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what can you say Muslim men are charming
Don't blame love jihad work on your game![]()
Agree. This topic deserves a discussion. There are two set of people with opposing views and both must come together to resolve this issue. Else, politicians will keep exploiting it for their gains.
I know most men from subcontinent regardless of their religion do not like "their" women to get married outside their religion. That's a separate topic itself.
But what is the ground reality of LJ?
Has someone here actually witnessed an LJ episode?
If yes, would you know was the motivation behind such an act?
There should only be love. No Jihad.
Hindus and Muslims should intermarry and give up religion completely. They look the same, talk the same and mostly eat the same too. Some how they cannot marry because their parents taught them to believe in a mythical Sky dude.
If hindus give up religion and intermarry, the problem would be solved anyway.
Did it solve in Pakistan where Hindus did what you suggested?
Love jihad is a wrong term and focusses on a religion. They should use the secular term grooming and make laws to punish groomers instead of making it religion specific and creating obstacles for those who want interfaith marriage.
If there was no interfaith marriage, there is no humanity. It shouldn't be a taboo at all. I think it will get better as we move out from the "arranged marriage" philosophy.
As more and women get educated, they will stand up for their right to get married to who ever they want. Once these hardline lunatics see a few hindu men marrying educated Muslim women, I'm sure they will cool down with their conspiracy theories. I know a few interfaith couples who lead a happy life in US and they always dread to visit their families in Asia.
Love jihad and grooming are all wrong terms for India, two of those words are English language, and one is Arab. I would suggest using prem fasad if anything, and grooming doesn't even make sense in India since it has probably been done for eons without anyone even realising it was wrong.
AFAIK Muslim women are not allowed to marry outside their religion. Why would you want them to turn kafir?
English is an official language in india. because something has been happening in the past is even the more reason to bring legislation against it, not to let it continue. I wouldn't have responded to such poor logic, but it was you, so had to honour the post.
If grooming is the problem, then why are we using the term love jihad in the first place?
That is what I said, that love jihad is the wrong term, grooming should be tackled.
https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/is-...rs-families-love-jihad-bhupesh-baghel-2328547
Raipur: Slamming the Bharatiya Janata Party-led states, Chhattisgarh Chief Minister and senior Congress leader Bhupesh Baghel on Saturday asked whether inter-religion marriages of family members of BJP leaders will fall under the definition of ''love jihad''.
"Family members of several BJP leaders have also performed inter-religion marriages. I ask BJP leaders if these marriages come under the definition of ''love jihad''?" asked Mr Baghel while addressing media.
The statement comes after Uttar Pradesh Chief Minister Yogi Adityanath had recently announced that his government will bring a strict law to curb "love jihad" and forcible religious conversion. Prior to this, Shivraj Singh Chouhan-led BJP government in Madhya Pradesh had said the state would soon have a law against ''love jihad''.
You did. I just wanted to take a jibe at the term love jihad which was invented by sikhs in the UK and has been hilariously adopted by BJP officials.
Bhopal: A Muslim man has been arrested in Madhya Pradesh after his wife alleged that he and his family were torturing her, demanding that she adapt his culture and learn Urdu and Arabic languages. The arrest was made under the provisions of the MP Dharma Swatantraya Act 1968. BJP-ruled Madhya Pradesh is among the states that are bringing in a law against "love jihad" -- a right-wing coinage targeting relationships between Muslim men and Hindu women, which, they say, is a ruse to forcibly convert the women.
The woman, born into a Hindu family, had run off from home and married Irshad Khan in 2018 by Islamic rituals. On Saturday, she returned to her parents.
"I was being regularly tortured by him (Irshad) to force me to adapt his culture and also learn Urdu and Arabic language. Unable to bear the torture, I've returned to my parents' house and will not return to him. I made a big mistake in leaving my house two years back and marrying him," the woman said.
Bharat Dubey, a senior police officer of the area, said the man came to the police, alleging that his wife has been kept forcibly confined by her parents.
