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The complexity of getting married

Kids are overrated. I have heard they ruin your married life completely esp in case of desi couples. wonder what nostalgic has to say about this:ajmal
 
TM Riddle said:
Kids are overrated. I have heard they ruin your married life completely esp in case of desi couples. wonder what nostalgic has to say about this:ajmal
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First kid 2 years after marriage, the second one after a 2 year gap.
 
Honeymoon has been narrowed down to Hawaii and Fiji so far.
 
I'm gonna shower her with gold and dress her in silk. Don't offend me with your cheap suggestions.

Bahama shall be taken into consideration.

God I love her.
 
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@Mamoon ... Give me her number i will talk with her on your behalf ..
You can trust me in this regard :srt
 
Mamoon, I will let you in to the secret. All girls, to some level, are vain. They will think positively about anyone who compliments them on their appearance.

"I can't get over the fact of how fantastic your hair is. It's the best I've ever seen".

"I'm sorry miss, but I just have to say you have the most beautifully coloured eyes I have ever come across."

Just little compliments like that. Don't have to elaborate any further. The girl will just shyly say thank you, but you will leave an impression on her. :afridi
 
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Mamoon, I will let you in to the secret. All girls, to some level, are vain. They will think positively about anyone who compliments them on their appearance.

"I can't get over the fact of how fantastic your hair is. It's the best I've ever seen".

"I'm sorry miss, but I just have to say you have the most beautifully coloured eyes I have ever come across."

Just little compliments like that. Don't have to elaborate any further. The girl will just shyly say thank you, but you will leave an impression on her. :afridi
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Can I say you smell great?
 
Mamoon said:
Woah, that's as detailed and well organized an explanation one can come up with. I have a weakness and its my tongue. :afridi

I have great control over what I say and when to say it, but I like to be brutally straightforward and honest which is off putting at times.

I have indirectly pulled off Step 1 today and trust me, your post has given me new hope and power. :yk2 I feel better now.

Now I have to look for a way to get her on a 1-1 conversation.

Thank you for the wonderful post. :14:
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You are welcome, bud.

Things could have been a lot lot better but its ok. Don't feel too bad. It happens.

There was a reason why I asked you whether you are naturally good at talking to girls. It takes practice to and to be honest, I would have been blown away if you would have pulled it off yesterday (pulled it off as in hit a home run).

That's the thing about this whole attraction stuff. It isn't straight forward because men and women are biologically wired differently.

If you like a girl and you just go and tell her that, she need not reciprocate it even if logically you have all things going for you (great looks, great career, great character, great family etc).

I got the impression from your posts that you have no problems in the looks department but this female isn't showing even a slight interest. Here's what's happening.

Attraction (as in initial attraction) is not a choice. Its a primitive animalistic emotion.

Its like getting turned on due to a fetish. A particular fetish doesn't turn you on because you want it to. It just turns you on. Attraction works something like that. Logic has no role to play in it.

When it comes to attraction, guys get stimulated by visual appearance (predominantly) while girls get stimulated by male voice and energy (what many call as manliness).

Now this doesn't mean guys don't consider aspects other than visual appearance as important (they do) and it sure doesn't mean girls don't consider visual appearance as important (they do too).

But on a primitive level, we are wired in a very particular way. Nothing we can do about it.

Now I don't have to give an explanation on why visual is important for guys. The whole world knows that but I do need to explain why male voice and energy are the main triggers for girls (as that's not something commonly known or discussed).

Take a look at this common narrative among females:

I want to marry a tall, dark handsome man who will sweep me off my feet.

Now no female is going to dream about wanting a guy who isn't handsome. But if you look at the above statement you will see what's going on. Females want to feel the giddying sense of attraction which is why they DON'T just stop at looks but say stuff like "sweep me off my feet" and loads of other stuff.

Many female associate a tall, dark handsome guy as one who will make them feel this giddying sense of attraction and hence they fantasize about him (which need not necessarily be the case). They would feel the same intense raging attraction for any guy who can make them feel that way. And that happens due to the voice (choice of words) and energy of a male. Have seen this happen to so many females so many times.

