Mamoon
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For me its an awkward subject to discuss with my family and I feel very uncomfortable when my parents talk about it
I try my best to change and avoid the subject. On the contrary, my British cousins are very candid about it.
Is it a cultural thing after all or simply down to the individual?
I have also noticed that girls tend to be more frank and open about it and they accept it at a much younger age than boys. I have seen many boys in their preadolescence claim that they won't get married and stuff like that (I was one of them) but I haven't seen a girl give such outlandish statements because maybe the have accepted or have been programmed that they have to get married?
I'm 22 and know that probably in 4/5 years my parents will start the hunt and my brother will be getting married coming December so I've witnessed the whole process from start to finish and I must its extremely uncomfortable and requires plenty of courage and heart.
Don't think I'm cut for the conventional way, have your parents go for the rishta and you are sitting home nervous waiting for the news. Also, rejection will be quite embarrassing isn't? and if you are accepted, going to their house to meet her parents as well as talking to her for the first time. Where to begin?![Younis Khan :yk2 :yk2](https://ppforum.pakpassion.net/styles/ppsmilies/yk2s.png)
Finally, if you plan to marry someone in your family (second cousin, which I intend to because the whole meeting her/her parents process is likely to be much smoother) and you get rejected? how uncomfortable is it? Will you be able to go to their house again and meet them without feeling terribly embarrassed?
Also, isn't sharing toilet with a new person awkward?![Younis Khan :yk :yk](https://ppforum.pakpassion.net/styles/ppsmilies/youniss.png)
![Salman Butt :butt :butt](https://ppforum.pakpassion.net/styles/ppsmilies/buttt.png)
I try my best to change and avoid the subject. On the contrary, my British cousins are very candid about it.
Is it a cultural thing after all or simply down to the individual?
I have also noticed that girls tend to be more frank and open about it and they accept it at a much younger age than boys. I have seen many boys in their preadolescence claim that they won't get married and stuff like that (I was one of them) but I haven't seen a girl give such outlandish statements because maybe the have accepted or have been programmed that they have to get married?
I'm 22 and know that probably in 4/5 years my parents will start the hunt and my brother will be getting married coming December so I've witnessed the whole process from start to finish and I must its extremely uncomfortable and requires plenty of courage and heart.
Don't think I'm cut for the conventional way, have your parents go for the rishta and you are sitting home nervous waiting for the news. Also, rejection will be quite embarrassing isn't? and if you are accepted, going to their house to meet her parents as well as talking to her for the first time. Where to begin?
![Younis Khan :yk2 :yk2](https://ppforum.pakpassion.net/styles/ppsmilies/yk2s.png)
Finally, if you plan to marry someone in your family (second cousin, which I intend to because the whole meeting her/her parents process is likely to be much smoother) and you get rejected? how uncomfortable is it? Will you be able to go to their house again and meet them without feeling terribly embarrassed?
Also, isn't sharing toilet with a new person awkward?
![Younis Khan :yk :yk](https://ppforum.pakpassion.net/styles/ppsmilies/youniss.png)