"Later, the woman and her parents came to the police and complained that she will not stay with Irshad Khan as he used to torture him," he said. "On her complaint, a case has been registered against Irshad Khan. He has been accused under IPC sections that deal with cruelty to a married woman by her husband and in-laws and sections of MP Dharma Swatantraya Act 1968 and he has been arrested," the officer added.
The registration of the case under the existing Religious Freedom law assumes significance in view of the Shivraj Singh Chouhan government's preparations to introduce the MP Dharma Swatantraya Bill 2020 in the next session of the assembly – expected to be held towards the year-end.
In Bhopal, a young woman sought help from Home Minister Narottam Mishra on Friday, alleging that her husband was a Muslim who married her under a fake identity. Now he and his family were torturing her, demanding that she convert, he said.
Irshad Wali, the police chief of state capital Bhopal, said, "The police has registered a case under Section 376 of the IPC on basis of the statements made by the victim. The accused is absconding."
A few days ago, a local journalist, Maksood Khan, was arrested and sent to jail in Gadarwara, after complaint from a woman that he not only sexually harassed her, but also forced her to offer namaz and learn Islamic rituals. He also hid the fact that he is married and has a child.
The draft bill for "love jihad" -- officially the Dharma Swatantrata Bill 2020 -- provides for a 10-year jail term for people marrying with the aim of religious conversion. The religious clerics solemnizing such a marriage would have to face five years in jail. Misleading a woman with fake identity is also punishable under the proposed law.
Bhopal MP Pragya Singh Thakur demanded that "love jihad" cases be punished with life imprisonment or capital punishment. She also alleged that love jihad was being carried out using organised funding.
Anyone from BIMARU who knows and can share what the on-ground reality is? [MENTION=136588]CricketCartoons[/MENTION]?
Source: https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/mus...n-madhya-pradesh-2332260?pfrom=home-topscroll
Indian police halt weddings as ‘love jihad’ fears spread
Police have raided a wedding ceremony and detained several Muslim men involved in interfaith relationships in a wave of arrests in northern India, under a new law intended to stamp out the supposed practice of “love jihad”.
Officers swooped on a wedding in Lucknow moments before the ceremony was due to begin after claims by a Hindu nationalist youth group that the groom would force his Hindu bride to convert to Islam. Their wedding day in ruins, the couple were ordered to seek clearance from a magistrate before the marriage could go ahead.
Love jihad is a conspiracy theory that has gained currency in Indian nationalist circles that posits a plan for Muslim men to marry Hindu women and convert them to Islam. The law, promoted by the Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) of Narendra Modi, the prime minister, raises further doubts about religious freedom in India.
The raid on the Lucknow wedding was one of several carried out by police under the new law in the state of Uttar Pradesh. Video of a similar incident in Aligarh, 250 miles to the west, showed a distraught couple being dragged away from court, where they had sought permission for their wedding. The young woman pleaded with officers as her fiancé was taken into custody, while he accused police of assaulting them.
“I am not a child. Please don’t separate me. He is my life,” she wept as a policewoman held her arms and her boyfriend was bundled away by four officers.
The legislation in Uttar Pradesh, the most populous state, was introduced last week and imposes jail terms of up to ten years for anyone convicted of using marriage to force their spouse to change faith. Interfaith couples must now give two months’ notice to a magistrate before getting married, and will only be permitted to do so if officials find no objections. At least four more BJP-held states — Madhya Pradesh, Haryana, Karnataka and Assam — have confirmed they will soon bring in similar legislation.
The law does not mention any specific religion but has been denounced by critics as a flimsy pretext for a campaign against Muslims that remains an obsession among Hindu extremists who have promoted the love jihad theory, and whipped up fears of a Muslim plot to erode India’s 80 per cent Hindu majority. There are even claims that Islamists plan to restore the Mogul empire.
