Even 64k pounds is a lot of money. Does that money Desmond Tutu is only after money too?
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Even 64k pounds is a lot of money. Does that money Desmond Tutu is only after money too?
[MENTION=43583]KingKhanWC[/MENTION] Malala is a Brummie now, thou shall not intentionally criticise a fellow Bear; it's the 11th Commandment![]()
Ha , we are very welcoming to all.![]()
The thread is not about Tutu, feel free to start one and I will give my opinion if you really want to read it.
Once again bro, you've no idea about the stuff I did in 12th Grade so stop being personal, alright.
Why can't I have the audacity to ask another Pakistani to help her own countrymen before settling abroad and sending this "bechaari" image of hers throughout the world? Pakistan was the country that gave her an identity (otherwise, who knows, she would've been another "Rohingya massacre" news story) therefore it is her duty to serve her nation 1st and foremost.
Its not personal. You're talking as if I'm cursing Malala for going to Cambridge. I'm criticising the Ivy League unis for not being transparent enough.
[MENTION=43583]KingKhanWC[/MENTION] Malala is a Brummie now, thou shall not intentionally criticise a fellow Bear; it's the 11th Commandment![]()
I think this is the right way to view Malala now. She fought a brave public fight for female education in some tribal areas of Pakistan and was understandably used in the propaganda war when the war against the Taliban was at it's height. Her job is done, hopefully that has meant that those areas can share the same rights to female education that was already available in most cities in Pakistan. Now she should be free to make her life over here and live it how she pleases.
Pakistani's expect too much from her, they should worry more about politicians in their country which are directly responsible for policy or those who potentially could be in that position one day e.g opposition parties.
Pakistanis hate those who point out their deficiencies and weaknesses. They hate the one who shows them the mirror.
I'm not getting personal. Doing stuff in Grade 12 is not enough...this is my point. If despite your amazing grades and "stuff" you've been doing, you're unable to figure out why you didn't make it, then I think you don't belong there. Again, no offense. [1]
A good first step would be to take a look at your competition at these schools and how your profile relates to them. Trust me, you're not making a strong case for yourself with your reasoning here.
Why should any Pakistani help others before helping herself? Do you have any idea how nonsensical that sounds. Any person would choose to make their life better first and then do what they can to help others. Are you forgetting what happened to her in Pakistan? Sounds like you have an issue that she chose to get an immigration...why does that even matter? The country that gave her an identity also gave her bullets in her head and a life full of fear. [2] Do you honestly think Malala wouldn't be a target again? [3]
I think it's absolutely PATHETIC of you to say it's her duty to serve her nation first. What in the actual HELL have you ever done to serve your nation? And what gives you a right to tell anyone that they should serve their nation before they serve themselves? [4]
Pakistanis are a cursed community and the opinions on Malala are a clear example why we don't belong in the civilized world. Thanks for the debate, I wish you a lot of luck for your future. You will need it. [5]
[1] Mate, please stop with the guess work which is very clear from your 1st paragraph.
[2]Pathetic. Absolutely pathetic. How could you blame your country for the state its in right now when its very clear that the people running it are incompetent and solely responsible for it.
[3] Two words. Benazir Bhutto. Ring a bell? She's also the inspiration for Malala. I don't think I need to say anymore, do I? As for those who are talking about Malala's "balls of steel", anyone can criticise any terrorist group or organization (present in the East) while sitting in their new home in the West and then claim "balls of steel".
[4]Mate, have you EVER been to a citizenship awarding ceremony? Do you know what they say in the oath? Better check it out before talking about this point again.
[5]True dat because we value those who aren't worthy while those who are worthy are ignored and neglected until they die.
Few more points and they're directed to everyone who's on this topic:
a) Since when did something as simple as speaking up for your rights become such a huge act of "courage and bravery" that you're sent to UN to give speeches and meet world leaders while achieving nothing at all with regards to whatever you spoke out for IN YOUR OWN NEIGHBOURHOOD.
b) Let's just consider this scenario:
What if Malala was treated successfully in Pakistan and gone back home and still held the same stance in the face of the Taliban in Swat? Now compare this to what actually happened. What would you, as a logical human being, consider "bravery and courage" among both these scenarios?
c)According to [MENTION=131701]Mamoon[/MENTION], the top universities would always prefer to have alumni who have international fame/recognition etc etc. Since when did "fame and recognition" become the criteria for getting the best possible facilities and quality of education in the world? Is it fair? I thought hard work was the key to success, wasn't it? This was my point in my 1st post about Malala's Oxford admission. What about all those students who've worked hard all their academic lives and been active in every extra-curricular activity available yet preference is given to a select few in the world because of international fame/recognition? I have no idea of how to justify this claim. Again, most posters will call me a cry baby but hey, when you've put in the hard yards and you've gotten the required results and you've achieved all those awards and certificates but you're still not considered because of a lack of fame/recognition then there is nothing more demoralizing/disheartening than that.
d)Yes, Malala spoke up for a great cause; yes she was very young when she did all this; yes she was resolute in her path but was it the bullet which made her what she is today? I certainly feel so and I'm sure most other posters will too.
