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The complexity of getting married

Okay, now this is a difficult question to answer. As far as I know, I am quite confident she isn't.
 
How would my parents know about her relationship? :facepalm:

Aaj kal people keep secret relationships from their own parents. :facepalm:
 
Mamoon said:
How would my parents know about her relationship? :facepalm:

Aaj kal people keep secret relationships from their own parents. :facepalm:
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I'm not talking about secret relationships - but the general 'us ka beta is interested in her, uski baat chal rahi hay flaanay ke sath..

These things start early on. Is PB's elder sister married?
 
Bl is bring up a good point. What if in the end of this Mamoon finds out she already likes another guy?
 
blinding light said:
:110:

I'm not talking about secret relationships - but the general 'us ka beta is interested in her, uski baat chal rahi hay flaanay ke sath..

These things start early on. Is PB's elder sister married?
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:facepalm:

Yes, to my first cousin (her second). Exactly the same rishta as I have with PB. :afridi

That's really awkward to ask without making them suspicious.
 
blinding light said:
:110:

I'm not talking about secret relationships - but the general 'us ka beta is interested in her, uski baat chal rahi hay flaanay ke sath..

These things start early on. Is PB's elder sister married?
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:facepalm:

Yes, to my first cousin (her second). Exactly the same rishta as I have with PB. :afridi

That's really awkward to ask without making them suspicious.
 
You're good at talking (at least on PP, if your runs suggest something).

And they're your parents, what else is there to fear?
 
If PB is the next in line from her family, then you must confirm it some way or another.

IN MY OPINION.

Others can give their input as they see fit.
 
blinding light said:
You're good at talking (at least on PP, if your runs suggest something).

And they're your parents, what else is there to fear?
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I'm a smooth talker, but this is asking too much from me and well you know like I said in the OP, I can't talk about such stuff to my parents. :usman
 
She's definitely next in line but she isn't going to get engaged/married for 4/5 years. I know them.
 
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You're not getting this, are you?

Alright. Here's the deal. These days its not just straight to marriage/engagement. There's talking, involvement, building an understanding. And it all begins with aunties or uncles getting together and discussing these things out.
 
blinding light said:
:110:

You're not getting this, are you?

Alright. Here's the deal. These days its not just straight to marriage/engagement. There's talking, involvement, building an understanding. And it all begins with aunties or uncles getting together and discussing these things out.
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My brother is getting married in December and my Mum is crazily busy these days. Is this the right time for me to open my kitaab? :adnan
 
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He isn't in a very pleasant mood, bohat paisa kharch ho raha hai on jewelry and kapray. :msd
 
Mamoon needs to go on Who Wants to be a Millionaire and have PB as his "phone a friend".

When he reaches the last question (its Mamoon, hes super smart) he will have to call her. She will tell him the name of the third musketeer and one of 2 things will happen

1- She will marry him just for the money.

2- She will develop a bond due to winning him the money and Mamoon will catch her just as her train is about to depart. Their eyes meet, she ignores her train leaving and they embrace...

Song from A R Rahman plays in the background as they walk down the sunlit streets of Peshawar.

They live happily ever after. The end
 
Donal Cozzie said:
Mamoon needs to go on Who Wants to be a Millionaire and have PB as his "phone a friend".

When he reaches the last question (its Mamoon, hes super smart) he will have to call her. She will tell him the name of the third musketeer and one of 2 things will happen

1- She will marry him just for the money.

2- She will develop a bond due to winning him the money and Mamoon will catch her just as her train is about to depart. Their eyes meet, she ignores her train leaving and they embrace...

Song from A R Rahman plays in the background as they walk down the sunlit streets of Peshawar.

They live happily ever after. The end
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I don't want her to be wooed by my money or status. I want her fall in love with me just like I love her for who she is. :malik
 
:110:

What made you fall for her in the first place, Einstein?

So far, I feel we've only been working with romanticised assumptions.
 
She is very beautiful, decent, well mannered, graceful and elegant.
 
Beautiful batsmen? I think not :moyo

Most of these seem rooted in pretenses and assumptions (elegance, grace), etc.