The Koran does not require women to convert on marriage and interfaith marriage in India is rare, accounting for 2 per cent of weddings in a 2013 survey.
However, the BJP’s frenzied rhetoric has seeped into local communities, cleaving them along religious lines. Police in Uttar Pradesh said ten Muslims had been arrested after complaints by parents who claimed their daughters had been abducted. Local officials insist the new law will protect vulnerable young women but critics believe it will also increase the suppression of women’s rights.
As if to prove their point, the distraught young woman videoed outside the court in Aligarh later reappeared, issuing a statement denouncing her lover for pretending to be Hindu and then abducting her. “I got to know him through Facebook. We talked for a long time and he introduced himself as a Hindu,” she said. “I started talking to him thinking he is Hindu but later I found out he is a Muslim. He brought me from Chandigarh on a bike and kept me at his sister’s place.”
By contrast, the couple whose wedding was halted by police in Lucknow spoke out to defend their relationship, supported by the bride’s family. “There is no question of conversion,” the groom told the Indian Express. “If two of us love each other, we can accept each other for who we are. I accept her religion and identity, and she agreed to do the same. I asked for her hand from her mother a year ago. I would not marry her if her family didn’t agree.”
Few others are as courageous: The Times contacted many interfaith couples in Uttar Pradesh but they declined to talk, out of fear. Some are in hiding.
Indian Muslims have reported a surge of hate crimes and lynchings since Mr Modi came to power in 2014. The government has accelerated its nationalist agenda since securing a second term last year. A controversial law specifically excluded Muslim immigrants from gaining citizenship, and BJP officials were accused of inciting religious riots in Delhi that left more than 50 people dead in February.
Madhu Garg, with the All India Democratic Women Association, said: “Police digging out cases of interfaith marriage is disgraceful. This ordinance is also a violation of the freedoms given to us by the constitution of India.”
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/edition/...weddings-as-love-jihad-fears-spread-rjcjmtbwt
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The police in Kushinagar, Uttar Pradesh, stopped a wedding ceremony on Tuesday and took away the couple following a phone call claiming that a Muslim man was marrying a Hindu woman after converting her, letting them go only the next day after finding that both were Muslims. The man, 39-year-old Haider Ali, has alleged that the police personnel beat him up with a leather belt and tortured him for hours at the Kasya Police Station.
The first woman detained under India's controversial new 'Love Jihad' laws has miscarried in custody, her family have told The Sunday Telegraph.
Yesterday a distraught Muskan Jahan, 22, called her mother-in-law, from a government shelter where she is being held in the city of Moradabad in Uttar Pradesh, saying she had bled profusely and then lost her baby.
Mrs Jahan believes her three-month-pregnant daughter-in-law was given an injection to abort the baby by staff because she converted from Hinduism to Islam and married a Muslim man.
“The tyrannical world has said goodbye to this child before he was able to see the world,” said Mrs Jahan.
Muskan's husband Rashid, 27, is being held in an unknown prison in Uttar Pradesh for allegedly coercing Muskan into converting from Hinduism to Islam by marrying her.
Uttar Pradesh passed legislation last month designed to prevent marriages arranged to convert Hindu women into Muslims, a practice known as 'Love Jihad'. But critics say the law is a poorly disguised attempt by the Hindu nationalist ruling party of prime minister Narendra Modi to break up interfaith unions.
A further four Bharatiya Janata Party-ruled (BJP) states are expected to pass similar laws later this month, despite the Indian government admitting in February it had not been able to find one case of so-called 'Love Jihad' nationwide.
While the law doesn’t specify any religion, police in Uttar Pradesh are targeting Muslims - at least ten Muslim men have been arrested so far but no Hindus.
Muskan and Rashid met when Rashid left his impoverished family home to work as a hairdresser in the northern Indian city of Dehradun.
Scraping to get by, he began to grow close to another migrant worker from Uttar Pradesh, a woman then known as Pinky.
