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One of my girlfriends is having these weird mood swings and I'm really mentally exhausted in setting things right. Do hell with it, im blocking her.
 
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Parent restriction and control over my life despite I am a 22 year old ADULT. I am not a KID anymore. I respect my Dad, and can't even argue back.
 
freelance_cricketer said:
One of my girlfriends is having these weird mood swings and I'm really mentally exhausted in setting things right. Do hell with it, im blocking her.
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Remind her why she is "one of your girlfriend" and not the girlfriend. Don't block her, just ignore her, girls like attention, so just ignore them, I'll come back running ;).
 
Whenever my friends need a shoulder I'm always listening to their problems and comforting them, some days I've spent 5-6 comforting them but when I need a shoulder no one says anything more than 2 lines on whats app.
 
Siemens at Knoxville TN rejected me. At the interview, it seemed like they were trying to sell themselves to me, not the other way around. They even drove me around, to show me breathtaking views of the Smoky Mountains. At several points during the process, it seemed like we were past the interview stage and in the negotiation phase. I was mentally preparing myself to start packing, and then... no offer.

It is bothering me quite a bit right now.
 
Nostalgic said:
Siemens at Knoxville TN rejected me. At the interview, it seemed like they were trying to sell themselves to me, not the other way around. They even drove me around, to show me breathtaking views of the Smoky Mountains. At several points during the process, it seemed like we were past the interview stage and in the negotiation phase. I was mentally preparing myself to start packing, and then... no offer.

It is bothering me quite a bit right now.
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I'm sorry. Forget Siemens, work for their closest rival instead, i.e. GE.
 
Nostalgic said:
Siemens at Knoxville TN rejected me. At the interview, it seemed like they were trying to sell themselves to me, not the other way around. They even drove me around, to show me breathtaking views of the Smoky Mountains. At several points during the process, it seemed like we were past the interview stage and in the negotiation phase. I was mentally preparing myself to start packing, and then... no offer.

It is bothering me quite a bit right now.
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This has happened to me a few times as well. I think it's the fault of the person who makes the interview day itinerary. They have to fill the whole day up with something so the interviewee don't feel like he came down all the way for a 30 minute meeting. So they pack in useless meetings with useless people like real estate agents etc. No worries, you'll find something better soon.
 
Thivagar said:
Whenever my friends need a shoulder I'm always listening to their problems and comforting them, some days I've spent 5-6 comforting them but when I need a shoulder no one says anything more than 2 lines on whats app.
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I need a friend like you
 
Thivagar said:
Whenever my friends need a shoulder I'm always listening to their problems and comforting them, some days I've spent 5-6 comforting them but when I need a shoulder no one says anything more than 2 lines on whats app.
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Same here so annoying
 
Watsupdoc said:
You have been saying this for ages. You have now lost all credibility and no one believes you.
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If it turns out to be my last day, it will restore my online credibility for sure, and I'm really worried about it.
 
My dad sold my Lexus and BMW that he bought it for me. Earn my own and be more responsible.


:(
 
boring office work don't know how long i can sit in the cubicle and let my life go!
 
- Ahmed Shehzad's Twitter account

- The fact that I will have to eat McDonald's tonight.
 
its likely to snow here in Colorado today after weeks of 20+Celcius temperatures
 
why would anybody want to move to Tennessee.
 
Slog said:
why would anybody want to move to Tennessee.
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East TN is simply gorgeous. Plus the weather is great, the money was good, and a four bedroom house complete with hardwood floors and granite countertops is only 200k.
 
saadibaba said:
This has happened to me a few times as well. I think it's the fault of the person who makes the interview day itinerary. They have to fill the whole day up with something so the interviewee don't feel like he came down all the way for a 30 minute meeting. So they pack in useless meetings with useless people like real estate agents etc. No worries, you'll find something better soon.
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Actually the interview day wasn't too long: five hours or so, and that included my presentation, lunch and the drive, and I spoke to relevant people . Their demeanor suggested it was a foregone conclusion.

I'll find something else of course, but I was looking forward to it, so it takes a few days to get out of the mindset and start looking again.
 
