I think that would be more helpful advice for [MENTION=139202]11ShadyBrothers[/MENTION] but ok.
WC bhai. I have been in a relationship thrice already. I am well versed.
Or you can smoke weed everyday.
NO, You can't always be yourself. Sometimes yourself isn't good enough for the society or your life style. When you are going to an interview, you are never yourself, you try to be someone the employer want. Just like that, you have to REALIZE that sometimes you need to change. We all are raised here with some what of subcontinent mentality to at least a little bit since we spent our younger years listening to our parents beliefs on how we should behave and how we should live.
I realized that i was too nice and naive till i was about 18-19. People walked all over me all the time, 2 crushes i was after for about 3.5 years each rejected me. With one girl i was rejected like 4-5 times before i gave up. It makes me cringe thinking back and what I did was stupid, but i thought I was in "love". I thought liking a girl = getting married. I also blame stupid Tamil movies for this. One of ex crush and her sister still tells her friend, who iam friend with that I'm a creep for buying chocolates and teddybears to her, talk about chivalry. Guys in Tamil movies did it, so i did too. Im nearly 22, since then I haven't let people walk over me, if people do something stupid, I let them know and for some reason confronting people make them respect you. I also don't have issue talking to girls anymore, in fact I've become very good at talking to girls, i always prefer meeting them first face to face then adding them through instagram and doing the work. But if you add a girl through instagram and they are replying to your messages pretty well then they think you are worth talking to so that is also good. Remember girls are just like guys, they are just told by the society how to behave, it is better if you don't judge them, make yourself sound very liberal and watch how conversation change. Not all girls want relationships, just saying
P.S Never take tamil movie advice, especially advice regarding love and ESPECIALLY from this particular guy named DANUSH [MENTION=134809]sensible-indian-fan[/MENTION] [MENTION=135125]Pantani[/MENTION] [MENTION=134867]Kiri[/MENTION] [MENTION=137142]JaDed[/MENTION].
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NO, You can't always be yourself. Sometimes yourself isn't good enough for the society or your life style. When you are going to an interview, you are never yourself, you try to be someone the employer want. Just like that, you have to REALIZE that sometimes you need to change. We all are raised here with some what of subcontinent mentality to at least a little bit since we spent our younger years listening to our parents beliefs on how we should behave and how we should live.
I realized that i was too nice and naive till i was about 18-19. People walked all over me all the time, 2 crushes i was after for about 3.5 years each rejected me. With one girl i was rejected like 4-5 times before i gave up. It makes me cringe thinking back and what I did was stupid, but i thought I was in "love". I thought liking a girl = getting married. I also blame stupid Tamil movies for this. One of ex crush and her sister still tells her friend, who iam friend with that I'm a creep for buying chocolates and teddybears to her, talk about chivalry. Guys in Tamil movies did it, so i did too
P.S Never take tamil movie advice, especially advice regarding love and ESPECIALLY from this particular guy named DANUSH [MENTION=134809]sensible-indian-fan[/MENTION] [MENTION=135125]Pantani[/MENTION] [MENTION=134867]Kiri[/MENTION] [MENTION=137142]JaDed[/MENTION].
@ Dhanush but i do agree on Tamil movies creating a lot of issues during my childhood i remember a classmate of mine went for committing suicide and how guys go Macha we will get you da and all that crap,luckily for me i had very good set of friends who were down to earth and into sports,animation and used to make fun of such tamil movies.
Not sure more than men, but about the same. It is that they'be been told how to behave in society. Women are always judged, mostly by other women. Make yourself sound liberal the next time you talk to a girl, say things like "i think I saw you behind that garbage dump with a guy last week", " I saw you at club last week.....strip club", "are you actually studying there or you just go there to sell your weed?" and etc. This will make her think you are a very open minded, liberal guy and they will be more comfortable and say things she probably won't say to other guys. Obviously words turn into action sooner or later if you don't mess up.
Smoking is bad for you man. I.e [MENTION=139202]11ShadyBrothers[/MENTION]..............OOPS IT IS YOU
NO, You can't always be yourself. Sometimes yourself isn't good enough for the society or your life style. When you are going to an interview, you are never yourself, you try to be someone the employer want. Just like that, you have to REALIZE that sometimes you need to change. We all are raised here with some what of subcontinent mentality to at least a little bit since we spent our younger years listening to our parents beliefs on how we should behave and how we should live.
I realized that i was too nice and naive till i was about 18-19. People walked all over me all the time, 2 crushes i was after for about 3.5 years each rejected me. With one girl i was rejected like 4-5 times before i gave up. It makes me cringe thinking back and what I did was stupid, but i thought I was in "love". I thought liking a girl = getting married. I also blame stupid Tamil movies for this. One of ex crush and her sister still tells her friend, who iam friend with that I'm a creep for buying chocolates and teddybears to her, talk about chivalry. Guys in Tamil movies did it, so i did too
P.S Never take tamil movie advice, especially advice regarding love and ESPECIALLY from this particular guy named DANUSH [MENTION=134809]sensible-indian-fan[/MENTION] [MENTION=135125]Pantani[/MENTION] [MENTION=134867]Kiri[/MENTION] [MENTION=137142]JaDed[/MENTION].