The pair were employed by adjacent salons and Rashid began walking to work every morning with Pinky, making her laugh.
“Then, around five months ago, we got a sudden call from Rashid, he was very excited and he said that he had married the Hindu girl,” Mrs Jahan told the Sunday Telegraph.
“I scolded him that he did a wrong thing and asked him why he didn’t consult with us first. But, then he said he was coming home in July and we treated Pinky like our own daughter.”
Rashid got a new job in a salon in Moradabad and Pinky - who had taken the decision to convert to Islam and adopt the name Muskan before her marriage in July - soon fell pregnant, much to the delight of her mother-in-law.
“Like every mother, I also had a dream that my son should get married and then the happiness of all of us increased with the news of Muskan’s pregnancy,” said Mrs Jahan.
“There is no small baby in our house that we could play with on our lap and we had dreams of making the baby a good person through education.”
Hindus and Muslims have lived side-by-side in Uttar Pradesh for hundreds of years and while interfaith marriages are rare, they constitute three percent of unions.
However, since Mr Modi was re-elected with a landslide win in 2019, the BJP has implemented a string of policies protecting Hinduism. He has regularly been accused of Islamophobia.
The BJP has argued that Muslim men trying to brainwash Hindu women to convert to Islam before marriage to enact demographic change, a practice described as 'Love Jihad'. India’s Muslim community constitutes just 14 per cent of the population.
On Tuesday, the police arrested Haider Ali, a Muslim from the town of Kushinagar, tortured him and threatened to “skin him alive”. Mr Ali was released the next day after it was discovered his bride was born a Muslim.
Rashid was arrested on Sunday after the family visited a lawyer in Moradabad to register their marriage in Uttar Pradesh, as the couple had married in neighbouring Uttarakhand.
The family’s route home was blocked by the Bajrang Dal, a hardline Hindu nationalist group, who threatened them and called the police.
The police arrested Rashid and took Muskan to the shelter home, despite her protesting the couple were happily married.
“This is what Muslims do, first they love, and then they carry out Love Jihad after a few months. We know Pinky [Muskan] is seeing love right now, but after a few days she will find it very difficult to live her life,” said Gaurav Bhatnagar, the Bajrang Dal leader from Moradabad.
“Our workers are active in the street, locality, villages, cities, everywhere. Our job is to inform the police when Love Jihad cases occur and then it’s the court’s job to punish them.”
When Mrs Jahan tried to visit Muskan at the Nari Niketan shelter on Saturday morning, she was refused inside the building.
“Fear aggravates in our family, I do not know what will happen when both of them get released but I am very scared,” said Mrs Jahan.
The Sunday Telegraph approached the shelter where Muskan is held but did not receive a response.
https://news.yahoo.com/amphtml/firs...x9h_gKJYWrtKBeIQ-bP&__twitter_impression=true
Shows how UP has become worse than Taliban under taklu bisht. And he still has so many bhakts! Beggars belief how could anyone with a civilized mindset and a working mind could deify this taklu!
ignorant people or people with vested interest call it love jihad. it has a secular name and should be referred with that: Prohibition of Unlawful Religious Conversion Ordinance.
Religion should not be the governments concern. The law is beyond stupid
Protection of demographies should be govt concern. This law is visionary and every country, including Pakistan should have it. It will protect minorities from being absorbed by majority through conversion under duress or coercion.
Instead of restricting conversions and adding red tape around it there should be laws against forced conversions
Bhakths are more concerned about forced conversions happening in pakistan,so called secular parties are scared about losing their hindu vote bankShows how UP has become worse than Taliban under taklu bisht. And he still has so many bhakts! Beggars belief how could anyone with a civilized mindset and a working mind could deify this taklu!
This is what this law aims to do. Whether it is forced, or under duress, or coercion, or undue influence. Glad that you have come around to agree that state must protect communities and should be involved in religion.