The Malala I criticise is not that young girl who was speaking for her rights at such a young age.
The Malala I criticise is the one who, after getting shot, never looked back at fellow countrymen and children who suffer to this day from the exact circumstances that she stood up against.
I literally skimmed through your post because I seriously can't stand what you've been saying. Let's ignore Malala and your views on her. I will not have that debate with you because I honestly think you are very naive.
Lets look at why you were not able to get in to Oxford/Cambridge...and I'll base this off the information you've given me.
Let's make a few things clear...starting extra curricular activities in Grade 12 is not enough because university applications are due by December of that year...Semester for all schools starts in fall Aug/Sep...that is 4 months of you doing "stuff"...that will not get you in to Cambridge. Sorry. They look at what you've done since grade 9. So yeah, that's one area you were clearly lacking in your application. It also matters what extra curricular activities you were involved in...(debate team, tier 1 athlete, not-for-profit volunteer, student club founder/leader, etc..)
Top universities DON'T only accept people who have international fame/recognition. This is where you're wrong. All universities, specially the top ones, maintain a DIVERSE incoming class each year. Let me break this down for you....
1) If Harvard has an incoming class of 200 students...and this is the breakdown of the applicants:
- 400 Caucasian applicants
- 100 Black Applicants
- 350 Non-Asian Asians (Indians, Pakistanis, Bangladeshis, Sri Lankan)
- 350 Asians (Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, etc.)
- 200 Latin Americans (Brazilians, Argentinians, Mexicans, etc.)
Out of these 1400 applicants, you will be fighting for 50 spots that are open for Non-Asian Asians meaning anyone who is Indian, Pakistani, Afghani, Iranian, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan, Nepalese). Your direct competition for a spot is with students who share your ethnicity. You are going up against Indian kids who a very tough competition. . The only time you will not go up against your own ethnicity is when you're an "Under Represented Minority"
So you were basically compared to All non-asian Asians during your admission process and you didn't make the cut...why? Because there must have been more students from your ethnic background that had a better application. You really are at a disadvantage because Indians have flooded all the best universities in the world and you just can't compete with them on the nerdy stuff. What you need to separate your self from the desis is unusual extra curricular activities...
This is the same process used by all top universities. There are many different websites where you can actually read up on many very qualified candidates from around the world getting rejected because they were either White or Indian. (www.poetsandquants.com, www.wallstreetoasis.com, www.gmatclub.com - these are some websites that actually lay out the admission criteria for all top schools (these are related to business schools but I'm sure you can find more on whatever your field is)).
And to debunk your international recognition/fame theory...I'll give you a few examples..
1) Mark Zuckerberg - hailed from a very poor Jewish family, no connections, no hi-fi college prep high school, got a scholarship to Harvard because he learned to code at the age of 15
2) Barack Obama - Grew up in Hawaii, no money, no fame, never met his father, got a scholarship at Columbia because he was a community leader who helped the homeless (at age 18)
3) David Rubenstien - his dad was a post office worker in Maryland, lived in one bedroom house with a family of 8, got a full ride to Duke and U Chicago because he was the smartest kid in Maryland (literally)
There are many others. These are some famous people who became famous after turning 30.
And for full disclosure I applied to Columbia, Cornell, Upenn and got rejected from all 3 not because I wasn't famous but because my application was weak compared to other people of my ethnicity. If I have to explain to you how Universities go about deciding which students to include you're already behind the game.
I literally skimmed through your post because I seriously can't stand what you've been saying. Let's ignore Malala and your views on her. I will not have that debate with you because I honestly think you are very naive.
Lets look at why you were not able to get in to Oxford/Cambridge...and I'll base this off the information you've given me.
Let's make a few things clear...starting extra curricular activities in Grade 12 is not enough because university applications are due by December of that year...Semester for all schools starts in fall Aug/Sep...that is 4 months of you doing "stuff"...that will not get you in to Cambridge. Sorry. They look at what you've done since grade 9. So yeah, that's one area you were clearly lacking in your application. It also matters what extra curricular activities you were involved in...(debate team, tier 1 athlete, not-for-profit volunteer, student club founder/leader, etc..)
