By keep bringing in other's mom, sister, wife, and daughter to score some points is truly showing your intentions and class.
I suggest you to immediately stop disrespecting everyone in this thread.