Savak
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No you shouldn’t. Both you and your sister need to act with more maturity and pragmatism. If you want to save her marriage (which you should as her elder brother) you should not intervene and sympathize with her misery.
You are acting out of your inexperience here unlike your parents, who know the importance of keeping a cool head especially in the early phase of marriage.
The guy sounds like a a******e, but to answer the question the girls parents, siblings should not interfere in her marriage, unless she asks them too. I can understand the frustration, if she was my sister I would want to smack the arrogance out of this guys face, but that will only make matters worse.
Best option for the girl in this case is to stop being submissive. Next time he criticizes her spending, she should throw his words back at him "This is what you signed up for, suck it up, this is your life now".
Stop the ironing of shirts asap. if i, who is barely breaking even, can afford dry cleaning, so can doctor sahb.
"I worked hard and managed to get myself a scholarship of $500,000 and some student loans which I paid off myself, you have been given everything on a platter by daddy"
Response should be that's right. And now its your turn to give me everything on a platter.
If the guys parents are good, it would be wise to stay on there good side, and complain to them when he is being abusive.
It takes time for marriages to work, so hopefully everything works out in the end for your sister. But this guys behavior is completely unacceptable, and she needs to put her foot down now.
This is the thing which has shaken my dad to the core, not just him but me as well. The impression, persona, charm this guy exhibited before marriage and the true colors he has shown within 2 months after marriage is just shocking
There are plenty of Pakistani American doctors who have married Pakistani female doctors and Pakistani girls who are not female doctors, some from well to do backgrounds but they are all living nice easy relaxed chilled out marriages but this guy has just crossed all limits possible.
My dad himself cannot believe how difficult he turned out to be in the end and he now strongly regrets relying blindly on mom's colleague referrals and should have been very insistent on knowing the family in depth