As I said, attraction is not a choice (there are studies that will tell you this but you don't need it - observation of human behavior is sufficient).

But it can be influenced by certain behaviorial patterns.

With that being said, trying to create attraction via behavior patterns is NOT some scientific principle that will work 100% of the time.

A guy who is good at attraction is like a guy who is great at making people laugh in pretty much any situation. Not all jokes by a funny guy will be met with a great response. Some may end up as damp squib but a funny guy MORE OFTEN than not leaves others in splits. Attraction is similar to that.

So why the hell am I saying all this?

To make 2 crucial points:

1. Great looks work great but they don't guarantee attraction. So if you look good and a female doesn't even show a slight interest on you, that doesn't mean she will never show interest. Its just that she doesn't feel any attraction towards you inspite of your looks.

2. This is even more crucial. You may go to great lengths to woo her but sometimes things may not work to your expectation and you may feel like its you who has messed up. That maybe true, may NOT be true. Some people just don't resonate with certain personality (however incredibly attractive other females may find it to be). So no need to find faults at yourself if your active efforts in the future don't yield desirable effects. That's the way this game is. Its NOT like an exam where efforts dictate results.

So once you are aware of this, its all about going out there, practicing your skills and giving it a good shot.

Regarding humor, I sense your problem.

Here's the thing: Yes if you can make a girl laugh that would work out well but there is MORE to this than what meets the eye. Making girls laugh is NOT necessarily equal to attraction.

There is a kind of humor wherein girls laugh but DON'T get turned on. There is humor wherein girls laugh while at the same time get really really turned on because of it.

The second kind of humor is what is important. The first one is useless for attraction purpose. Its like talking to a girl for 2 hours over a common interest. When that happens:

Guy logic: Wow, what rapport. Man, I am on fire. This female is so going to ask me out.
Girl logic: It was a GREAT conversation. I really think I found a guy who would make a GREAT friend.

Its always the second kind of humor that works. That's why some genuinely hilarious guys find it hard to get girls.

The second kind of humor does not need to be stuff that will make a girl pee in her pants due to laughter.

Its more about:

1. Finding a funny aspect in a current setting that elicits a chuckle
2. Narrating a story as dull as your daily routine while highlighting the annoying aspects in a funny manner (basically finding humor in your mundane stuff)

Funny stuff that is laced with either innuendo (classy way) or stuff that has an interesting and unique take on a certain thing.

Basically witty statements that elicit chuckles. That's the phrase I am looking for.

Witty statements that make girls laugh with you. Not at you. You ain't a clown and don't have to act like one to get some cheap laughs.

Eg at the top of my head: Watch Charlie Sheen in 2 and half men. I don't see how a guy like Charlie could ever be funny in a true funny sense. Fact is he's not. But watch him when he talks to girls. How he just makes statements that just turns females on. I know many scenes in that show are unrealistic and outrageous but overall when you watch the show, you will get an idea. And by the way, that show (as a show) is rubbish.

Point is: Its great to have a great sense of humor (in the conventional sense). But its ok if you don't have one. Nothing is lost.

The second kind of humor is what is important and that is a skill just like any other skill.

You just have to find your style:

Some guys do GREAT with doing impressions and mimics.
Some guys do well with dry sarcastic humour.
Some guys just narrate their simple boring stories (personal experiences) by highlighting annoying stuff and finding a humor in them.

Its important you don't act in a way that doesn't suit you. How will you know what works for you? Simple. You exhibit a certain behavior and observe how it is perceived. Observe, adjust, observe, adjust and so on. That's the way you develop your style.

Man, this already has turned into a long post. So I will just stop here and maybe add in other stuff later on. I am getting tired.

By the way, here's a video that shows a high class conversation that truly creates initial attraction:

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3 points:

1. Don't try a Will Smith. I ain't asking you to. Just making a point.
2. Not every person's style has to resonate with a female. So find your own.
3. The movie Hitch perfectly encapsulates the essence of attraction but its engineered sequences and ending is pure crap.
 