From her Twitter bro, what have you deciphered? Her likes/dislikes? Hobbies? Inclinations (apart from being prone to swearing)? Any indications of a former love? Or hints toward marriage?

Is there any other male cousin in the fam from your side to challenge you?
 
Donal Cozzie said:
Mamoon needs to go on Who Wants to be a Millionaire and have PB as his "phone a friend".

When he reaches the last question (its Mamoon, hes super smart) he will have to call her. She will tell him the name of the third musketeer and one of 2 things will happen

1- She will marry him just for the money.

2- She will develop a bond due to winning him the money and Mamoon will catch her just as her train is about to depart. Their eyes meet, she ignores her train leaving and they embrace...

Song from A R Rahman plays in the background as they walk down the sunlit streets of Peshawar.

They live happily ever after. The end
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This isn't a Bollywood Movie brother :))
 
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blinding light said:
Beautiful batsmen? I think not :moyo

Most of these seem rooted in pretenses and assumptions (elegance, grace), etc.

From her Twitter bro, what have you deciphered? Her likes/dislikes? Hobbies? Inclinations (apart from being prone to swearing)? Any indications of a former love? Or hints toward marriage?

Is there any other male cousin in the fam from your side to challenge you?
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Umar Akmal "Youngsta beauty" :))
 
blinding light said:
Beautiful batsmen? I think not :moyo

Most of these seem rooted in pretenses and assumptions (elegance, grace), etc.

From her Twitter bro, what have you deciphered? Her likes/dislikes? Hobbies? Inclinations (apart from being prone to swearing)? Any indications of a former love? Or hints toward marriage?

Is there any other male cousin in the fam from your side to challenge you?
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Oh there is a beauty in a batsmen, With the way he plays. I did'nt mean beauty facial wise. But you are on to something here. Nice way of rejunivating the thread.
 
^ I know you didn't mean it like that, but I'm pretty sure he wasn't calling PB's batting "beautiful" :))

I haven't done anything, bro. This thread is baasi roti right now. The tandoor will garmo-fy when there's some potential contact b/w the two.
 
blinding light said:
Beautiful batsmen? I think not :moyo

Most of these seem rooted in pretenses and assumptions (elegance, grace), etc.

From her Twitter bro, what have you deciphered? Her likes/dislikes? Hobbies? Inclinations (apart from being prone to swearing)? Any indications of a former love? Or hints toward marriage?

Is there any other male cousin in the fam from your side to challenge you?
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I have no competition. :don

Its not an assumption; I have carefully studied her for four years now.

She's kinda new age. Doesn't seem to have a backward mentality or something. I believe she is pretty open to everything but definitely doesn't seem the romantic type.
 
Mamoon said:
I have no competition. :don

Its not an assumption; I have carefully studied her for four years now.

She's kinda new age. Doesn't seem to have a backward mentality or something. I believe she is pretty open to everything but definitely doesn't seem the romantic type.
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What was your interaction with her like during these 4 years?

You'll need to approach her accordingly, then. Brains over (self-perceived?)beauty, Mamoon. You need to impress her with your intellect and logic. Need to keep pessimism away. If she's traditionally patriotic, she might not take too well to you.
 
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blinding light said:
^ I know you didn't mean it like that, but I'm pretty sure he wasn't calling PB's batting "beautiful" :))

I haven't done anything, bro. This thread is baasi roti right now. The tandoor will garmo-fy when there's some potential contact b/w the two.
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I said that description is more suited for a batsmen then a girl. I did'nt mean to make it sound like he's calling her batting beautiful. It was a general comment, nothing directed at him.

What you have done is question the person who is in this situation. With some solid questions. This alone has made this thread more interesting for me or someone who wants to go far deeper into this. It could give anyone who maybe in this situation a better incite of what they should do in this particular situation.
 
blinding light said:
What was your interaction with her like during these 4 years?

You'll need to approach her accordingly, then. Brains over (self-perceived?)beauty, Mamoon. You need to impress her with your intellect and logic. Need to keep pessimism away. If she's traditionally patriotic, she might not take too well to you.
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No interaction at all.