No, this is not what the law aims to do. It aims to make conversions more difficult by adding red tape and bureaucracy around it rather than punishing those who force people to convert. You see the difference? Even you can't be that stupid to not understand the difference between the two things.
UP: Police help two Muslim women who married Hindu men
In two separate incidents, two Muslim women in Bareilly district got married to Hindu men after conversion and were given police security.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ti...two-muslim-women-who-married-hindu-men/699622
what can you say Muslim men are charming
Don't blame love jihad work on your game![]()
Pak-Bharat marriages are still frowned upon even if both sides are Muslim. Muslim to non-Muslim ones are in the minuscule. Even my family gave me two conditions when finding a possible spouse, firstly no one of Indian background even if she is born and living abroad no matter how good a Muslimah she is. Secondly she must be a Muslimah.
I have in the past rejected proposals from Deccan Hyderabad and Delhi without feeling he slightest of guilt. Not only do we marry the other person but their entire family too so can understand why most Pakistanis feel this way. With the never ending tense situation no need to put additional pressure on a marriage by marrying in the enemies camp.
Like Technics the mask slips sometimes.
Nah not really plenty of people have been married that way and it's not looked down upon...Pak-Bharat marriages are still frowned upon even if both sides are Muslim. Muslim to non-Muslim ones are in the minuscule. Even my family gave me two conditions when finding a possible spouse, firstly no one of Indian background even if she is born and living abroad no matter how good a Muslimah she is. Secondly she must be a Muslimah.
I have in the past rejected proposals from Deccan Hyderabad and Delhi without feeling he slightest of guilt. Not only do we marry the other person but their entire family too so can understand why most Pakistanis feel this way. With the never ending tense situation no need to put additional pressure on a marriage by marrying in the enemies camp.
Like Technics the mask slips sometimes.
he should have had gone through the official route of inter religion marriage and inform the administration first.
If you are marrying like this without looking through the law of the land, you deserve every bit.
Seems like a spoiled child who is always required to live under others shadows and unfamiliar with how the life works and rules and regulations.
Deserve everything...
Ie random fake charges, torture, torture of your loved ones, paying huge bribes to the.police... sound like those uncle's I talked about in the end
In hindsight should have never done it and pulled of that cheap bollywood stunt ofcourse he is a bit of an idiot- no question
But why should two adults be required to take extra steps (anything out of the ordinary) just because they have a different religion
That seems out of line in most secular democracies...
Deserve everything...
Ie random fake charges, torture, torture of your loved ones, paying huge bribes to the.police... sound like those uncle's I talked about in the end
In hindsight should have never done it and pulled of that cheap bollywood stunt ofcourse he is a bit of an idiot- no question
But why should two adults be required to take extra steps (anything out of the ordinary) just because they have a different religion
That seems out of line in most secular democracies...
If they are legal consenting adults, religion should not matter. Anybody can fall in love in anyone. After all, we are all humans first.
Its a requirement of the law of the land.
In PP, you can not criticize the Prophet of Islam or the holy book but in another forum, you can.
If you criticize the Prophet and get banned here, you deserve it because you broke established rules. if you aren't aware of this, then you are still at fault because it was your duty to go through t&c while signing up.
In a non muslim forum, it will be ok to criticize.
Every community is different and hence there are different laws in different places. it's your duty to abide by it while taking such actions.
He is immature and bypassed the regulations for which, he will be charged.
Precisely which part of India he is from? And also the girl?
If the consent was based on false promises, then state should step in and protect adults from duped consent.
The hindi speaking areas somewhere around Agra I believe
The hindi speaking areas somewhere around Agra I believe
Even if the consent was on false promises, the state should not step in. If the girl was stupid enough to believe in the Muslim man's Alif Laila stories, then she deserves to learn a lesson. Men tell all kinds of lies to get close to a woman. Once the woman finds out that the man had been lying, she should kick him out of her life. The onus is on the woman here.
Women cannot cry and go to the police every time a man lies to them. Police has better things to do.