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Mamoon is taking us all for a ride. He is trolling us all 'good and proper'. Keep it up Mamoon, it is interesting. I might write a script for a film about this thread!

Btw, marrying a second cousin (who you are overly attracted to) and is 5 years younger than you is perverted. I can understand if she was a suggestion from your parents in an arranged marriage, but this is just plain wrong. I bet you have had a crush on her since you were 18, and she was 14/15. Even writing this sounds wrong.
 
This thread... woaah. NOT the kind of stuff you expect to tumble across after an economics exam!

@ Dhoni- bro, wow. Seriously. I'm at a loss of words - truly! Filmy, too classic!

@ Mamoon - Question on whether you base your feelings on desire (which are temporary, fleeting but intense) or are you in for the long haul?

You claim its the latter, but from what you're saying, I almost think its the former. Need to get this incongruence sorted out asap, before you take the next step (IF you decide to do so).

(sorry couldn't fetch the quote)
Thanks for the best wishes, kaayal! Wish you the same! :)
 
Always follow the tried and tested golden equation for calculating the age bracket of potential partners.

If x is your age, the youngest your partner can be is governed by equation i below:

y = (x/2) + 7 .... (i)

Conversely, to find the oldest your partner can be, use equation ii below:

z = (x - 7) * 2. .... (ii)

Where y < x < z

For instance, using my age of 133, we get an age bracket of 73 1/2 to 252. Since I go for aunties, it severely limits the pool of potential partners, given the average life span of a homo sapien female. You youngsters may have better luck.




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I still can't believe you're nearly 4 years her senior and you're still pussyfooting around telling this girl because you fear rejection. You are borderline female if you can't make any move (besides smelling her .. yes very weird).
 
Sensible-India-fan, you should write a book man..:))

@Mamoon, Man up and call her!
 
A few word of advice:

1. You just have to rack your brains on how to initiate a conversation with her (via internet or via real in person).

2. Don't profess your love. It only works when the girl is actually very very interested in you. Or else its a major strike against you from which recovering is VERY VERY hard.

3. Forget about trying to impress her. Ain't gonna happen. That's the beauty of conversations. Both the parties know what's going on without having to face up to it UNTIL the right moment comes.

For eg - When a guy asks a girl "Wanna grab a cup of coffee?"

He means: "Actually I find you attractive and I would like to ask you out right away but since the odds are you would freak out and say no, I am going to ask you to go out for a coffee with me where I am going to try my best to have a great conversation and try to work my way up into getting you to date me."

He means that and the girl knows it fully well. No one has to face up to that fact until the right moment comes. If the convo goes well, they meet again (in real or virtual space) or else they don't. If not, no problem.

The "wanna grab a cup of coffee" is one of the most elegant methods I have seen when it comes to creating or developing attraction. Its not a conversation starter of course, just a tool to turn a good start into something meaningful without freaking out the other person.
 
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This is all getting boring with a plethora of advisers, hence lets go back to the poetry.

Blame her not if she avoids you;
She deserves not your reproaches.
She is fair as a gazelle, or as the moon ;
But the gazelle is timed.
You deprive me of hearing your sweet voice,
And you will not suffer mine eyes to drink in your beauty.
Absorbed in devotions your thoughts are fixed on God.
But you have none for a mortal man
 
^ Then what about the 'talented and gorgeous kids' that he dreamed of with her..:asif
 
AFM said:
Mamoon, I will let you in to the secret. All girls, to some level, are vain. They will think positively about anyone who compliments them on their appearance.

"I can't get over the fact of how fantastic your hair is. It's the best I've ever seen".

"I'm sorry miss, but I just have to say you have the most beautifully coloured eyes I have ever come across."

Just little compliments like that. Don't have to elaborate any further. The girl will just shyly say thank you, but you will leave an impression on her. :afridi
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My earlier post in this thread said pretty much the same.......