Top universities DON'T only accept people who have international fame/recognition. This is where you're wrong. All universities, specially the top ones, maintain a DIVERSE incoming class each year. Let me break this down for you....
1) If Harvard has an incoming class of 200 students...and this is the breakdown of the applicants:
- 400 Caucasian applicants
- 100 Black Applicants
- 350 Non-Asian Asians (Indians, Pakistanis, Bangladeshis, Sri Lankan)
- 350 Asians (Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, etc.)
- 200 Latin Americans (Brazilians, Argentinians, Mexicans, etc.)
Out of these 1400 applicants, you will be fighting for 50 spots that are open for Non-Asian Asians meaning anyone who is Indian, Pakistani, Afghani, Iranian, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan, Nepalese). Your direct competition for a spot is with students who share your ethnicity. You are going up against Indian kids who a very tough competition. . The only time you will not go up against your own ethnicity is when you're an "Under Represented Minority"
So you were basically compared to All non-asian Asians during your admission process and you didn't make the cut...why? Because there must have been more students from your ethnic background that had a better application. You really are at a disadvantage because Indians have flooded all the best universities in the world and you just can't compete with them on the nerdy stuff. What you need to separate your self from the desis is unusual extra curricular activities...
This is the same process used by all top universities. There are many different websites where you can actually read up on many very qualified candidates from around the world getting rejected because they were either White or Indian. (www.poetsandquants.com, www.wallstreetoasis.com, www.gmatclub.com - these are some websites that actually lay out the admission criteria for all top schools (these are related to business schools but I'm sure you can find more on whatever your field is)).
And to debunk your international recognition/fame theory...I'll give you a few examples..
1) Mark Zuckerberg - hailed from a very poor Jewish family, no connections, no hi-fi college prep high school, got a scholarship to Harvard because he learned to code at the age of 15
2) Barack Obama - Grew up in Hawaii, no money, no fame, never met his father, got a scholarship at Columbia because he was a community leader who helped the homeless (at age 18)
3) David Rubenstien - his dad was a post office worker in Maryland, lived in one bedroom house with a family of 8, got a full ride to Duke and U Chicago because he was the smartest kid in Maryland (literally)
There are many others. These are some famous people who became famous after turning 30.
And for full disclosure I applied to Columbia, Cornell, Upenn and got rejected from all 3 not because I wasn't famous but because my application was weak compared to other people of my ethnicity. If I have to explain to you how Universities go about deciding which students to include you're already behind the game.
Brilliantly put.
[MENTION=139075]Hadi Rizvi[/MENTION]
I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I understand where you are coming from and my post is not intended on attacking you. I applied to 7 universities at the end of my senior year of high school. I made it into 5 of them, the 2 that I missed out were Colombia and NYU.
I had an interview for Colombia and immediately recognized I was not going to get in due to my lack of extra curricular activities. Did I cry and complain why someone else did? Focus on yourself first. Results are what matter and Malala despite what you may think of her, has achieved more in her short life than you and I have. I tried out for the mock trial team first semester which is one of the top 10 in the country. I got torn to shreds by the professor during my cross-examination. But it was my fault. I didn't give up my hopes of being a lawyer. I got hungrier to succeed next time. There should be no such thing as free time when you are a student. You wake up, go to school, do extra-curricular activities, volunteer, hit the sack. Everybody who applies to top universities has high grades. What separates everyone is what they have achieved outside of the classroom and what can they add to the institution. So are you gonna bite your tongue and get accepted or keep crying cause nobody held your hand? Good luck and hope you make it.
Thanks for all the advice. Much appreciated. Read post #2099 tho.
Oh and btw, I'm already studying at RMIT since Feb 2017, therefore I wouldn't call it "crying" if I talk about it 10 months after being rejected.
An inspiration to billions around the world except to her own country people. Makes me sad.
Why isn't she a hero to some people in Pakistan? I genuinely have no idea.
Combination of false understanding of national pride, misogyny, jealousy, and a lack of critical thinking (thus believing in wild conspiracies theories). It's not just the men or the uneducated - the dislike for her goes crosses gender, economic, educational, and ethnic lines.
Why isn't she a hero to some people in Pakistan? I genuinely have no idea.
Why isn't she a hero to some people in Pakistan? I genuinely have no idea.
Because Pakistanis despise people who show them the mirror.They despise people who point out the nation's shortcomings.They despise people who raise awareness about issues because , according to them, it brings infamy to the nation.
So according to them, turning a blind eye to the shortcomings of one's nation is the solution?