Slog said:
its likely to snow here in Colorado today after weeks of 20+Celcius temperatures
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Are you the late lamented KarachiKing? ;)

I've been offered a transfer to Colorado Springs. I never thought I would turn down CO, but the new position isn't very good. Besides, CO Springs isn't Boulder.
 
Nostalgic said:
Actually the interview day wasn't too long: five hours or so, and that included my presentation, lunch and the drive, and I spoke to relevant people . Their demeanor suggested it was a foregone conclusion.
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Maybe they felt threatened by how all the 40+ ladies at the office were mirring at you?
 
Nostalgic said:
Are you the late lamented KarachiKing? ;)

I've been offered a transfer to Colorado Springs. I never thought I would turn down CO, but the new position isn't very good. Besides, CO Springs isn't Boulder.
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maybe :P

yeah springs isn't boulder that for sure.

and somewhat In the middle of nowhere.

boulder and Denver are like pindi and Islamabad in terms of closeness
 
Nostalgic said:
Are you the late lamented KarachiKing? ;)

I've been offered a transfer to Colorado Springs. I never thought I would turn down CO, but the new position isn't very good. Besides, CO Springs isn't Boulder.
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Maybe he is Polichinelle.
 
Tomorrow I am going to file a police case against an army officer. Not bothered, but excited, that I will be filing my first case (420), and have sufficient evidence.
 
CricketCartoons said:
Tomorrow I am going to file a police case against an army officer. Not bothered, but excited, that I will be filing my first case (420), and have sufficient evidence.
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So why's that bothering you?


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[MENTION=130700]TM Riddle[/MENTION] lack of respect for his choices is the reason hes bothered..I heard hes thinking about acting in a commercial to let it all out.
 
I have applied for Masters and waiting for a response from some of the more desirable universities.
 
endymion248 said:
I expected you to catch my drift :(
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Nah, this here Pollywhatever reference went over my head. Like, flew way over it. I had to look up Pollywhatshisname, still couldn't get it. What's a guy in a black mask got to do with Slog/KK?
 
Nostalgic said:
Nah, this here Pollywhatever reference went over my head. Like, flew way over it. I had to look up Pollywhatshisname, still couldn't get it. What's a guy in a black mask got to do with Slog/KK?
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It's a character from the comedia dell arte.

Google: "Secret of Polichinelle".
 
Not taking a chance and mustering up the courage to speak to this girl who was literally perfect in every way imaginable and coming to the realisation that I will never get the opportunity to do so again.
 
leatherface58 said:
No. University of Texas, Austin and Virginia Tech.

These are two of the more ambitious ones. Unlikely I will get in but you never know.
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Are you secretly hoping that the first is actually home to chainsaw massacres?
 
Dios said:
Not taking a chance and mustering up the courage to speak to this girl who was literally perfect in every way imaginable and coming to the realisation that I will never get the opportunity to do so again.
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Don't worry, she would have said no anyways.
 
Dios said:
Not taking a chance and mustering up the courage to speak to this girl who was literally perfect in every way imaginable and coming to the realisation that I will never get the opportunity to do so again.
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Why?

Anything to lose?
 
sensible-indian-fan said:
Why?

Anything to lose?
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A little fear of rejection but mostly relying on fate and believing that it would happen naturally. I was convinced she liked me too and would make the first move which never happened. I put my trust in Bollywood. "agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho toh poori kaynath tumhein usse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai" :yk

But now I realise how stupid I was. I had so countless opportune moments to strike up a conversation but now circumstances have changed and she'll be graduating this year whereas I'm not in uni this year and will be graduating the next year.
 
Dios said:
A little fear of rejection but mostly relying on fate and believing that it would happen naturally. I was convinced she liked me too and would make the first move which never happened. I put my trust in Bollywood. "agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho toh poori kaynath tumhein usse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai" :yk

But now I realise how stupid I was. I had so countless opportune moments to strike up a conversation but now circumstances have changed and she'll be graduating this year whereas I'm not in uni this year and will be graduating the next year.
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Do it before someone else does.