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..... As long as the guy is the right one, some don´t even pay attention to the factuality of the compliments showered (you could easily go on praising their blue eyes even if they in fact have black ones)......
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Mamoon bhai, I don´t quite like outsiders dismissing it as "Just attraction" or approving it to be "love", which in my book goes down as hurting a person´s sentiment, somewhat, because I believe that a person will himself will see light with time instead of his feelings being subjected to interpretations by others - which can be annoying at times.

So by calling it "love", let me give you a brotherly advise: never love a person solely based on her looks, physical beauty etc., for such form of love lasts for only as long as that very gorgeous looking, stunning, pleasing to the eye, beautiful girl proceeds to say something very hurtful at some point in life. People start to question their own feelings for the same girl once something such happens. Tolerance, understanding etc. for each other is based on words, thoughts, that little soulful feeling, the love between hearts instead of the physical beings. Surely, there is absolutely nothing wrong in loving a beautiful person; never! But be not blinded by the beauty to not to focus on other aspects that matter more as life goes on to the time when you marry, have kids, turn old, go jogging etc.

A girl may love me as much as she can, I the same in return, but that feeling is bound to fade if she one day relates to me her hatred for..... let´s say blacks, or anything that goes against the basic concept of humanity. I am complicated I know, but I am there not without a purpose.

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@ Dhoni- bro, wow. Seriously. I'm at a loss of words - truly! Filmy, too classic!
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Except that (I am bit of) an idiot, there is not much of a reason to dislike me. So yeah, as they get to know me more, people somehow end up loving me (in whichever form it may be). I am indeed nothing special, just that I am surrounded with beautiful hearts of well-wishers..... like you:).

She continued to contact me for a long time but I didn´t respond. I just did what I should have. Irrelevant, but my poem covering the whole episode is amongst my most liked ones. Often make aunties weep on Twitter as they pat on my shoulder for being a true Romeo in this age of bloodshed, hatred, violence and everything.

"I often think about the sadness it brought,
But remembering the moments I perish the thought.
For others, it may just be a matter of months,
But whatever happened, in my memories it runs."
 
Also, good luck with your exams, sister Blinding Light! I hope that it all goes well.
 
Mamoon said:
I'm gonna shower her with gold and dress her in silk. Don't offend me with your cheap suggestions.

Bahama shall be taken into consideration.

God I love her.
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No, please don't shower her with gold. It may hit her head and cause concussion.
 
This thread would have died within a page or two if it weren't for the introduction of your cousin, Mamoon.

The OP has zero charm, your predicament is the sole attraction.
 
The advice in this thread would do anyone a world of good but nothing seems to work for you.

Plus, good job again, SIF! Another jobless day? What do you do anyway?
 
96NotOut said:
The advice in this thread would do anyone a world of good but nothing seems to work for you.

Plus, good job again, SIF! Another jobless day? What do you do anyway?
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Actually I wrote that big post yesterday night (late hours).

I work on my internet business. So I get to check on this forum a lot.
 
Mamoon post a painting of her when you're finished.

I really want to see a pic of bhabhi (good intentions)..
 
Are all the rishtey waali aunties invited to weddings?

Because if Mamoon ever gets Mila, we should get a lot of credit.
 
Weren't careful enough Mamoon :))

I've found her (I think), I will tweet her tomorrow morning :)

Gn.
 
cricketmerijaan said:
Btw, marrying a second cousin (who you are overly attracted to) and is 5 years younger than you is perverted. I can understand if she was a suggestion from your parents in an arranged marriage, but this is just plain wrong. I bet you have had a crush on her since you were 18, and she was 14/15. Even writing this sounds wrong.
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My whole view on this to be fair.
 
Mamoon bhai, draw a new painting. Now, it doesn´t have to be relevant to the story, in fact it shouldn´t at all. Some light-hearted stuff should suffice. My suggestion would be, something like nature: a sea, waterfall, river, trees, blue sky with birds beneath it (adding sun(shine) here is up to you), or..... a child with his mother. Do it, hand it over to her by saying that it´s specially meant for her.

What do you think:13:?
 