If a person supporting a basic human right would be deserving of a Nobel Peace Prize and the highest civilian award in Pakistan then 90% of all humans would be Nobel Laureates.
I see nothing special in what she's done so far. Only twist to her story is that she got shot by narrow minded terrorists and survived.
You get shot in the face first and then we will talk more about it.
See, that's why you can't argue with Malala fans. Getting shot in the face is not and should not be a criteria for getting a Nobel Peace Prize.
And please don't talk to me about getting shot in the face.
My Shia community get blown to pieces/targeted by target killers throughout Pakistan especially Hazara community so we know what it feels like. We don't need you or Malala to remind us of any of that.
Talk with strong arguments not silly one-liners.
Tell me one thing that Malala has done ON HER OWN that none of us could've done. Or keep living in this delusion that Malala is some sort of extraordinary heroine who has saved or helped Pakistan/Pakistani lives while ignoring people like Ansar Burney, Sarim Burney, Edhi/Chhipa, "Fix It" founder Alamgir and countless more who've actually come out of the comfort of their homes and achieved something and saved lives through their own hard work and hard-earned money.
Again, I'm not accusing her of being anti-Pakistani/foreign agent but I feel hers is just a case of being hyped to the moon by the whole world for no apparent reason. She's just a normal girl who's good at studies and got shot by terrorists for speaking out for female education. ABSOLUTELY NO BIG DEAL IN THAT.
Wise people say: You could not make every one happy.
Sir, your case is exactly this one. You are finding faults in Malala even though it is not her fault that she impressed the world more than Burni. It is normal human behaviour where some times one action becomes more famous than the other.
There are many (or at least few) in the league of Burni, who are doing excellent social work.
But see, how many Malalas are there who are fighting for the girl education right from the age of 12, despite living exactly in the area of Taliban?
Burnies are great, but Malala is different.
Burnies are great, but due to this difference in Malala's story, Taliban was compelled to shoot her.
Taliban didn't shoot Burnies while they didn't feel threatened enough from their work while they were working in the big cities which were not the Taliban centre. But Malala fought right from the middle of the centre of Taliban, which Taliban could not have ignored.
Malala indeed inspired the girls in her neighbourhood, her columns indeed inspired the youth in whole Pakistan, and then whole world was inspired by the bravery and insight of this small girl.
Malala may not be special, but what she did, it was really very very very special at that time.
^Please see point 2 in my response above yours. I agree that it's likely not enough to get a Nobel Peace Prize but the bar for that has fallen in recent years (Obama, etc.). But that still doesn't take away from her courage and bravery at the age of 12.
Plus even if she did win it "undeservedly," why not use her to promote Pakistan (see point 4)?
I would've called it courage and bravery if she had continued her "rights activism" in Pakistan AFTER getting shot.
Ok so you don't think she's done anything to deserve the fame. Now you have two choices:
1. attack her at every mention of her name in hopes of trying to bring her reputation down and show non-Pakistanis that a person rest of the world admires is hated at home (which further sinks the reputation of a country already at the very bottom of opinion polls and grouped with war ravaged and rogue states)
2. accept that the rest of the world is not going to change their opinion on a Nobel Laureate and continue to look up to her (and by extension Pakistan). You can simply keep quiet and let others get a favorable view of Pakistan and its people.
Why do most Pakistanis choose 1?
It's shocking to read some of the replies on this thread. I wonder if our people will ever start thinking logically and not use religion as an excuse/basis for literally everything. What bothers me the most is how people overlook her contributions...She is one of rare ones who took a stand and raised her voice to bring change. There should be more people like her and that's the only way we will see progress in our country.
I have not heard religion used as an excuse against her. It's more of nationalist angle.
"She's bringing Pakistan a bad name" or "She doesn't do anything for Pakistan" etc etc
Ok so you don't think she's done anything to deserve the fame. Now you have two choices:
1. attack her at every mention of her name in hopes of trying to bring her reputation down and show non-Pakistanis that a person rest of the world admires is hated at home (which further sinks the reputation of a country already at the very bottom of opinion polls and grouped with war ravaged and rogue states)
2. accept that the rest of the world is not going to change their opinion on a Nobel Laureate and continue to look up to her (and by extension Pakistan). You can simply keep quiet and let others get a favorable view of Pakistan and its people.
Why do most Pakistanis choose 1?
Why do you wanna blindly follow what the world likes/dislikes?
Awaiting the world's approval for your opinions/actions is a fool's errand.
And why should I look up to her?
The reason for Pakistan's existence is enough for me to be proud of my motherland and its people.
