My uncle has worked in the nights in the pizza factory for 15 years about and just retired last year. He's only worked in low wage, low skilled jobs. He knows I could earn well and have an easy life.
1) I can be a bit quiet, however, it's down to not knowing what to say, on a holiday in Germany, my uncle said when I was 18, "if you don't talk, who will marry you".
2) He went on holiday in 2010, which he visited my house and told me in "I've got you a wife from India" in a sterile, disrespectful way.
3) At my other uncle's house, he said, can you eat this as in to mock my cultural skills. Summer 2010.
4) This is the absolute worst that has happened to me:I was at my uncle's house in 2011, he was sitting their on the sofa adjacent to me, he suddenly said "can you cook" I said "yes". Then my uncle and everyone was talking about going to the pub and he was saying he's not going to take me. Then suddenly he said to my dad "are you worried your son's not going to get a wife"..........my dad said he will. There was some more chatter and my dad said I am a man now and with he's fingers pointing, he said "look at him, he's not a man"............ Then we went home, my main uncle wasn't in the sitting room at that time. He never bothered to phone to apologise or nothing.
5) I remember I was upstairs when he came to my house, when I came down, he called me a "scardy cat" in my language or where is that "scardy cat" in 2013.
6) I remember when I was looking for work, he started smirking and told my father to get me a job in the factory.6.5) He goes to my sister to get me a job in marketing, maybe trying to mock me.
7) At 2014 christmas party at my uncle's house, we was looking at her daughters engagement video and their was a still image of a nice looking girl and he told me why don't you go for her. So he was picking on me in front of others.
8) When he and his wife came back from India for her daughters wedding in January 2015, he got my father and my sister a present, I noticed they did not get me anything.
9) He came to visit my house over Christmas 2015 and he said do you have a girlfriend, I said no which he went onto say can't you get one, I said I'm not looking for one.
10) Back in 2012 he said you do you have a girlfriend and he said why don't you go out on holidays, I was going to say I've been busy with my work, however, his wife went onto blurt, he's got no friends.
11) Kept signalling angry to me at his house in 2014 and said beforehand "are you going to talk".
12) Went sarcastic with son in law at the start of Christmas 2017.
13) I believe he wants a reaction or not so he goes to my sister "how much money do you earn", "are you on this money" a couple of times when he's come to my house.
14) He said to my father "no one picks up the phone" and he didn't want to listen to my father when he says "but everyone is working" I got bullied by another uncle at a Christmas party because he just believed I don't pick up the phone.
15) He came the other day to my house and he said to my sister "its your house(to my sister), so are you going sell the house and get a percentage back?"
-isn't it shared 50/50 with my sister? I feel he could bully me in front of my other uncle's saying "it's my sister's house" and they'll join in.
He just hasn't bothered to even say "what am I doing" "what am I up to" or "what is my plans" for the last 18 months since he's seen me 14 times.
He came to my house and my table was an "office desk for my business" They didn't comment on:
-What's this on your table?
-Why are you looking professional?
AND they got my dad a present, my sister a present (I lost my mother a long time ago), but not me for the last 2 years.
All I know is, ever since he found out I could earn a lot of money and basically have a potentially easy life he's started stepping up a gear trying to take a dig out on me, be somewhat passive about it.
He's wife will never say "when will you take a break, have your holiday?" or x, y, z and she too has seen and heard things about me with the potential to live an easy life.
They are arrogant people in the sense they think I can't even talk to females. But they know I've proven them wrong and they are wrong.
So basically why didn't he(and he's wife) get me a Christmas present? What's it a symbol of? Why did they do this? I am different and an easy target.
I don't really care, I just want to know. As you know, I'll have the last laugh anyway.
1) I can be a bit quiet, however, it's down to not knowing what to say, on a holiday in Germany, my uncle said when I was 18, "if you don't talk, who will marry you".
2) He went on holiday in 2010, which he visited my house and told me in "I've got you a wife from India" in a sterile, disrespectful way.
3) At my other uncle's house, he said, can you eat this as in to mock my cultural skills. Summer 2010.
4) This is the absolute worst that has happened to me:I was at my uncle's house in 2011, he was sitting their on the sofa adjacent to me, he suddenly said "can you cook" I said "yes". Then my uncle and everyone was talking about going to the pub and he was saying he's not going to take me. Then suddenly he said to my dad "are you worried your son's not going to get a wife"..........my dad said he will. There was some more chatter and my dad said I am a man now and with he's fingers pointing, he said "look at him, he's not a man"............ Then we went home, my main uncle wasn't in the sitting room at that time. He never bothered to phone to apologise or nothing.
5) I remember I was upstairs when he came to my house, when I came down, he called me a "scardy cat" in my language or where is that "scardy cat" in 2013.
6) I remember when I was looking for work, he started smirking and told my father to get me a job in the factory.6.5) He goes to my sister to get me a job in marketing, maybe trying to mock me.
7) At 2014 christmas party at my uncle's house, we was looking at her daughters engagement video and their was a still image of a nice looking girl and he told me why don't you go for her. So he was picking on me in front of others.
8) When he and his wife came back from India for her daughters wedding in January 2015, he got my father and my sister a present, I noticed they did not get me anything.
9) He came to visit my house over Christmas 2015 and he said do you have a girlfriend, I said no which he went onto say can't you get one, I said I'm not looking for one.
10) Back in 2012 he said you do you have a girlfriend and he said why don't you go out on holidays, I was going to say I've been busy with my work, however, his wife went onto blurt, he's got no friends.
11) Kept signalling angry to me at his house in 2014 and said beforehand "are you going to talk".
12) Went sarcastic with son in law at the start of Christmas 2017.
13) I believe he wants a reaction or not so he goes to my sister "how much money do you earn", "are you on this money" a couple of times when he's come to my house.
14) He said to my father "no one picks up the phone" and he didn't want to listen to my father when he says "but everyone is working" I got bullied by another uncle at a Christmas party because he just believed I don't pick up the phone.
15) He came the other day to my house and he said to my sister "its your house(to my sister), so are you going sell the house and get a percentage back?"
-isn't it shared 50/50 with my sister? I feel he could bully me in front of my other uncle's saying "it's my sister's house" and they'll join in.
He just hasn't bothered to even say "what am I doing" "what am I up to" or "what is my plans" for the last 18 months since he's seen me 14 times.
He came to my house and my table was an "office desk for my business" They didn't comment on:
-What's this on your table?
-Why are you looking professional?
AND they got my dad a present, my sister a present (I lost my mother a long time ago), but not me for the last 2 years.
All I know is, ever since he found out I could earn a lot of money and basically have a potentially easy life he's started stepping up a gear trying to take a dig out on me, be somewhat passive about it.
He's wife will never say "when will you take a break, have your holiday?" or x, y, z and she too has seen and heard things about me with the potential to live an easy life.
They are arrogant people in the sense they think I can't even talk to females. But they know I've proven them wrong and they are wrong.
So basically why didn't he(and he's wife) get me a Christmas present? What's it a symbol of? Why did they do this? I am different and an easy target.
I don't really care, I just want to know. As you know, I'll have the last laugh anyway.
