Come on AJ. If Arsenal win the league this season, no one will ever remember this game again. If we were just fighting for top 4, people would care more. When we were knocked out by Villarreal I was devastated. When we got whooped by Chelsea in Baku, I was there and it was devastating. These games had huge negative reactions from fans.
But when we are on the cusp of winning a league title for the first time in 19 years, I can promise you nobody cares about this. Most the fans I know were begging to be eliminated so it can be less of a distraction, they are angrier than you because it took so long. You can rant about I'm making excuses or whatever, honestly this is the reality, take it or leave it.
Of course in the team vacuum, the players and managers want to win every single game. That's why they are where they are. They will be disappointed, but as fans, the majority do not care this season about any other competition than the league. Once we win that, we can start worrying about how to be a successful team over a sustained period of time. But the trophies people remember are not League Cups and Europa Leagues. United won it in 2017, I've never heard it mentioned except by Mourinho mentioning it alongside the Community Shield. Chelsea won in 2019, again same thing. This is the reality.
If we bottle the league, no one will be consoled a little bit by an FA Cup or Europa League. No one will say that this was a failed season because we didn't win the League Cup. In this position right now, only the league matters. Next season will be a different story with CL, and we will have to vastly improve European form to do well in that.
All the eggs are now in one basket now, just like last season and the club finished with egg on its face last season. If the club wins the title then fair enough.However the poor record in Europe needs to be addressed and also the record in cups is a shambles.
Top clubs go out to try and win all competitions that they are in thats the mentality which breeds longterm success.
Arsenal won the FA Cup under Arteta, following season we see a weak side put out vs Southampton and lose, 3 days later we put out a strong team in league vs Southampton when we are 11th in the league.
Last season we went out of both cups, yet we weren't in Europe. We heard the excuses "oh we need to focus on top 4, cups are a distraction" then when we bottled top 4 the excuses changed to "oh well clubs target was get into europe"
Every time Arsenal fail in Cup or league there is a new excuse.
Again this season out of all the cups and its now down to the league. If we finish 2nd the new excise will be "oh we werent expected to win the league, target was top 4". Some fans are already using that excuse.
Winning trophies helps gain a winning culture and mentality, it also partly contributes to how a season is viewed as a success or a failure.
Yet a lot of are fan bases for last few seasons dismiss cups as nothing once we get knocked out.
Look at some of the most successful teams in last 35 years in English football and its usually started with a cup win which has then been built upon after.
Let me give you plenty of examples of that below
1) Arsenal were a mediocre side for the early 1980s then George Graham took over and built a good young side, their 1st trophy a league cup win in 1987 vs a strong Liverpool side, the manager and players all say now that 1st trophy gave them belief to they could win more. 2 league titles, FA Cup and league Cup double and a European trophy followed after that
2) Man united back in 1990 Fergie was looking at the sack if they lost an FA Cup tie vs Notts forest, they won the game went on to win the FA Cup, Cup winner Cup following year and then numerous titles
3) Chelsea 2005, Mourinho has openly said that the league Cup win that season helped the team get over the mental hurdle of previous failures in previous cups and tgeb help them go and win 2 titles in a row.
4) Man united 2006, United went through a rebuild phase where they were not winning as many league titles as usual. Arsenal (2) and Chelsea (2) meant united won 1 title in 5 seasons, the rebuild team including Ronaldo, Rooney won their 1st trophy in 2006 in league Cup, that team then went on to win 3 PL titles in a row, and a CL.
5) Man City 2011, City won the FA Cup their first trophy in 40+ years, the mental barrier of beating united in semi finals, then winning it gave the club winners mentality and they then win league following season.
6) Man City 2015/16 - Pep 1st trophy as city manager was a league cup, that help the squad then go on to win numerous trophies after that.
Yes the league is the most important, but Arsenal dismissing cups as mickey mouse, not important, bigger fish to fry nonsense is pathetic and hilarious at same time. Whilst all trophies are the same in prestige they can help a team get over mental barriers and help start of a period of sustained success.
You chose to give a weak example of united fans don't care about europa league and league Cup. I've given at least 6 example of where "irrelevant cups" have helped a team kick on and do well.
Any manager / club creating legacy is based on what you win over a certain period of time.