As far as her patriotism is concerned, I am not sure but its likely that she is.

And, I AM PATRIOTIC! :moyo
 
Zohaib Shah said:
I said that description is more suited for a batsmen then a girl. I did'nt mean to make it sound like he's calling her batting beautiful. It was a general comment, nothing directed at him.

What you have done is question the person who is in this situation. With some solid questions. This alone has made this thread more interesting for me or someone who wants to go far deeper into this. It could give anyone who maybe in this situation a better incite of what they should do in this particular situation.
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Easy, ZS, I know how you meant that :)

Thanks for your comment :) Problematising PB might provide us the clue to aid Mamoon in wooing her successfully!

Almost like IR. I think this quote (by Churchill) fits PB as well as it did for the Soviet national interest defining the course of action: "It is a a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma."

Mamoon said:
No interaction at all.

As far as her patriotism is concerned, I am not sure but its likely that she is.

And, I AM PATRIOTIC! :moyo
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None? No glances? No stares? No awkward "Can you pass me the charsi dumba kebabs please?"

When you said you carefully observed her, are you sure you did so without her knowledge? Who knows she might already think of you as a stalker, and that text just exacerbated things?

You are patriotic in an incredibly messed-up way. That's why I wrote "traditionally patriotic."
 
Nursing a horrible head cold. The splitting headache really makes me wish I had some to ease the pain.
 
^ Mamoon's the daaktar here, he should be of help! :)

We need a charsi dumba smiley too :D

Dumbas of the world unite, you have nothing to lose but your ropes

:msd
 
No. nothing. I know its hard to believe but we don't see each other often and when we do, we don't interact.

I do stare at her ankhain phaar phaar ke :amir, so perhaps she knows that I measuring her up. Honestly, I have no idea.

Is it a good thing or a bad thing?
 
Cold is terrible. There is no immediate cure and fix. You just have to bear with it.
 
Mamoon said:
No. nothing. I know its hard to believe but we don't see each other often and when we do, we don't interact.

I do stare at her ankhain phaar phaar ke :amir, so perhaps she knows that I measuring her up. Honestly, I have no idea.

Is it a good thing or a bad thing?
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:110: :110: :110: :110: :110:

:L

Bari jaldi yaad aya hay batana.
 
:facepalm:

That's so obvious. I am obsessed with her and do you think I won't stare at her when she's around? Of course I try to be as subtle about it as possible otherwise she'd freak out but her non reaction suggests that she is either unaware or doesn't mind. :malik

Both are good enough for me.
 
Mamoon said:
:facepalm:

That's so obvious. I am obsessed with her and do you think I won't stare at her when she's around? Of course I try to be as subtle about it as possible otherwise she'd freak out but her non reaction suggests that she is either unaware or doesn't mind. :malik

Both are good enough for me.
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Oh yeah?

What if she ignores you on purpose because she absolutely hates it, but is always forced by her family to come over?

What if she gets weird vibes from your stares, but pretends to be nonchalant about it, hoping you'll go away one day?

Being ogled at is NOT an enjoyable experience. She's a girl, with self-respect. Not some charsi dumba! :facepalm:
 
Mamoon said:
Bacha party generally gathers a bit further away from the elders. :amir
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And the other bachas don't have an inkling either? Usually these things are hard to miss.

One thing is for sure: she's aware of the attention. Women have this innate sense, they always do.
 
Mamoon said:
Don't ask negative questions. :dav
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This is rich, coming from someone who denounces modern psychology and claims "there is no such thing as negative/positive."

I'd have never advised you to send that text if I knew you ogled at her like no one's business (despite being "subtle", girls can tell).

Haye, the possibility of attaining the walima look.. I can't say it..
 
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Donal Cozzie said:
That Mamoons been ogling her like a lion ogles a baby deer before pouncing.
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I thought that was always understood to have been the case. That's what everyone does. And if they don't, they should.

Staring works. It worked for Haroon786. The teacher now knows he's interested.
 
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