DHONI183 said:
Mamoon bhai, I don´t quite like outsiders dismissing it as "Just attraction" or approving it to be "love", which in my book goes down as hurting a person´s sentiment, somewhat, because I believe that a person will himself will see light with time instead of his feelings being subjected to interpretations by others - which can be annoying at times.

So by calling it "love", let me give you a brotherly advise: never love a person solely based on her looks, physical beauty etc., for such form of love lasts for only as long as that very gorgeous looking, stunning, pleasing to the eye, beautiful girl proceeds to say something very hurtful at some point in life. People start to question their own feelings for the same girl once something such happens. Tolerance, understanding etc. for each other is based on words, thoughts, that little soulful feeling, the love between hearts instead of the physical beings. Surely, there is absolutely nothing wrong in loving a beautiful person; never! But be not blinded by the beauty to not to focus on other aspects that matter more as life goes on to the time when you marry, have kids, turn old, go jogging etc.

A girl may love me as much as she can, I the same in return, but that feeling is bound to fade if she one day relates to me her hatred for..... let´s say blacks, or anything that goes against the basic concept of humanity. I am complicated I know, but I am there not without a purpose.



Except that (I am bit of) an idiot, there is not much of a reason to dislike me. So yeah, as they get to know me more, people somehow end up loving me (in whichever form it may be). I am indeed nothing special, just that I am surrounded with beautiful hearts of well-wishers..... like you:).

She continued to contact me for a long time but I didn´t respond. I just did what I should have. Irrelevant, but my poem covering the whole episode is amongst my most liked ones. Often make aunties weep on Twitter as they pat on my shoulder for being a true Romeo in this age of bloodshed, hatred, violence and everything.

"I often think about the sadness it brought,
But remembering the moments I perish the thought.
For others, it may just be a matter of months,
But whatever happened, in my memories it runs."
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That worldview isn't shared by many, my friend. I see people brimmed with negativity, spewing hatred right, left and centre.

People will try to pull and bring you down. I see it, and sometimes I think I've lost the battle myself. But hang in there, bro. It's nice to see there are people - helpful, happy, fundamentally satisfied and ones who look for good in others, like you out there..

I better head to that philosophy thread!

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Also, good luck with your exams, sister Blinding Light! I hope that it all goes well.
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Bless you! :) Had my IR exam today, pretty much dislocated my wrist - but it went well, Alhamdulillah.. 1 more to go!

96NotOut said:
This thread would have died within a page or two if it weren't for the introduction of your cousin, Mamoon.

The OP has zero charm, your predicament is the sole attraction.
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:)) I agree! :D

96NotOut said:
Are all the rishtey waali aunties invited to weddings?

Because if Mamoon ever gets Mila, we should get a lot of credit.
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Indeed :dav

DHONI183 said:
Mamoon bhai, draw a new painting. Now, it doesn´t have to be relevant to the story, in fact it shouldn´t at all. Some light-hearted stuff should suffice. My suggestion would be, something like nature: a sea, waterfall, river, trees, blue sky with birds beneath it (adding sun(shine) here is up to you), or..... a child with his mother. Do it, hand it over to her by saying that it´s specially meant for her.

What do you think:13:?
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:)))

He should draw PB with his future "talented" kids :D
 
I Cant understand whether this thread is about the complexity of getting married or Suggessions for Mamoon about his spiritual love story :13:
 
blinding light said:
Bless you! :) Had my IR exam today, pretty much dislocated my wrist - but it went well, Alhamdulillah.. 1 more to go!
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Good going. Get the final one done as well!

blinding light said:
:)))

He should draw PB with his future "talented" kids :D
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To be honest, this was my first serious advice for him and you end up laughing at it:))?!

It would look a bit creepy if he hands it to her by saying, "Look, this is you with our cute little child." Therefore, draw the painting, stay silent on who the people in the painting are, and then when things end up going well, confess it by saying, "Do you remember that painting? They were..... you..... and.... our child:53:."