Weren't you trying to get into a UK university? And you don't think the image of Pakistan has anything to do with how the UK gov't treats your application? Or gives you a visa?
For any Pakistani with any kind of ambition in studies, career, business, etc, the image of Pakistan matters because we live in a globally connected world. Why is there no foreign direct investment (FDI) in Pakistan? Why are no major companies setting up bases? Why do major international brands in Pakistan have little presence in the country? Etc Etc.
This is not about pleasing the world. It is about portraying Pakistan as a country which can be partnered up with for academia, business, trade, cultural exchange, etc. All of which benefits Pakistanis in the end.
And best way to do that is to let west give fame to people because they portray a bad image of Pakistan society for women obviously.... Malala is completely typical of how western nations give lessons by portraying other nations as regressive.... Some no name no talent girl who becomes world famous because it shows that Pakistan is a horrible place for girls.... Same as girl who was sentenced in Iran for not wearing hijab... Not anyone of the thousands of girls and boys from Pakistan and Iran who are achieving in science and medicine and literature and everything, just oppression Olympics...
0.001% in west know about Dr Abdus Salam or any of thousands of people from Pakistan who are truly great... But they go on and on and on about Malala in their media... And you think this is good for Pakistan?
It’s just usual colonial patronizing mindset... We Pakistanis should know our worth... We had many people to be proud of in the past and we will have many people to be proud of in the future... Don’t need western stamp on somebody for being shot in the head, we are much greater than that...
You think USA is defined by Neil Armstrong, Roosevelt and Hemingway or by the kids who got shot in school shootings?? Then why do they want to define us by some random girl who got shot???
Weren't you trying to get into a UK university? And you don't think the image of Pakistan has anything to do with how the UK gov't treats your application? Or gives you a visa?
For any Pakistani with any kind of ambition in studies, career, business, etc, the image of Pakistan matters because we live in a globally connected world. Why is there no foreign direct investment (FDI) in Pakistan? Why are no major companies setting up bases? Why do major international brands in Pakistan have little presence in the country? Etc Etc.
This is not about pleasing the world. It is about portraying Pakistan as a country which can be partnered up with for academia, business, trade, cultural exchange, etc. All of which benefits Pakistanis in the end.
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-partner="tweetdeck"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">The words Anne Frank wrote in this room still remind us to cherish and defend human rights. <br><br>Today, I am thinking of Palestinian and Rohingya children- and all around the world still struggling to achieve Anne’s dream of freedom.<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/HumanRightsDay?src=hash&ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#HumanRightsDay</a> <a href="https://t.co/jmFcYTkZoR">pic.twitter.com/jmFcYTkZoR</a></p>— Malala (@Malala) <a href="https://twitter.com/Malala/status/939860743893192705?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">December 10, 2017</a></blockquote>
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Small point : It is claimed Anne Franks diary was a forgery. It was amended using Ball Point pen, which was not invented at the time of WW2.
Small point : It is claimed Anne Franks diary was a forgery. It was amended using Ball Point pen, which was not invented at the time of WW2.
Well, as a Pakistani it was a proud moment for us that she won the Nobel peace prize. But, realistically, she didn't deserve it at all.
Abdul Sattar Edhi deserved it more than anyone else in our country. The next contender for Nobel prize must be Imran Khan, from Pakistan, as he has done a lot for humanity.
You see people usually don't do charity just like that, they need a name, or need an idol, and any charity is good charity.
So it doesn't matter if people, who suffered more than her, don't get the same limelight, how about praising someone who is getting limelight. Who cares if western liberals are using her name to show bad things about Pakistan. She is raising funding for good, great for economy, if under her name investors put their money for the good.
But why? There must be some reason why she is disliked. What wrong has she done to be disliked? Here in India she is held in high regards.
It's great she's going back to Pakistan and imo she should live there. It's also great whatever good she does too.
It's also great she is a millionaire now too.
It's great she's going back to Pakistan and imo she should live there. It's also great whatever good she does too.
It's also great she is a millionaire now too.
Yep how dare she make money by writing a best selling book. Shocking stuff really.
It's great she's going back to Pakistan and imo she should live there. It's also great whatever good she does too.
It's also great she is a millionaire now too.
So you’re advising her to live in Pakistan,where she was shot.Yet you are living in the UK yourself?
It's great she's going back to Pakistan and imo she should live there. It's also great whatever good she does too.
It's also great she is a millionaire now too.
She didn't write the book, it was ghostwritten by some British war correspondent. The problem with Malala is that she is used as a propaganda symbol for America's 'civilising the savages' war in Afghanistan and NWFP