Yup. Good post Thivagar.
[MENTION=139202]11ShadyBrothers[/MENTION]
I read your posts a few days back and while you are a genuine guy, there seems to be way too many misconceptions in your mind reg this.
I didn't reply to those posts cos I felt it would be too time consuming but I will do it soon (tonight or tomorrow).
To understand what's happening, you have to dig in deep and understand how male and females are wired and what makes males and females react the way they do.
As for myself, I went from a guy who could hardly talk to girls to someone (massive massive issues) to someone who can talk to girls with ease for hours on end and lots more. I am not saying all this to talk about myself but to tell you that I won't be talking about any lame theory.
I will just start off here by giving you a few myths
Myth 1 - Just be yourself (a horribly cruel joke but you don't have to fake it too to get a girl to like you)
Myth 2 - Girls only like bad boys (bad boys are crushed easily if you know what you are doing
Myth 3 - You need to have looks or money to be good with girls (while its true for some gold diggers and some females, this is generally not the case)
In fact, I would say, if you know what you are doing, a girl won't leave you for a guy who is 1000X more hotter or richer than you (again exceptions are there) but if you know what you are doing, you will qualify the right girl.
More later bro.
I am expecting [MENTION=136108]Donal Cozzie[/MENTION] to enter this thread and tease me to death.
He should be here somewhere.
Myth 4 - Make her laugh and she may go out with you (hassi tho phassi)
Or maybe I need to read the last few pages of the thread again before giving unsolicited advice.
That would be embarrassing.
Let others post and if needed I will post or else, screw this.
and how smart they felt i was when i was reading newspaper that one day in library ) and it has been working for me so far. Only thing i am missing out severely on is the stability part. Really really want a relationship that keeps my boat sailing. I cant take breakups. :'(
Aye. SIF my brother. I am le perfecto with talking with girls and all. I dont have such issues. Was good with this since bachpan.
I might not be a bad boy but i have looks and intelligence (sorry if i come across as arrogant but i my ex gfs would tell you how pyaraaa i am
P.S: If chicks say that i have pretty eyes is it good? Sounds gay to me.
I whole heartedly agree with you. Your game is very similar to mine. Respect.
I only fall on the getting serious part. I do get serious if i like you. Man. Cant help it.
Answered pretty much rest of it in my previous post.
Yup. Good post Thivagar.
[MENTION=139202]11ShadyBrothers[/MENTION]
I read your posts a few days back and while you are a genuine guy, there seems to be way too many misconceptions in your mind reg this.
I didn't reply to those posts cos I felt it would be too time consuming but I will do it soon (tonight or tomorrow).
To understand what's happening, you have to dig in deep and understand how male and females are wired and what makes males and females react the way they do.
As for myself, I went from a guy who could hardly talk to girls to someone (massive massive issues) to someone who can talk to girls with ease for hours on end and lots more. I am not saying all this to talk about myself but to tell you that I won't be talking about any lame theory.
I will just start off here by giving you a few myths
Myth 1 - Just be yourself (a horribly cruel joke but you don't have to fake it too to get a girl to like you)
Myth 2 - Girls only like bad boys (bad boys are crushed easily if you know what you are doing
Myth 3 - You need to have looks or money to be good with girls (while its true for some gold diggers and some females, this is generally not the case)
In fact, I would say, if you know what you are doing, a girl won't leave you for a guy who is 1000X more hotter or richer than you (again exceptions are there) but if you know what you are doing, you will qualify the right girl.
More later bro.
I am expecting [MENTION=136108]Donal Cozzie[/MENTION] to enter this thread and tease me to death.
He should be here somewhere.
. Some girls reserve some guys as a "relationship material" that must be only looked at after 28, and look at some guys as "fun boy for now". . I know this guy who went to Bangalore after 10 years, he was checking out a girl in a bus, smiled at her, the girl gave him an uncomfortable look look, an aunty who was monitoring the situation came and slapped him, told the bus driver to kick him out of the bus. Here even if I smile, most of them will smile back politely at least. Smiles, eyes and facial expressions tell a lot, even a polite smile can say "get out of my face". This is not just white girls, girls of all background who mostly grew up here.
7G Rainbow colony, Jithan ran over 100 days in my dvd. I was young and dumb. Then Danush came back with V.I.P. I too am unemployed can't find a part time job, so the movie felt like the story was based on my life except for the girl part. Danush is trolling with my life man .png "Kumar Sangakkara :sanga")
Aye. SIF my brother. I am le perfecto with talking with girls and all. I dont have such issues. Was good with this since bachpan.
