I first noticed it when I was 16/17. It was a tiny dot on more forehead, then under my lip there was another tiny one. Initially it took 2/3 years to develop enough for others to notice and then it just took off. It got worse during the summer as my skin would get tanned and the patches would really pop out, at the same time I experienced alopecia. I was getting weird patches on my head and hair would complete disappear, as if I had shaved them. Everytime I'd go to get a hair cut the barber would point out a new patch. Because my hair were thick, I wouldn't be able to see it myself or notice as new patches appeared. I did spent little time trying to get a treatment for it and more time worrying about it. I finally decided that it is what it is, and I'm gonna live with it, I don't care whether if I'm gonna turn into a colourless person and totally hairless on my head. And this mindset alone was the cure for my alopecia, the bald patches went away and couple of years back I started my vitiligo treatment and Alhamdulilah my skin is much better as well. I had given up on both things and learnt to be happy with myself and thought to myself it is what it is.
Although it affected my confidence meeting new people, thankfully it didn't affect me with the people I already knew, people that always knew me hardly ever noticed it and never pointed it out. I can't imagine what hell my life would have been if I spent those years growing up in Pakistan and things it would have done to my confidence.