No one is that important in anyone's life.

And why do you have to profess your love or interest directly? Start with slight flirting and move from there.
 
Dios said:
A little fear of rejection but mostly relying on fate and believing that it would happen naturally. I was convinced she liked me too and would make the first move which never happened. I put my trust in Bollywood. "agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho toh poori kaynath tumhein usse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai" :yk

But now I realise how stupid I was. I had so countless opportune moments to strike up a conversation but now circumstances have changed and she'll be graduating this year whereas I'm not in uni this year and will be graduating the next year.
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if youre in the same city could still work
 
and agreed with sif

most desis are romantic romeos in their hearts and mind but do nothing in reak. there doesn't need to be some big profession of love lol.

just talk and ask her to coffee
 
sensible-indian-fan said:
Do it before someone else does.

No one is that important in anyone's life.

And why do you have to profess your love or interest directly? Start with slight flirting and move from there.
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Thanks for the advice brother. I am useless at flirting especially when it's a girl I really really like. Hence conversations were limited to 'hi-hello' and 'did you do the assignment'. She's very popular as well and always with friends so it was almost impossible to get her alone and start a lengthy conversation. Once we were on the same bus back to uni and didn't find out until after we got off. Looking back that was the golden opportunity - if we had found out at the start that both of us were on the same bus, we would have been sitting next to each other for three hours. I think that was God cruelly punishing me for leaving religion. Now it's too late. As I said, my circumstances have changed and I'm not at university this year. I don't have her as a friend on facebook and think it'll be weird adding her since we've only spoken three or four times and that too very briefly and we don't really have that many mutual friends. I just hope I get someone else like her.
 
Slog said:
if youre in the same city could still work
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Yes I'm fb stalking her and hoping she joins a firm in London upon graduation but there is also a chance she may return to her native country.
 
Dios said:
Thanks for the advice brother. I am useless at flirting especially when it's a girl I really really like. Hence conversations were limited to 'hi-hello' and 'did you do the assignment'. She's very popular as well and always with friends so it was almost impossible to get her alone and start a lengthy conversation. Once we were on the same bus back to uni and didn't find out until after we got off. Looking back that was the golden opportunity - if we had found out at the start that both of us were on the same bus, we would have been sitting next to each other for three hours. I think that was God cruelly punishing me for leaving religion. Now it's too late. As I said, my circumstances have changed and I'm not at university this year. I don't have her as a friend on facebook and think it'll be weird adding her since we've only spoken three or four times and that too very briefly and we don't really have that many mutual friends. I just hope I get someone else like her.
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Try not to be awkward, no point in saying "hi, how are you?" "nice dress" and etc. These kinds of communication are useless, don't try to make yourself look perfect, because it makes you look less authentic(fake) because you aren't yourself. Don't think about what she'll think, just add her on Facebook, she won't reject your request since she knows you. You don't need to send her any message right away. Wait till she post some status about something that you can create a conversation with. for example, If she posts a status about a movie, then bam go message her about the movie, tell her you watched it and you thought it was(opposite to what she thought) and try to joke a bit and talk about another movie that the same protagonist acted and just continue. Don't ever think "what should I say ?" or "How would i make her think that I'm cool". Just be yourself.
 
[MENTION=137485]Dios[/MENTION] man there is no harm in adding here in facebook IMO, I posted something on a cricinfo page and got 50 Bangladeshi friend requests once :))

Besides Facebook is used to see what every single person you've ever met does/is doing, I dont think it'd be that awkward to send a friend request, if she asks just tell her she appeared in the "people you may know" section
 
Donal Cozzie said:
[MENTION=137485]Dios[/MENTION] man there is no harm in adding here in facebook IMO, I posted something on a cricinfo page and got 50 Bangladeshi friend requests once :))
Besides Facebook is used to see what every single person you've ever met does/is doing, I dont think it'd be that awkward to send a friend request, if she asks just tell her she appeared in the "people you may know" section
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was s2k (aka CJ ;-) ) one of them?
 
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