By the way, thanks for giving me and my story some much needed attention. My jealousy has finally been put to rest, as it was beyond my tolerance to see every other member´s story getting so much attention.

Xred said:
Darn, It's one day ever since he went on dinner. I hope he is okay.
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I think we should stop treating him like a stage dancer who causes bit of an upset amongst the audience at her absence.

Leave the poor soul alone. He is in love after all and can´t quite think of ideas as of now:(.

Haroon Javed said:
I Cant understand whether this thread is about the complexity of getting married or Suggessions for Mamoon about his spiritual love story :13:
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We are all confused, but enjoy while it lasts I suggest!
 
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^ Then what about the 'talented and gorgeous kids' that he dreamed of with her..:asif
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He started desiring her in 2010 which means it took four long years for him to post a thread here, when do you think he will be actually able to talk to her , keeping the marriage and kids issues aside?

I know what happens to these kind of lovers.
One day she will herself come to his house to hand him a bag of delicious gulab jamans.
 
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One day she will herself come to his house to hand him a bag of delicious gulab jamans.
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I don´t think that our society has evolved to the stage where girls themselves distribute 'celeberatory' sweets of their marriage, or has it?
 
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I don´t think that our society has evolved to the stage where girls themselves distribute 'celeberatory' sweets of their marriage, or has it?
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I am talking about future , things could change by then.

I can also imagine another scene that he is eating " ras gulla " and the moment he is about to swallow he is told that these came from her home.
 
waqar goraya said:
I can also imagine another scene that he is eating " ras gulla " and the moment he is about to swallow he is told that these came from her home.
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And then Mamoon bhai locking himself in a room for a few hours before realising how pointless that practise and protest is, and then him going to do shopping to buy himself something to wear at her wedding.

In all honesty, he is a fair guy who has admitted in this thread itself that in worst case, he is ready to even dance at her wedding. What a guy:bow:!
 
I think this saying falls perfect for those occasions.

Alice : How long is forever?

White Rabbit : Sometimes, just one second.
 
DHONI183 said:
And then Mamoon bhai locking himself in a room for a few hours before realising how pointless that practise and protest is, and then him going to do shopping to buy himself something to wear at her wedding.

In all honesty, he is a fair guy who has admitted in this thread itself that in worst case, he is ready to even dance at her wedding. What a guy:bow:!
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I don't know why but i always read your posts as poems :yk



Looks like this thread is going to be quiet over the next week or two
 
DHONI183 said:
Good going. Get the final one done as well!

To be honest, this was my first serious advice for him and you end up laughing at it:))?!

It would look a bit creepy if he hands it to her by saying, "Look, this is you with our cute little child." Therefore, draw the painting, stay silent on who the people in the painting are, and then when things end up going well, confess it by saying, "Do you remember that painting? They were..... you..... and.... our child:53:."


By the way, thanks for giving me and my story some much needed attention. My jealousy has finally been put to rest, as it was beyond my tolerance to see every other member´s story getting so much attention.

I think we should stop treating him like a stage dancer who causes bit of an upset amongst the audience at her absence.

Leave the poor soul alone. He is in love after all and can´t quite think of ideas as of now:(.
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I will do my best, InshAllah :)

:))

I'm not laughing at the suggestion for its content, I'm just thinking about it - how it would look IRL, and it is incredibly cheesy... But fortunately or unfortunately, thats probably what would work for Mamoon :)

But yes, of course - dont tell her immediately who the people in the painting are.. Tell PB later, when you're married. Or formally engaged, or sth :)

Your analogies are hilarious, btw :)))
 
Afridi96 said:
I don't know why but i always read your posts as poems :yk
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Not entirely your fault; that´s the affect that I have on people.

blinding light said:
I'm not laughing at the suggestion for its content, I'm just thinking about it - how it would look IRL, and it is incredibly cheesy... But fortunately or unfortunately, thats probably what would work for Mamoon :)

But yes, of course - dont tell her immediately who the people in the painting are.. Tell PB later, when you're married. Or formally engaged, or sth :)
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And if he doesn´t like that idea, then below is the painting suggested by my elder brother (the screenshot is taken from a film)......