I might not be a bad boy but i have looks and intelligence (sorry if i come across as arrogant but i my ex gfs would tell you how pyaraaa i am
P.S: If chicks say that i have pretty eyes is it good? Sounds gay to me.
I don't fall easily but i get attracted to them easily, and the thing for me is that I don't want them to stay with me. I only go for girls
that usually don't last long and I hope that they don't last. The problem is, sometimes they like you for much longer . Not all the girls but some are even after you tell them that you aren't interested in a long relationship.
1. You must change your self if it is necessary, when i was 12,13 I used to smile at people and nod my head up and down slowly very creepishly. I had to let go of it because that was borderline retarded.
2. Bad boy image isn't necessary, but it kinda helps with some girls and doesn't help at all will other girls. Some girls don't want a relationship, they just want someone for a company
3. Looks or money is not necessary for relationship at all. I lost crushes to guys who weren't the best looking. But good looks lead girls to reply back to your direct insta message or facebook message
^^
You aren't gonna find your dream girl through these qualification mostly but hey im only 22, i can wait for that.
Here the culture is a bit different, remember that Kim Kardashian made a sex tape and lot of 12-14 year old girls still look at her as role model
[MENTION=46929]shaz619[/MENTION].
these are awesomeMy Anaconda don't want none unless you got buns hun
I don't fall easily but i get attracted to them easily, and the thing for me is that I don't want them to stay with me. I only go for girls
that usually don't last long and I hope that they don't last. The problem is, sometimes they like you for much longer . Not all the girls but some are even after you tell them that you aren't interested in a long relationship.
1. You must change your self if it is necessary, when i was 12,13 I used to smile at people and nod my head up and down slowly very creepishly. I had to let go of it because that was borderline retarded.
2. Bad boy image isn't necessary, but it kinda helps with some girls and doesn't help at all will other girls. Some girls don't want a relationship, they just want someone for a company
3. Looks or money is not necessary for relationship at all. I lost crushes to guys who weren't the best looking. But good looks lead girls to reply back to your direct insta message or facebook message
^^
You aren't gonna find your dream girl through these qualification mostly but hey im only 22, i can wait for that.
Here the culture is a bit different, remember that Kim Kardashian made a sex tape and lot of 12-14 year old girls still look at her as role model
Aye. SIF my brother. I am le perfecto with talking with girls and all. I dont have such issues. Was good with this since bachpan.
I might not be a bad boy but i have looks and intelligence (sorry if i come across as arrogant but i my ex gfs would tell you how pyaraaa i am
P.S: If chicks say that i have pretty eyes is it good? Sounds gay to me.
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You think you've got it bad mate, I once drunkenly logged onto ICF then opened an alcohol thread
Was a big hit
Then there were the countless times I told folks on PPCL I loved em, ah the good old days.
Anyway, if you find yourself wanting to kick the habit you should get some hobbies to take your mind off it. I dont drink often so it aint much of an issue for me personally, but if you feel its an issue you should try cut down on it.
Whats bothering me right now is that I'm one year away from my Erasmus year in Deutschland. Have zero idea how I'll cope or get on but screw it, part of the experience I guess. May as well see the world before I blow my head off aged 24 in a bachelor apartment on Christmas Eve.
That escalated quickly.
Ah well.
I'm also annoyed at how I've no rants to add to the pet hates thread, used to be my forte
People are trolling them all over Pakistan. They used to do this double meaning advertising before too.
)I've seen another one but it's a bit more naughty not sure if it was in Pakistan though maybe an Easter European Country have you seen it? it's basically above a bridge which cars are going into; you probably get the idea
but yeah havent seen this around here.
You think you've got it bad mate, I once drunkenly logged onto ICF then opened an alcohol thread
Was a big hit
Then there were the countless times I told folks on PPCL I loved em, ah the good old days.
Anyway, if you find yourself wanting to kick the habit you should get some hobbies to take your mind off it. I dont drink often so it aint much of an issue for me personally, but if you feel its an issue you should try cut down on it.
Whats bothering me right now is that I'm one year away from my Erasmus year in Deutschland. Have zero idea how I'll cope or get on but screw it, part of the experience I guess. May as well see the world before I blow my head off aged 24 in a bachelor apartment on Christmas Eve.
That escalated quickly.
Ah well.
I'm also annoyed at how I've no rants to add to the pet hates thread, used to be my forte
Hot weather.
I officially hate summer
Really sorry for your loss. may Allah give you guys patience in this hard time. Ameen
Got an interview at the airport in less than 2 hours. For some reason I always choke in Interviews
Going for 2 weeks rural stay posting in a coastal area. No internet and completely cut off from the outside world. Hope everything is fine there.
Only vodafone have a little bit of service there and the good thing is none of us have a vodafone sim.
We are a gang of 6 girls. Let see what's in store for us.
