I used to watch Bollywood as a child with the family. I stopped watching a long time ago but I know a lot of families have also stopped watching it due to what you have mentioned.
I bet [MENTION=107753]uberkoen[/MENTION] and [MENTION=131701]Mamoon[/MENTION] find it completely acceptable to watch glorified mujra type item songs like Munni badnaam hoi
Now, to address the point you've made. Let's talk about Pakistani content as well. Each and every cable channel has a stage drama channel. Have you ever watched Punjabi stage drama's and the content therein? The filth is worse than any Indian or Bollywood movie you will ever see and this is widely viewed content in Pakistan.
Mujra's are a Pakistani specialty specially if you go to South Punjab. In North Western Pakistan they prefer little boys dancing but in most of rural Punjabi weddings Mujra's are a common occurrence.
Let's talk about the content that is aired on our TV channels. There's a drama called Jalan being aired on TV where the man is having an affair with his sister in law. There was a drama Pyaar Ke Sadqe where the father in law marries his daughter in law. There was a drama called Ishqiya where a man had an affair with his sister in law and kept tormenting her and abusing her even after her marriage threatening to expose her to her husband.
Drama's like Chup Raho, Sangat, Bay Khudi and Gul-e-Rana all romanticize rape. In these drama's the rapist is portrayed to be a hero. In Sangat's OST the lyrics of the song are "Mera Jism mera gunnah hai" portraying that it is the body of the woman that resulted in her being raped. In Sangat the OST goes "Nadaniyaan jo hasme huwee maaf kar de khuda". Apparently a planned rape by a competent, fully conscious male is a "nadaani". What message is sent by such characterizations? What precedents are being set in the minds of those watching: that rape is okay if you're in love? That it's just a sign of uncontrollable passion that 'good people' can do this?
In Chup Raho, the drama makers glamorized the rapist’s character and showed him in such a light that he had everything under control. Even after he was busted and his secret was out, no one dared say anything to him. Chup Raho was controversial and it showed that a rapist is not only powerful but can not be stopped no matter what.
Kitni Girhain Baqi Hain is an anthology series where one episode tried to normalize a romantic relationship between women. Look at the content being potrayed in drama's like Jaanam, Shert, Rishte Kuch Adhoore Se, Band Khirkiyon Ke Peeche, Mere Khuda, Bunty I Love You. If you think Munni Badnaam Hoi is bad then you're in for a surprise.
I find it funny how hypocritical our society is that they can go on and condemn people for listening to a song like Munni Badnaam Hoi yet sit with their families every evening and watch such filth on TV. They can criticize Indian movies and say that vulgarity in these movies encourage rape yet in our own TV shows the rapist is the protagonist. The talk about mujra in India yet ignore that widespread Mujra in Pakistan that is aired directly on to your TV. They talk about songs in India yet ignore that Naseebo is one of the highest selling and most popular singer of Pakistan.
You want to talk about Indian content? Talk about how Mohabbat Tujhe Alvida which is being aired now is a copy of the Indian movie Judaai and the people are lapping it up. ARY's Noor-Ul-Ain was a copy of the Indian movie Saathiya. Dil Banjara was a copy of Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayeinge. Cheekh was a copy of Damini. Izteraab was a copy of we are family. Koi Nahi Apna was a copy of Akele Hum Akele Tum. These dramas were big hits. So it's not okay to watch Indian movies. Anyone watching the movies I mentioned above would be considered vulgar yet it's okay to watch Pakistani content which rips off of these Indian movies?