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See the painting in it. Perfectly depicts the romantic season of autumn! Making a pigeon sit there whilst drawing a painting is optional though, but I would advise against it as there´s always a chance of pigeon just adding additional colours and ruining the whole thing (if you know what I mean).

If you don´t mind me asking, what does "PB" stand for? You have used it multiple times and I am yet to understand it. We have a user named PB and for a moment I thought Mamoon Bhai is having an affair with him as well! Phew!
 
PB is the generally accepted acronym for Peanut Butter.

I buy the organic variety: peanuts and salt. No preservatives. The oil floats to the top and then congeals. They recommend stirring it in for a creamier spread, but I just scoop it out and throw it away. That probably cuts down on a lot of calories.

I like mine on toasted whole wheat with homemade strawberry preserves.


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To Mamoon:

As 96NotOut pointed out, the OP has no charm. This thread became alive when you posted stuff happening in your personal space.

So anything new?

This thread is losing its life.
 
Mamoon isn't posting till May 2nd. Or so he said.

Lets just get on with our lives, I have exams and this thread is really distracting. I can't believe I actually logged in to write this. :facepalm:
 
96NotOut said:
Mamoon isn't posting till May 2nd. Or so he said.

Lets just get on with our lives, I have exams and this thread is really distracting. I can't believe I actually logged in to write this. :facepalm:
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:))

Pakpassion is addictive.

I am always logged in (even when I am not there). Comp is always on.

Good luck with your exams.
 
sensible-indian-fan said:
:))

Pakpassion is addictive.

I am always logged in (even when I am not there). Comp is always on.

Good luck with your exams.
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Same here. And even if I'm not logged in, I'm browsing.

And I'll be needing the luck, thanks. 10 days to go and I have no idea where half my books are. :facepalm:
 
96NotOut said:
Same here. And even if I'm not logged in, I'm browsing.

And I'll be needing the luck, thanks. 10 days to go and I have no idea where half my books are. :facepalm:
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When I had 10 days to go for my exams, I didn't know that there were exams 10 days later.
 
96NotOut said:
:))) What grade were you in?

BTW, what's with your signature?
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I was referring to my college days.

Did Electrical and Electronic Engineering.

Big big mistake.

Passed out nearly 3 years ago.

Reg signature - I just feel that Ishant doesn't get the appreciation he truly deserves. That of a legend. So I am doing my bit. Maybe I have done enough and its time to change my signature.
 
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sensible-indian-fan said:
I was referring to my college days.

Did Electrical and Electronic Engineering.

Big big mistake.

Passed out nearly 3 years ago.

Reg signature - I just feel that Ishant doesn't get the appreciation he truly deserves. That of a legend. So I am doing my bit. Maybe I have done enough and its time to change my signature.
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Thank God. That means I'm not the worst out there, I'm only in 11th grade.

"Big big mistake": you not studying or studying Electrical and Electronic Engineering?
 
96NotOut said:
Thank God. That means I'm not the worst out there, I'm only in 11th grade.

"Big big mistake": you not studying or studying Electrical and Electronic Engineering?
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Big mistake studying it.

I was a good student till my 10th grade but from my 11th grade till the end of my college, I was scratchy as hell reg studies (never was interested in my chosen field).

By the way, of course you are not the worst.

Have you lived in hostel and tried to study with 3 other guys in your room?

Its utter carnage.

In my college, there was no study leave. My friends in other colleges used to have them. For us, the study leave was the weekend before exam started.

This is what happens the day before the exam:

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^lol I too had the misfortune of staying in a dormitory during the 1st year of my college. It was fun mostly except during the period of exam.
 
kaayal said:
^lol I too had the misfortune of staying in a dormitory during the 1st year of my college. It was fun mostly except during the period of exam.
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Exactly. Then it turns into a kind of torture.

More so if everyone is in the same room.

But tbh, in my case, I did get a LOT of help from my friends reg studies so I shouldn't be complaining.
 
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