So basically what you are saying is that dont do something good if the deen hasnt spelt it out and prescribed it? Even if it harms no one, benefits the community and helps people remember Allah and his Apostle (pbuh).
Thankfully most of the muslim world doesnt have these views and only a minority have a problem with it.
No.
Our religion has guided us EXACTLY how to do things. There isn’t a need to go beyond that. If you do it ALL what Islam DEMANDS and RECOMMENDS, you wouldn’t have anymore time left to do anything else to please Allah and his prophet (saw)
If you come to me and say, “I have completed ALL FARD and ALL SUNNAH and I have ALL SAHIH HADEETH practically implemented into my day to day life, and now I want to do something beyond that (which our prophet didn’t do), that is, celebrating his (saw) birthday, to earn even more rewards, then perhaps you will have a case. And the verdict on that case will probably be that you want to do a biddah.
Here are a couple of examples (remember we have a certain limit on resources and time)
Before celebrating Milaad (which will use your time, effort and resources), have you exhausted all efforts to become someone who regularly offers to pray 5 daily salah on time? For example, If I TRULY had this fikr (worry) I would sleep on time to wake up for fajr instead of participating in a milaad function or anything activity after isha that would create extra risk of missing fajr.
Have you paid every single penny of zakat that you ever owned?
Let’s take a couple of SUNNAH examples.
During Wadhu, do you turn off the water tap when doing massah on the head, neck and ears, because the prophet (saw) said to not waste water?
The prophet (saw) said, “I beg Istaghfaar 70 times a day.”
Being one of those who celebrates the birthday of the prophet (saw), do you do it 70 times a day too?
If the answer is no (and you don’t have to tell) then perhaps your focus needs a shift, and your priorities need to rearranged.
There are many, many, many obligatory Fardh and SUNNAH that we should be worried about and spend our time and resources in acting upon them BEFORE reaching to a point to celebrate another innovative Eid, The milaad.
Here are a couple of “food for thought”.
Some scholars have estimated that the prophet (saw) in his ENTIRE LIFE, ate about 40 KG of wheat.
Did you or any other “Ashiq” here, ever care to figure out how much have you eaten so far?
Allama Iqbal one day woke up, and got into this severe thought of worry.
He worried, if his age gets bigger than the age of prophet (saw)?
He went into tears and offered two rakah naffal, and prayed a dua to Allah that “my age should not surpass the age of prophet (saw).
THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL A NOTION TO LOVE AND RESPECT TO OUR PROPHET (SAW)
Did this thought ever cross your or ANY of those “Ashiqaan-e-rasool’s” (saw) mind?